Whom would you support,your father or your partner?
By lekhya
@lekhya (819)
India
February 14, 2012 2:16am CST
I have been in dilemma several times but couldn't get the solution to this problem.There wouldn't have been any problem when one of them is right.The actual problem arises when both are right.I get confused and don't know what to say and what to do.I kept quite thinking this would serve the problem but it has aggravated or worsened the situation even more.What do you think one should do then?
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2 responses
@lovelysofie (294)
• Indonesia
14 Feb 12
I think u should support ur father first,Coz he is always care u from ur borned till now.U can give support to ur partner too.But the important is ur father.Try to think U new know ur partner,and u know ur father since u borned.Ur father always for u whenhappy and u sad right.Thats my suggest.But its all up to u friend.good luck.dont be confuse.
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@lekhya (819)
• India
14 Feb 12
U can't say that simply,doing what u said doesn't seem so simple.I love both.I can't hurt any of them.Both are good.I don't know whether u are married,its tough to handle both the families at the same time.My father has done a lot to me,so i doesn't mean that i should support him blindly leaving behind my husband.Both are equally good.Thanks for sharing your opinion.Happy mylottin!
@lekhya (819)
• India
14 Feb 12
Oh great,am i looking so young with that false avatar of mine.Then let that stay for some more time.Its difficult here in india.I am like jam compressed between the two slices of bread.I have to sacrifice a lot to make either of them happy.But i am happy to do that still.
@lovelysofie (294)
• Indonesia
14 Feb 12
ooops sorry lekhya,i though u didnt yet marry.i was married.Long time i ever have problem same like u.Its not simply u right.But now we have our own life with our husband.So i think both is more important.so u should do fair with them.but u know the succes husband is cause of wife behind him.
@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
14 Feb 12
Hello lekhya,
I would go with what i like and won't see if its my father or my partner
.And in case if they both are right then really its difficult to take decision but then too i will try to consult someone who is closed to me and will then take decision after discussing with him/her.
.And in case if they both are right then really its difficult to take decision but then too i will try to consult someone who is closed to me and will then take decision after discussing with him/her. 1 person likes this
@lekhya (819)
• India
14 Feb 12
I feel its difficult to do that because i can't hurt anyone,i love them both.Yes it always better to consult someone,they may be capable of thinking better than us.They might have also faced such situations and dealt them better.You are right.Thanks for suggesting.Happy mylotting!
