How come the things that make you happy don’t make everyone happy?

@hunibani (720)
Philippines
February 14, 2012 3:25am CST
Are they insecure or its just they want to do the opposite of what you are doing? Or maybe the things which makes you happy is their failure? LOL :D Happy myLotting everyone :]
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@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
14 Feb 12
Mostly what is good for me is the best choice and I always care of my good choices should not hurt others so badly. Also, if my choice and my best things are enjoyable for me and found it will hurt others, I won't let them to know it or try to avoid their presence. If we enjoying it should not be hurting someone else. So, the best option is enjoy life the way we like and just take a note that it is not hurting anyone directly. Thank-s
@hunibani (720)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
What if that bad choice will make your family/loved once/ whomever you care the most be happy? And for others its not good? Which one would you care more? The feeling of your family or the others?
• India
14 Feb 12
We have our own individuality and that is what distinguishes between you and me. As an individual we would give priorities to our choice and we should take care it should not be a serious matter for others also. As you indicated, when it comes to family and dear/near ones, it will be always a challenge. In such cases, we need to have the topic to be discussed and come to a conclusion where both are agreeable or either of the party accept with least pain. As you may be aware, certain conclusions having equal importance or having a balance of 50:50 proportion. When it comes to topics, either of the parties have to suffer a little more. All these are depend on person to person and mostly their relatiosnhips also. Regards, Thank-s
@hunibani (720)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Yes, I understand. This is a very tough decision. Both parties need to suffer, but also I prioritize more the people I care. What I think is, if you take the action or not they always have something to say.
@9jbas22 (66)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
There is another way of answering your questions. Reverse your questions and you'll know the answer to your original questions. How come the things that make everyone happy don't make you happy? Are you insecure or it's just you want to do the opposite of what they are doing? Or maybe the things that make them happy is your failure? Happy mylotting hunibani.
• India
15 Feb 12
Each of us have likes and dislikes for things, this is different for each individual, more over mood is a factor, some thing that can make us happy now may create displeasure at other time, Thanks for nice discussion, welcome to mylot Professor
• Japan
15 Feb 12
I would say every individual has different principles,dislikes and likes. It would be boring if all people like everything you like or be happy to what makes you happy and there will be always an opposite to everyone.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
16 Feb 12
Well,i have thought that cause i'm happy and in addition,make others sorry for that.Only when i'm angry and just arguing something that didn't had a result,the thing is i'm right and causes other people's jealous.I would therefore tell myself to be generous and try to be a happy girl.lol
14 Feb 12
Everybody has different priorities in life.What you find intresting and wonderful might not look so to others and what intrests others might seem dull to you.As long as someone is not meddling in your affairs,let them live their own way.
• Malaysia
14 Feb 12
ya, i think different person have different reason to be happy, so not everything that make you happy will make other happy too. just for example, let said enemy, in my mind, enemy always hope that we get failure in our life, then they will feel happy. if you success in life, sure they will feel unhappy. haha :) happy mylotting