Things I fing strange when it comes down to people or should I say friends
By joystick
@joystick (1675)
February 25, 2012 8:05pm CST
I find it strange that one friend hears that another friend has broken up, or is just not seeing a person, they tend to try to get in touch.Do you think that some people tell other people things that make them look better when they hear of a broken friends ship.Now to me that is a person out to stir some rubbish up, but my friend is thinking of giving the other person the benefit of the doubt.Now if it was me and I had not seen this friend for over a year, then they keep getting in touch, knowing that the person is nor seeing the other person what would you think they really wanted.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
26 Feb 12
I am not quite sure that I follow you completely. From what I understand a friend has broken up with a boyfriend or Girlfriend and then another person has stepped in, a person your friend hasn't seen in a year. To me, I'd be thinking one of two things. Either that the person has a romantic interest in that person, OR they want to stir up trouble / start taking the "he is a , you are a" stance.
Either way seems a bit fishy and I'd be leery myself.
We are all nosey / judgey people.
@joystick (1675)
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26 Feb 12
I think that you are right.All female by the way and were all just friends.I think that one of them is trying to make matters worse than it really is, by saying it was the other person that did say something to another person in the past and they are trying to cause an argument.Told my friend to take a back seat, as I am sure that there is more to this than meets the eye, mainly as the timing of the contact.I would not trust either of them, as they have both lied to my friend, by what they have both said.
@Dominique25 (9460)
• United States
1 Mar 12
Yeah that is how some people are. Hopefully though what ever happens works out good. We don't like to see our friends hurt or upset so we try to protect them or give them a heads up. But each person will make their own decisions and will have to live with the consequences.
@celticeagle (189957)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Feb 12
I think that the word 'friend' is used quite losely now days. I think this could be true. SOme are like this. They aren't friends, maybe acquaintance. These people need to be ignored and not associated with. Demented.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
29 Feb 12
Honestly, I would think that the reason that the person is trying to get in touch with their friend is because of the fact that they might have ulterior motives in it. In other words, they might be interested in a relationship with the person that they haven't talked to in months.
I know for me, there are times that I lose touch with friends and I will try to get back in touch with them when I think about them and it doesn't matter if they've just gotten out of a relationship or not.
@WakeUpKitty (8691)
• Netherlands
26 Feb 12
To be honest I don't know what you exactly mean to say.
But it's def. true that people like to show off or do feel better if they tell around or know others are in missery.
