I am pleased that some people have advanced over the years and have grown up
By joystick
@joystick (1675)
February 25, 2012 8:38pm CST
Rather than cause an argument it is better to keep away from the person that has made you made, this is something that I have learn.I think that if people argue by saying things like he said and she said this, that and more and people try to deny it, I find it better to confront a person with proof, rather than going by what others say.So tonight I copied and pasted something and sent it in a email, along with a screen shot as well, am I bad, childish, or growing up to stop all of the he said and she said stuff, as I can only take so much, lol.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
26 Feb 12
I put some trash to the curb myself, a so called friend who only wanted to start fights with acquaintances and then act like they didn't start it and they were better then the other person. I hated the he said / she said crap and wanted to be out of the middle, so I just said "forget it, I don't care."
I wouldn't have c/p'd and forwaded anything to anybody, except I had to prove to another the immaturity of our so called friend.
@joystick (1675)
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26 Feb 12
It do make you feel better when you have proof in black and white, just to make a point to the other person, as that way they tend to shut up, as they do not really know what to say to you after that.I very much tend to get rid of the trash and never tend to return to the trash heap of childish friends, as they are the back stabbers and they never admit when they are in the wrong either.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
29 Feb 12
I do think that it is a good idea to stay away from people that have made you mad. However, I also think that there are many situations where that is not something that is possible. For example, when you have a fight with your spouse, it really isn't possible to stay away from them. In those kinds of situations, I think that it is very important for all people to learn to work out problems that they are having in a mature way.
@celticeagle (190011)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Feb 12
I think you may be reaching my state of mind. I have gotten to the end of my patience. Trying to make people understand my stand on something when they are busy talking(usually it is yelling)over me. I think you did right and i commend you for it.
@GemmaR (8517)
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26 Feb 12
A lot of people are very immature and if there is somebody who is upsetting you then you should do everything that you can to try and stop that from happening again. I was bullied at school and this meant that my school days were pretty much ruined by horrible people who didn't really deserve to get the attention that they did from me. You should never let pathetic people get to you, because you know that they're not worth it, and you deserve to enjoy your life without having to worry about these people.
@tipay26 (867)
• Philippines
26 Feb 12
I try to make it a point to stay away from heated arguments specially if the reason for that is just petty things.There are more important things to tackle in our daily life and we should make those our priority.It is true that when you want to clarify things out present them with your proofs so that things can be straightened up.
@craziestqueenever (1819)
• Philippines
26 Feb 12
It's because life is all about learning. Time will come that we will realize that there is one aspect of ourselves that is not in good terms with others. Life is what we make it. Learn to have a good relationship with others.
