...I have a sinking feeling that its gonna be rejected.

Philippines
March 9, 2012 7:10am CST
I don't why and but it is like a gut feeling in me. i just submitted a set of articles and the moment that I did, I realized that the set might be rejected. Perhaps, I'm too much steeped in the blue mood today and I am anticipating the worst. I know I am a good writer but sometimes, the rejection isn't easy to take. I take every precaution and cover my bases but fear still seeps in. it's a constant companion and it won't go away soon enough. Perhaps after a few hours, my views will change but it is a constant struggle. All part of the profession, I guess.
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
11 Mar 12
I hear you jeanney, every time I submit a paper for my class and I get an e-mail with my graded work, my stomach sinks and sometimes I don't open the e-mail until much later..Most of the time the news is good, but I still cringe. My novel I wrote is another story, (pun intended)and I still haven't submitted it, because of that fear of rejection. I guess it all comes down to what you said, "All part of the profession"
• United States
13 Mar 12
Yep, that is true and I really hope after classes are over next week, I cna really seriously work on my story and finally get it submitted. I know many here, on FB, and in real life have been looking forward to that day for a couple years now...
@allknowing (130063)
• India
9 Mar 12
If you feel that you have done a good job then rejections if at all will be based on criteria over which you have no control. You need to accept this situation and move on.
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
yes, there are definitely things that I have no control but it is so hard to accept a rejection since I put hard work and effort into it. I tried to create it as perfectly as possible to reduce the chance of rejection and I am often wondering whether they have accepted my work as worthy or not. I don't mind doing a resubmission but sometimes, it's hard to see things from their point of view.
@allknowing (130063)
• India
11 Mar 12
It would be nice if you hooked on to a site that tells you why your article was rejected. Have you tried iwriter? That is a site where only the one who wants an article accepts or rejects it and they pay well too.
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
Think positive,friend.Remember,thoughts become things.I know rejection is painful but if ever you'll be rejected which I doubt,take it as a lesson for you to improve yourself.Cheer up!Who knows?I just might be reading one of your works. :D
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
well, with the internet, everything is almost possible nowadays. Thanks for the advice. Really appreciated it.
@morgandrake (2136)
• United States
10 Mar 12
I think that I could wallpaper a room with the rejection slips that I have collected over the years. I do not think that any writer ever gets completely comfortable sending out their material or recieving rejections. But over time, you eventually start to rack up published articles and payments which tends to help you remember that some people actually like your material. In many ways, being a writer is like being a salesman--in order to make the sales, you have to keep knocking on doors.
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
Yes, keep submitting until someone likes your work and actually pays for it. It's never easy and it's draining sometimes but it has to be done one way or another. It's a good idea to rack things that were accepted or reviewed in positive as a good motivator to increase more work and to have reclaim some courage to try again.
• India
10 Mar 12
If you've been writing for a long, you instinctively know when your MSS is going to be rejected or not. The reputed publishers usually reject your article. However, if you have been writing for them for long, they will most probably accept your submissions and if they have a reason to reject, they will advise you what they are looking for so that you may improve the piece. Most other publishers than few reputable ones will most probably accept your submission if your work is good. However, there is no established writer who hasn't got lots and lots of rejections. You may like to take every rejection coming in your way as a step ahead in your goal. The idea here is to persist and continue writing. I used to feel bad about rejections in my early days of writing career. Today I am so used to rejections that my sense of hurt is erased.
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
I hope I will also come to that phase that rejections matter but not exactly on this kinda emotional and personal level. I accept the truth that some things will be rejected and I have shortcomings that resulted in those. Perhaps, I have not developed a thick hide (or may be it is already growing). I do get over it but sometimes I kinda needed space and time for that.
@boyuancy (1708)
• India
10 Mar 12
It is perfectly normal to feel like it. Believe me, even when I've written my best content, I have worried of getting rejected. Let's get a little practical here: even if your work gets rejected, I hope you have a backup copy of it. You can try re selling it at other places like digitalpoint or content current. Good luck.
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
I always got a back-up copy and I usually reserve them in case that the client doesn't rerun my sent article. Some of them just give instructions and not the article with the instructions. It's their prerogative and its easier to track things and the transactions itself. I'll check out those sites you mentioned.
@GardenGerty (157629)
• United States
9 Mar 12
I get that way myself. I do not write a whole lot, but I really take it to heart if I must revise the work or if it is not what is wanted. We will get passed it though, and do our best job. I need to go do an article right now.
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
Good luck to you and I hope I won't have to redo that set of articles. I already feel bad getting a resubmission but even worse ti if gets rejected altogether.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
That's part of life not all the time have a lucky charm in our hand. It is just if you believe in your self, you must trust your self. If you knew that you done all your best to make it good you should be proud of your self. But also sometimes we must expect things in balance so that if the outcome is not good at least it's not too hurt to accept.
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
I'm working on that aspect. I think I will need some time getting used to that even though it is reality and it does happen all the time. I guess i need to get used to it and think it as a natural thing rather than something that comes up occasionally.
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
I guess it comes natural since expecting it to be bad could mean lesser disappointment and greater relief. One other reason could be because you aren't so confident with your task. Anyway, good luck!
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
I guess you can also look this situation in that particular view. At least, they is already 'preparation' for the the possible rejection. However, it's not exactly a good feeling to linger on and feel in a cyclical mode. The only thing that will alleviate is either acceptance or that possible rejection.
@chulce (1537)
• United States
9 Mar 12
Hi Jeanne, I have been writing for years. I used to keep a box of rejection letters going over the specific reasons for the rejections. Most of them were simple form letters mentioning that it wasn't the right subject matter. I am always hesitant when I send off an article wondering if it is what the client is looking for or whether I did a good enough job. Right now, I am working on an article and making sure I research the subject matter well. There are times though, that you can't find the right information or enough information to give you a better understanding of the subject. Freelancing is a crazy world, but just remember you have to take the bad with the good. Plus, you can always submit your articles some where else. They are still your property and your work if they are rejected. There are many different companies out there looking for good writers. Keep your chin up and your fingers tapping to that next great article. Happy Writing!
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
You basically describe my situation and covered every aspects of it, I guess. It is a natural and very recurring situation, and I get to the dumps when I do get rejected because well, it does hurt my ego sometimes and I began to question everything that I have done with my job. but I usually get back to my feet again after some thinking time. Thanks for the advice.
@maezee (41997)
• United States
9 Mar 12
I think you're right - it must be part of the profession to get rejected. That's just how it is. I mean, I guess you could take it as a learning experience - don't allow it to get you down - just take the constructive criticism and move on and try again. The best thing you can do is not let it slow you down. Good luck to you & happy MyLotting!
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
There's definitely the earnings experience - not only in the work but to accept the rejection itself. The work is easy to accept since it is something that can be corrected, sometimes in an instant. The rejection part is not easy since it will take a lot of courage to try again. I often distract myself so that i could get back to the playing field (my cure for blocking that experience and move on. I do hope that my piece will be accepted and it might motivate me to go back with a lot of force!
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
I sometimes have that kind of feeling when I submit a work I've been tasked to do. But this happens when I know that I haven't really put 100% effort on it. It's as if something in me seems to be saying that I've forgotten to do one part of it. Well, that's me. If you've taken every precaution, I'm sure your articles are great. But if they are rejected, it doesn't mean it's not good. It's probably wasn't what they were looking for.
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
It's probably the reason and probably it would be better if they says so in their notice of rejection. It is hard to cater for someone and still won't know the reason. it would be an enlightening and leaning experience to know at least the fault or the things that made things unacceptable. That way, I or any person can learn form it and improve oneself. Others just give you a reject and nothing else to say.
@dazzledlady (1618)
• Philippines
10 Mar 12
I do not know the pressures that the writers go through because I am not a writer. But as of the feeling of being rejected, I guess I can related to that. Every time we submit term papers, take exams it is that feeling that will linger. Maybe because we anticipate to make good and have good results that we also expect for the worst. Hope the results are good.
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
I really hope so too. Those papers were a product of sweat, tears, blood and constant anxiety as well as frustration. In terms of anticipation, there is always the good and the bad. Only after a decision is made that we know whether what steps we should take next.