Seeing Changes at some point
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
Philippines
March 9, 2012 8:44am CST
Hello Lotters,
It's not the system or what ever upgrades that mylot had recently, it's the people. seems that I am experiencing what other vets had experienced 3 yrs ago when i was new and that is people come and go. but not just people, those specifically the ones you knew and have seen in person. Though I am not told what the real reason is, I feel sad about that. maybe i should have stick to mylot instead of that distraction. 
How did you feel when the one you knew left this place, of course, the one that is close to you and not the one you want to get rid off
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I am glad I added her on Facebook, not to mention, she's a friend to my Auntie on my father's side. what a small world indeed.
But mylot friends will miss her indefinitely.
How did you feel when the one you knew left this place, of course, the one that is close to you and not the one you want to get rid off.
I am glad I added her on Facebook, not to mention, she's a friend to my Auntie on my father's side. what a small world indeed.
But mylot friends will miss her indefinitely.4 people like this
8 responses
@sjvg1976 (42727)
• Delhi, India
10 Mar 12
Hello LK,
That's right we feel sad when someone close to us leave this place.There are many friends of mine who have left this place for one or another reasons.But then its their wish we can't force them to stick to this place.Presently i am too not much active here for some reasons.I don't know if people are missing me too or not but then its my choice.
There are many friends of mine who have left this place for one or another reasons.But then its their wish we can't force them to stick to this place.Presently i am too not much active here for some reasons.I don't know if people are missing me too or not but then its my choice.@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
Hello Sjvg,
Sad to know some one has to leave for reasons that "most" people don't know. I will respect them because of that. a lot has leave but why does she have to a well? it's very sad for me.
Sjvg,
Sad to know some one has to leave for reasons that "most" people don't know. I will respect them because of that. a lot has leave but why does she have to a well? it's very sad for me.
@hexeduser22 (7418)
• Philippines
10 Mar 12
People come and go, not only here in mylot but also in our lives as well. They may not able to provide an answer or reason why they left but I'm sure whatever those reasons are it is relatively important for them.
Let's just wish them well wherever they may go and be thankful that we got to know them in this life time.
Its sad to see someone go but after some time we all need to move on. Cheer up my friend. I'm sure she would never forget the wonderful things that you shared together here in mylot. Also mylot is always open and is very welcoming so when she decides to come back I'm sure she still have friends, like you, to welcome her back
Its sad to see someone go but after some time we all need to move on. Cheer up my friend. I'm sure she would never forget the wonderful things that you shared together here in mylot. Also mylot is always open and is very welcoming so when she decides to come back I'm sure she still have friends, like you, to welcome her back
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
Hello hexeduser, I can't believe I'm hearing my own words from you hahaha
. the difference is that i didn't feel what it feels like to have some one leave the social earning networks like mylot. maybe i let it myself affect so much about it, you're right i think i'll be fine but i'll be worrying about her too
. the difference is that i didn't feel what it feels like to have some one leave the social earning networks like mylot. maybe i let it myself affect so much about it, you're right i think i'll be fine but i'll be worrying about her too
@drknlvly6781 (6246)
• United States
11 Mar 12
I am finding out there were some changes that people didn't like here recently. Other than that though, people coming and going in Mylot is quite normal. Newbies come and go quickly when they find that earnings are slow when you aren't really interested in what's going on here. People get tied up in real life and interested in other things, even vets have their periods where they just no longer come and post for months, sometimes years (I know I have)
But I know that as long as Mylot is here, there's no way that everyone will leave at once. That goes to say there will always be some activity and interesting people here. That's why you should always continue to add people whom you share interest with and like to post thoughtful responses and topics. That way you will always have someone to talk to here.
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
I have friends who I referred to but never stick around so I feel a little disappointed, but in the case that you described, I believe the disappointment is to a very saddening level. I have noticed some users that aren't as active as before, and even a few that have not appeared for quite some time now and I do miss them at a certain level. I have noticed that even you have not been around lately. I guess the company we make here can really get to a personal level and somehow we feel the sadness when they leave, especially if without clear reasons. I hope I'll stick around longer, or at least occasionally visit.
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
Hello choybel, I understand that, but i wasn't referring to referrals that are you're friends. didn't even feel bad when some of my referral friends didn't come back since they had work and work is more important. at least i know her facebook though i might try to talk to her there some time
@akp100 (13647)
• India
9 Mar 12
Hi LK
I don't know any mylotter personally. But yes many lotters are my good friends now. Its feels very bad when someone close friend left this site for some reason. So far yes many good friends left this site and with some of them I am still in contact some how.. It is like this. No one can stay for ever here. And also we keep making other good friends as time pass. But surely it feels bad when someone close friend left this site.
I don't know any mylotter personally. But yes many lotters are my good friends now. Its feels very bad when someone close friend left this site for some reason. So far yes many good friends left this site and with some of them I am still in contact some how.. It is like this. No one can stay for ever here. And also we keep making other good friends as time pass. But surely it feels bad when someone close friend left this site.@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
Hello akp, I have seen her once and asked repeatedly to have another meet up with me and the others, but i was too preoccupied but others get to their get together.We won't forget her and I'd never forget her as one of my good friends. too bad it's only this month where i got active for some reason.
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
Oh, how she treated you now? I hope things will be back and it will be more better..People do change, i always pray that people around me change into a better one..
Don't get to affected on her, unless you really treasure her, deep within you.lol
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
Hello Nurseclare, 
I guess right now you don't know whom am talking about right? unfortunately am not always 
stone cold when it comes to circle of friends. i wouldn't have give a damn about anyone else but for some one you kn0w on mylot who's about to quit for reasons you don't know? that's even sadder. have a nice day
I guess right now you don't know whom am talking about right? unfortunately am not always stone cold when it comes to circle of friends. i wouldn't have give a damn about anyone else but for some one you kn0w on mylot who's about to quit for reasons you don't know? that's even sadder. have a nice day
@mylesnarvaez (5450)
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
hi lk!
as the saying goes... one thing that is constant in this world is... change.
and yes, people do come and go. in mylot, even the most active is not a permanent fixture around here. we come and go as we please. at our own free will. in our own sweet time.
it may be a bit different when the ones who left are the ones you have personal encounters with. but cheer up. coz the ones who left may still come back. just like what happened to several others. sometimes people just need a breather.
it saddens me when some mylot friends leave. but i know they have their own reasons. so what else can we do... except to wish them well in all their endeavors.
it saddens me when some mylot friends leave. but i know they have their own reasons. so what else can we do... except to wish them well in all their endeavors. 
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
10 Mar 12
Hi Letran Knight: I have met lots of people here in the site but I must confess that even if some of my friends are really cool and I enjoy just by reading their discussions, I have never felt so deeply involved with someone. So when a friend of mine suddenly disappear I will miss his/ her discussions and the subjects he usually talk and share with us but day after day I meet new people that somehow compensate this absence.
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