Being inlove is not so good.

Philippines
March 21, 2012 10:36am CST
Have you ever been inlove? Horrible isnt it? Well, in my case. LOL. It makes you so vurnerable.At first, you found happiness. But then again, it opens up your heart meaning, this person or someone can get inside of you and mess you up. Then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life giving them a piece of you which you didnt ask for. They did something whatever one day like kiss you or smile at you and now your life isnt your own anymore. Love gets inside you, eating you and crying in the darkness. Its a soul hurt, real gets inside you and rips you apart pain.
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15 responses
• China
24 Mar 12
yeah.but i think the happiness more than sorrows,didn't you? so don't lose ur confident about love.it's a wonderful...
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
2 Jul 12
i don't ensure we have the happiness more than sorrows...but i should agree with you, we should not lose our confident about love...
@wmraul (2552)
• Bucharest, Romania
21 Mar 12
That you describe is "experiencing being dumped by one I trust". I know is painfully but there's nothing you can do to cure. Time is the only medicine. But cheer up. Maybe is first time but it will happen again. And again. So, don't worry ....(see/listen the link bellow ) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oo4OnQpwjkc
• Philippines
2 Jul 12
=)
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
2 Jul 12
Hi khamaei, When you fall in love you should be ready to take all the risk, it will never guarantee you that they would love you back the way you want it. It should always give you the wonderful feeling, if you think you had given enough but it haven't returned to you the same, then that relationship is not for you, maybe you should just be thankful that your path crossed, and it should give you a lesson. Giving your best on the relationship should never give you the feeling that you have wasted your time, it should give you the feeling of appreciation, the feeling of contentment, and the feeling of happiness because you know to yourself you wouldn't be blame on for the relationship has ended. Sometimes, people come and go to teach us lessons in life, and people who stays are the ones for real. So think of it, that if people stay with you, you'll be thankful because those are for real and will never hurt you. Just don't stop believing that the right person will come on the right time, just don't lose hope. Happy mylotting...
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
2 Jul 12
What i can talk ..it is a life...that's why love is broken and we may have ex-...well, we have no choice is just face to it.... I am in relationship right now but sometime it is sweet, sometime love is bitter...
27 Mar 12
I have never fallen in love but I want to. Being in love is good or bad you can understand only by falling in love. Human is always look for happiness and seeking love is natural. no mater you are happy or not every time you need someone to love you.
• India
4 Jul 12
You can’t control when you are in love to someone. If he cheats you, he’s not a good man to you at all. It’s excruciating. You are not meant for each other and not compatible with each other. You haven’t meet Mr. Right yet who’ll never cheat you and hurt you just like that. Being in love is good when right time comes who will love you unconditionally and sincerely.
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
21 Mar 12
Being in love and getting hurt almost always go together. You won't get hurt if don't don't care about the person. It is also a good learning experience. Whether you come out of it happy or miserable, there is always a lesson to be learned.
• Indonesia
22 Mar 12
I thought I've ever been in love but now Im not sure about it. Im not sure if i was really fall in love, or perhaps I was in love with the idea of falling in love itself. One of the best advices I ever got is dont love a love, that is hurt. but sometime we dont know that we are in love with the idea of falling in love and we hurt ourself. Im not really sure about it, I do not have a lot of experience in being in love. I was once or twice thought that I was in love but it was probably just my own imagination, my own obsession because everyone has their own lover...so why im alone? I had crush with a person and I mistaken it as love, I hurt myself and I learnt from it. i've learnt my lesson. love is not horrible, love is not hurt, it is our ego and our obsession that hurt our feeling. do not blame the love, but learn from it because everything happen for a reason. just because someone doesnt love us the way we want them to love us, it doesnt mean the person is hurting us. actually no matter how hurt it is, but Im glad I ever felt it, it is make me feel alive and it is make me feel human because I was once thought that my heart is frozen. *best regard from me a person who still learning about love*
@almond24 (1248)
• Hungary
22 Mar 12
You have beautifully described how painful it can be. Sometimes it feels like suffering from the worst pains forever for just a little happiness in our heart. Love is not necessarily has to be like that, but yes, opening your heart makes you vulnerable, and once you opened your heart it's not easy to have control over the feelings.
@tagakolo (46)
• United States
21 Mar 12
It is not all the time that being inlove is horrible,If you fall inlove with a wrong person it might be.You just need to be careful of whom you trust and give your heart with.You need to know the person really well before involving your life with him,and if you do fell inlove dont give it all to him,you need to leave some for your self too.
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
being inlove with someone is one of the beautiful feeling. But when you fall inlove with the wrong one, no one can describe the pain you're going through. But it doesn't mean that you should stop from loving, it's a gift you know. What I wanted to say is that if your not happy with it anymore, leave him. Don't waste another day being with someone that makes you sad and cry.
@Cyncr83 (15)
• United States
21 Mar 12
They say love is pain! But I think that we can control it sometimes! I always go with the flow! Like if it happens to me it happens but if not, it's ok, there should be something else out there for me, you know?
• Guyana
21 Mar 12
beingin love is a good thing but being open up is not so good always expect the unexpected (every one cheats andbreak heart
• Australia
22 Mar 12
There is pro's and cons but i think it is worth it. Even though sometimes it can end badly there will always be the good memories you will never forget
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
well, I'm sorry for your incident sis, But being in love is the greatest feeling that a person could experience, being in love and loving someone is the most wonderful thing in the world. Though there are two sides of the coin, sometimes we can get hurt,sometimes we can be very happy. but its up to us. Life is to short to consider all the negative vibes. The world has a lot of beautiful things and finding love is one of them. So cheer up and smile. Sometimes we need to get hurt for us to now what is our worth.