i hate my husband when he do that

of course.. because you love him even you don`t like one of his bad habit, but overal you still miss him.. iam indonesian too akmalia... nice to see many indonesian here

My husband puts his dirty clothes on my bed, too and he has other bad habits like leaving the all the cupboards open instead of closing them when he has used them, but I think that those things are small things and I live with them, because I love my husband. I do most of the cleaning and all of the laundry, but I spend more time at home than my husband does so I think that it is okay that I do most of the housework. We have many pets and we take care of them together. My husband helps me walk the dog and sometimes he cleans the rabbit's and guinea pig's cages. It is nice that I don't have to take care of the pets alone.

how i wish my wifey would see the same on me

Sounds like maybe your husband should show you a little more respect. He may work but he needs to realize that you do too. Have a talk with him about this and hopefully he will stop putting his dirty shirts on your bed and will help you more around the house.

haha,Sometimes I also hate my boyfriend's temper. He is not patient.I can accept it when he is in bad mood.Otherwise I will voice out.I told him about this several times and now he is better in this aspect. I think you can talk to your husband seriously if you think his behavior is not good. You rely on your husband very much, right?haha

I do not think you hate your husband; but you dislike some of the things he does. I think that you have a very good relationship with your husband. Therefore, you can arrange to have a healthy discussion with him to speak about any topic (including expressing to each other, the things that both of you dislike being done to each of you). But of course, you already know these things and have discussed some of the topics on several occassions. Continue to do so, ok? Ooh, why do you call the bed that you share with your husband, your bed?

well, it's not him i hate. it's the thing he does that i hate. he chews with his mouth open. that is one of my pet peeves. he knows it too. what i like is that he tries to be respectful and not do. i try to be patient in return because i know it's a habit that may be em-bread and hard to break. i also know what you mean about missing him when he is gone. he is out with our son and i missed them both.