Sister is Moving Away :(

This is one reality about life. Nothing is permanent even relationship with our loved ones.No, I never said, the relationship is over, what I mean is, she's now about to face another pace of her life and needs to live away from you and the whole family. Same thing when your time comes to build your own home as well. You will surely miss all the things that you and your sister used to do, yes, even the misunderstanding and the fights. You are now missing her, but I am sure you are even happier that she's going to be a mom soon and you will be an auntie too. :)

sis, let's face it... no matter how much you miss your sister... with the new and exciting addition to your family, you can't expect her to remain your roommate forever. hehe when your time comes, you'll know how it is... you'll know how it feels. tell you what... you can make up by playing the devoted auntie by the time she delivers. i know it's hard to let go a quarter of century's worth of spending togetherness with your sister, but hey... you can always visit. cheer up goddess. hehe tc i'm playing nanny as of this writing. my sis-in-law gave birth last march 8th and she has been staying with us since feb in anticipation to the birth. and her 2 year old has rocked our world, figuratively and literally speaking. but i do love my family and there's very little we won't do for our family... even if the entire household and my home office looked like an army of toddlers paid a visit and decided to stay. hehe even if there was just 1 two-yo actually.

Hi bhaby! Your feelings for your dear sister is understandable and it is for sure that when she parts company, you would 'miss' her and so would she. You could get in touch with her through mobile/PC/net etc. All the best

Hi Bhaby, in my case, i am the one that have to move away from my parents home when i got married a few years ago. My parents, sisters and brother said their home become quiet and boring without the present of me. Luckily now, after a few years leaving them, i am finally able to stay nearby them again. Because my hubby is going to buy another house, just nearby to them, so easy to take care of my parent as well. Just hope my wish will become a reality.

I know how it feels, bhaby. I have four siblings, but no one is with us now. My two siblings already passed away, and the other two are staying in another country which is very far away from us. Whenever I see my sister, I want to chat with her like before but it's no longer possible. She already has a family, and we don't have enough time to chat the whole day like we're doing before.

It is quite common to miss the ones who is dear to you. Life cannot be dumped into waste if we even miss the dear ones. Anway life has to go one. You have to adjust with it and live the rest of life. Distance do not break the relations. This is very true and i had proved it myself. So keep your relations tightned even you are away from each other. Now it is the time to fix the root of your relation deep inside your heart with care and love.

I can understand that you are going to miss your sister. But, isn´t it wonderful that she will be starting her own family? You can go to visit her later and you will have your share or the love of your niece or nephew.

Hello Babycatch, How are you? I beg to differ in my situation I was happy when they left. most specially that other brother of mine because he disregards our daily expenses and my mom kept paying for it high. now, that they have moved out, they realized how hard it is to save money and pay bills themselves. As for me, I won't be thinking of settling down at all. though i admit being depressed most of the time, I am happy being single and can do what ever i want. You'll get over it. in fact, the fights will be lessened and you will get along even more

Hi bhaby catch: I can understand the mixed emotions. In one hand you should feel happy for your sister because she is starting a new exciting life that is good for her but you miss her. If we love someone we have to let go sometimes. ALVARO

Honey beti Sorry for the late response again, my blessings to the cute baby, i have seen all the pictures in FB. Yes she has to go, all girls have to. Wish you get your soulmate soon. Blessings and hugs from Baba

It really breaks my heart to see someone we love leave. I hate goodbyes,I hate to see them leave. But that's life my dear friend,sometimes goodbyes are for the betterment of many. At least you can still visit your sister whenever you like. I miss yah my dear friend,take care always!

Hello bhabycatch013, I know what you feel and i felt it before when my sister got married, I was so upset a day before her wedding knowing that she will move away with her husband. She is my favorite sister and after she got married she kinda busy with her new life and then she could not hang out with me as much as before. We used to hang out together but now I have to force myself to be an independent girl. the same question as the other mylotter have asked, how far is your sister's new house? probably you both can visit each other. and not forget that we have all these technologies cellphone, internet who can connect us wherever we go. I know it wont be the same as talking in person face to face doing everything together but it is better than nothing at all.

Hello friend, it is a very sad news. I have a sister and i am also fighting with her. We also have a misunderstanding everyday. But we love each other very much. It is true we fighting with which person we love her very much. I think you go to her house soon. You contact with him my phone or internet. I think it will help you. Have a nice day.

Hi friend, sad to hear about this, quarrels and misunderstandings are quite common between siblings, but we have more love and affection with them. Hope you will meet her frequently and enjoy a lot with her.

I lost my parents ten years back and my younger brother has now moved to a different country that time he was unmarried now he has a wife and a kid , first he moved to a different state for his wife and now to a different country. I hardly know my nephew. But then have learned to take it in my stride, this is what is written so mote it be, ind. Its for his good he has moved and if that makes him happy I am determined to be happy for him. Because I love him

I feel your saddness. What your feeling is normal and would eventually would fade away. How far is she moving away? if its close enough maybe u can go see her. im 30 and i live far away from them. they all live close together except me, my brother, and a sister that got transfered to New York for 3 yrs...and we are all getting together for a wedding and i am so excited to see everyone together once again!! I remember when i SBBS(secret best big sister) moved away to live with her boyfriend. I was mad at her cuz i thought she loved him more than me...that was not the case :)thank goodness!!! surprisingly..we didnt fight either. anyways im sure u 2 will find some other way to reconnect :)

In life you has to miss the ones which you love. This is a reality and you has to accept it. The life has to go on so you have to accept it without any restrictions. It is quite natural to feel pain inside when you miss your lovely ones. I has also the same pain inside me because I miss my sister. She has went for her higher studies distant away from me but still I have to leave her.

hi bhabycatch, i understand how you feel. we have the same feelings when i move out from parents to start my own. every weekend my family(partner & kid) we visited them and sleep in my parents house. and i just couldn't help my eyes shed tears every time i miss them even though we see each other every weekend. but it's part of our life that when we want to settle down and make our own family we should get out from our shell so that we can learn. same here! happy mylotting