how to build a good relationship with someone?

Indonesia
April 3, 2012 5:16am CST
i have never a boyfriend before.i think get a relationship with a boy can make i don't focus to study.but you know,someday a girl/ boy get "puberty" and she/ he begin to like his/her opposite gender same like me. i' afraid to fail to make a realtionship with a boy who i like.. what is your suggestion??
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@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
5 Apr 12
Finish your study, have goals in your life, that way you are someone. A personality. Only this way you are interesting. Men love to catch what they can't get. At the moment love knocks on your door there is nothing you can do wrong. There are no rules how to behave. The only thing you should remember is to stay who you are! You can't force a relationship, it takes time, trust, you have to be reliable and don't forget to smile a lot.
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 12
but she is falling in love..what is your suggestion for someone who had felt a love??
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 12
so i think just focus with your study now.. iam afraid that now your focus is more about the man that you like than the teacher when gives you lesson
• Indonesia
5 Apr 12
hahha..don't be afraid... i can separate my study and him.. the problem is the man in my college and i always see him ,
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 12
really?? i am not sure.. he is your college friend and of course everyday you can see him
• Indonesia
5 Apr 12
of course i can -_- haha..that's true but maybe i should forget him for a while
• United States
5 Apr 12
I had my first crush, meaning I liked my first boy, when I was 5! To make Any relationship work, you need good communication. It helps if you are good friends first and then add romance.The best thing to do is be yourself, let love find you. Take Care.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
5 Apr 12
When you want to build a good relationship with someone, you have to have the good intention of doing it. I think what you are talking about here doesn't just about friendly relationship but beyond to that level. If you like someone and you want to get closer to that person, I would say that you have to be yourself and be friendly. It all starts from being friends. If there is already mutual understanding then good for you. Just make sure you don't fool him.
@kaeirole (668)
• Philippines
5 Apr 12
don't rush things..it's better to concentrate on studies first..relationship will come along..just enjoy your studies and friends..and just don't forget to be yourself and always make yourself presentable..
@jbf111967 (137)
• Philippines
3 Apr 12
I did not understand what are you trying to impart? is it a good relationship to people or a love relationship. Like falling in love and having a relationship with someone.
• Indonesia
3 Apr 12
i mean "fall in love" sorry make u confused :0
@enavnai13 (509)
• Philippines
5 Apr 12
I don't think relationships can be a destruction if you only set priorities.. It's actually good if it turns out to be your inspiration.. Falling in love is normal for people.. So don't be scared.. Though love is always accompanied by pain.. But it will help to grow.. Good luck with your future relationship..
@Simon1223 (903)
• China
4 Apr 12
You mean how do you establish a relationship with a boy you like? Since you take a shine to that boy, I'm sure that the feeling will guide you in the process. Specifically speaking, you should always take him seriously and care him in the daily life. So long as you do these sincerely, he will feel your love towards him. He will also show his love by conduct which you could feel. Such interaction will promote your affection.
@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
4 Apr 12
Don't worry yourself too much about this. These things tend to happen naturally. And even if you never had a boyfriend before, you'll know what to do when the right one come along. And if you just follow your heart responsibly, the relationship should not hinder your studies. Perhaps it will even motivate you to study harder and reach your goals timely.
@else22 (4317)
• India
4 Apr 12
Do you mean,you want to have a boyfriend? I am a male and I would like to make friends with a girl who knows me.I too would like to know about her.In my opinion,knowing about your friend is the most necessary thing to befriend him or her.Equally important is respecting him or her.Respect his liking and talk about them.Try to know what he likes and what hurts him. See to it that you never hurt him. Try to share his joys and sorrows.Boost his morale if sometimes he feels downbeat.I think,that's enough. Expect the same things from your boyfriend.If he does not respect you or if he ignores you or if he shows indifferent to your joys and sorrows,break up with him immediately. But never neglect your studies.
• Philippines
3 Apr 12
LOVE always comes with PAIN. They are twins, when you love automatically you'll get hurt. So you should accept that fact and don't be afraid about it. BUT since you are still young don't rush things, LOVE comes always on a perfect timing. You'll never know when it will come to you. So don't look for it. AND if ever that day comes, please be responsible with yourself and with your future relationship.