Many singles looking for marriage,but not love.

Hello friend, You are right my friend. I also agree with you about this matter. All are looking for marriage. When they love someone they think of marriage first. It is not right. Have a nice day.

Its very hard to manage a marriage when you are in love with your partner , can you imagin without love , they will finishing hatting eachother , thats my oppinion. Is better just love and live with the one you love , doesnt matter if we are married or not.

Yeah some people are just merely looking for the status of being married. Because there are many realms of society where marriage is something that people tend to expect at a certain age and they get looked at rather funny. Which is something that I never agree with and never will agree with. Some just are not the marrying type, which is just one point where many cannot get through their head. And obviously, those who are looking for love have the exact right idea. Love can lead to marriage after all. Some people just go straight to marriage, without thinking if they can get along with this person and want to spend the rest of their lives with them. It is something where people just want different things and many of these things are things that they want expected them.

LOL, I can tell your nationality from your headline, Jricky1. Indeed, blind dates are quite common in our country. And frankly, i have been through some. Those compulsary dates made me awkward and embarrassed. To my mind, the popularity of blind date is caused by our inner pressure,which come from our parents, alumni, relatives, even strangers.Despite some really strong people who can ignore all the rumors and pressure, most people are normal. And it is impossible to overlook such things. So what we can do at best is to try to find our Mr. or Mrs. Right and avoid any negative influnce. Have a nice day !

It is same in my country. However, I think it is not bad aslo, because i see many couples still live in happiness even though they were not in love before married. With a time, they love each other and have kids. Feeling comes with family life because at that age, they know how to take responsibility for their activities and easily understand each other. Many couples were in love in a long time, as if they understand each other a lots, but they still get divorced after a short time in family life also. The main thing to keep married life is how to treat a partner and then can live together in complete concord, i think.

I think reality of love is only experienced when someone is still young and time by then is not an issue. But as time goes, the barriers seems to form as one feel lonely and as if there is no one who would fell interested in such a person. This forces people to go for adventure love, whose destiny is just but a dream. Although we have many people whose marriage became a success after blind-dating and marriage, there is high possibility that the two live like strangers in better part of their lives. The fact is, this form of marriages are now taking over. People who have lost hope in love, those who just what a companion, those who hope for getting Mr or Mrs Right in blind dating are impressing this idea. At the end, life must continue with or without love!

Long time ago, our ancestors are used to fixed marriages. I think somehow, that history relates to what's happening in today's world, but instead of their parents arrangig their marriage, they now do it on their own thru online dating. For whatever reasons they have behind such activity, it's their preference and we need to respect that. They have risks to take, and I'm sure they've thought about it well enough before entering into such relationships. I would not marry just for the sake of marriage, that would be torture for me.

It is true. When people get older, they fear that they would not get married in time. For women, this is true since they have a biological time clock ticking. If they do not get married before 30 or at their early thirties, they would have a hard time in getting pregnant. So these people just want to get married. On the other hand, teenagers and people on the early twenties are just looking for someone to hang out with and they do not really want to settle down just yet. This is the stage where they are playing the field and meeting a lot of people so that they could select the ones they like and ignore the ones they do not like. This is my opinion on this matter. happy mylotting.