Do you think you make too many arguments than you should?
By deodavid
@deodavid (4147)
Philippines
April 12, 2012 5:51pm CST
Hey there gang,
Well I think that there are some people that argue to much with other people, my girl before we fixed things we always used to argue and i think there
are just times that she would want to argue even though it is the smallest thing to be argued about, i hate that it seems none sense, but we kinda fixed it
and i told her that she needs to work on it and she is.
4 responses
@deodavid (4147)
• Philippines
17 Apr 12
Hey there gale,
Wow a guy who talks a lot hmm i also do that at times I'm like Patrick Dempsey in grey's anatomy I'm chatty but if i was the one who did something wrong or the issue is a small matter i let it pass, i talk mostly when i am happy and when i wanna share my thoughts to my gal. I also hate arguments and confrontations.
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@cloud31 (5808)
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13 Apr 12
Some arguments it just a mess sometimes.Some argument helps us understand each other.And after a quarrel we find that feelings grows fonder. But small things and incidents a reason of arguments will hurt the relationship and make the situation even worse.I don't argue that much but when I did there must be a valid reason unless I need attention 
and he didn't notice then it will be a valid reason for me to argue although in my thought it is invalid.
Sounds complicated.lol
and he didn't notice then it will be a valid reason for me to argue although in my thought it is invalid.Sounds complicated.lol
@laken02 (3065)
• United States
13 Apr 12
i am wroking on that myself as we speak, and in order not to argue you have to be able to accept when your wrong at all times and not argue back stand accountable for your bad actions and too you have to be quite more often and not get involved in things you have no business.. and you must listen as often peopple who like to argue dont let you finish becasue they dont listen they just want to prove there point and now its not about who is wrong or right it is about best choice .. take care
@deodavid (4147)
• Philippines
17 Apr 12
Hey there laken,
On all points you are correct, acceptance of the mistaken and not really fighting anymore, letting the other person vent out and just taking in what is being said so that you can learn from it apologize and execute better in the future, avoid unnecessary arguments with others.
@rewardsinlife (1132)
• United States
13 Apr 12
I personally don't like to argue, but have found that I can be passive aggressive at times. Also, sometimes I don't argue and still am mad about something it can well up and end being a huge thing, when it had only started as a small little thing. I think speaking your mind on issues to a point can be healthy, but constantly arguing day and night is not that healthy. What did you find you argued most about with your girlfriend?
@deodavid (4147)
• Philippines
17 Apr 12
Hi there rewardsinlife,
Well most of the time it is just small details about the style of clothes i wear and if i am late for our date but most of the time I am early, those small things.
Me I don't like to argue, what i want is acknowledge the problem apologize for it and assure her that it will never happen again and i really don't do it again, sorts like that.
