I was fooled! Lol! Remember my YM BF?
By tess_quinain
@tess_quinain (1149)
Philippines
April 18, 2012 5:18pm CST
Do you remember the last time I posted here on mylot? I was talking about my YM boyfriend. Gosh, I was fooled. Everything he has said on the chat was all a lie. I didn't expect him to do that to me. I should have not believed him. Now, my heart was again broken. Haha. I don't totally love him. It is just that I long to have a boyfriend. I thought he was serious but actually not. Well, I guess he's married that is why he never contact me anymore. He's here now in my country for a month. Oh, I hate him. Why do people have to lie and hurt other people? I don't understand them. Now, I learned a lesson. 
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9 responses
@tess_quinain (1149)
• Philippines
24 Apr 12
really? lol..that is why we shouldn't put our complete trust online.
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Apr 12
I had this happen to me, before I met my husband online. It took me a while to get past it and trust another guy online but I knew there was something different about my hubby...
The guy that hurt me was married, with kids and cheating. I found out by a friend chatting with him and he told her it was nothing serious between us, his marriage was just boring him so he needed a little fun!!
It hurt a lot. I am glad I did not give up though because I never would have met my husband if I did.
I am sorry you were hurt this way too and I hope you find someone special. Don't give up, he is out there waiting for you! 
@tess_quinain (1149)
• Philippines
18 Apr 12
We have been chatting for six months! He is sweet and full of promises. I even tried to break up with him because i know that it isn't good and I am afraid of falling for him. But he kept on holding me back. Ugh. He said he loves me and blah blah.blah.. oh my..i would never do that when I get married. I'd rather read some books or watch my fave movies than fooling around and hurt other people.
So,you don't need to be so angry 
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
18 Apr 12
hi tess___guinian y es I remember and am sorry to hear he is
a total jerk.online romances can be great or awful as the person
who is a jerk can lie so sweetly and maybe he was married and just fooling around with you. you could not see him so you can not even judge by his face if he is lying to you or not.I bet the jerk is married and cheating on his poor wife.ugh,. grrrrrrrrrrrrr.
@tess_quinain (1149)
• Philippines
18 Apr 12
hi Hatley. It has been awhile that I have not participated mylot. Yeah, he is jerk! He got sweet promises. Gosh, I wonder how her wife would feel if she found out what her husband had been doing. He was just fooling around with me it was because he was lonely working abroad and now he is home he doesn't bother to keep in touch. What a very bad guy.
@maezee (41997)
• United States
18 Apr 12
How did he lie to you? That's terrible. Especially if you guys got to be "girlfriend/boyfriend" and to that status. I'm sorry. . I guess, you just can't trust anyone. I don't know why this guy would invest so much time in chatting with you if it was all for nothing.
. I guess, you just can't trust anyone. I don't know why this guy would invest so much time in chatting with you if it was all for nothing. @tess_quinain (1149)
• Philippines
18 Apr 12
that is what I am wondering. I don't understand why he had to invest time and money for just fooking around. He sometimes call me by a long distance call. He sends me text messages everyday. We chat everyday. He promised a lot of things. I am totally confused. I am not sure if he's married or not actually but it makes me think that he is because he never keep in touch with me anymore though he is very near to me now. It's funny. Really funny. He's a crazy guy.
@prince05 (92)
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
online relationships does not really work, maybe it worked for some but the majority of it won't work totally, You can mask yourself online since nobody knows you, you can make stories which are so good to be true but make people believe they are true. If the person is really serious he will find ways and means to meet you. Being together is the most important thing in a relationship it is where you will know your partner very well and decide if this is the one that you would like to spend your whole life with.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
19 Apr 12
Hello Tess, that is really sad to hear, but what can you expect from some one who is just doing it online? having a talk through online. you can't see them and they can pretend and lie to you at their pleasure. because it's part of human nature for them to lie, only a few people in the world would still have a conscience not to hurt anyone.
because it's part of human nature for them to lie, only a few people in the world would still have a conscience not to hurt anyone.
@dazzledlady (1618)
• Philippines
19 Apr 12
Glad you are not into him that deep. Because people online can be jerks sometimes. Just because you cant meet the person personally doesn't give them the right to lie and play the feelings of others. Even if you are not so in love with him I do believe the you are also hurt because you trusted him.I do chat in YM chatrooms and I see people make and break relationships there. Some were serious some are not, some didn't know they were played. Sad but its true.Charged it to experience and be wiser now. Take care!
