He posted our private photos on his Facebook wall

April 19, 2012 5:24am CST
We broke up like a year ago and today I see those photos where we're kissing on his Facebook wall.What does it mean?Why would you do that to your ex-lover?Should I post everything I have about him too?Disgusting.
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24 responses
@Mashnn (4501)
19 Apr 12
I think it would be because he is not yet over the breakup. It might be because he still have some feelings for you and misses you. The other reason would be because he is jelous about you and he does not want you to have another boyfriend.
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19 Apr 12
Knowing his nature, I'd say jealousy.
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@Mashnn (4501)
19 Apr 12
Do you still communicate with him? If you do, you can ask him to tell you the reson why he decided to post your photos on Facebook.
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@lekhya (819)
• India
19 Apr 12
mASHNN, Do u really feel that she needs to communicate any further with such a person.If she does also she should stop.I think he is dangerous.It is better to avoid him.There might be only one reason behind his plan..."her destruction"
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@lekhya (819)
• India
19 Apr 12
If your boy friend jumps into a well,will u also!!! Don't try to do what he has done to you..he is characterless,u can't do that... I feel he is envying you.. He might be missing u and wants to take revenge on you by posting such awful photos.. He is defaming u publicly so that u wont or someone else wont dare to get into a relationship with u... Many people are now using facebook for their own advantage.Its really a shame on his part...try to avoid him completely,he seems to be dangerous.
19 Apr 12
He dishonored himself too.I'll be more careful with people like him.
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@lekhya (819)
• India
19 Apr 12
May be he is not concerned about that any more... People who do such acts,never bother about their honour. I feel he is targeting you..be careful and avoid him
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19 Apr 12
I will.You sound like a honest and strong personality.Thank you.
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@soulist (2985)
• United States
19 Apr 12
Oh that is horrible! Why would your ex put those pictures on his wall. I would not post things of my ex even if it was to get back at him. Ask him why he posted the pictures and if you don't want them up ask him to take them down. I wouldn't want my exes to have pictures of us kissing and being loveable on facebook.
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19 Apr 12
Reported and solved.I thought he's more mature.
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@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
19 Apr 12
What is your problem? If this is your ex, why are you still checking out his profile one year after you broke up? You should have start a new life already after such a time, look forward, go for your own goals instead of looking backwards and still checking him out. But since you do and you want to know how or what ask him. Seems to me he already knows you are checking his profile.
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19 Apr 12
I didn't do it on purpose..We have common friends and this morning they started writing me and asking if I returned to my ex.I said no.And they said he's posting our photos, so I checked and saw it with my own eyes and got mad.And ran to mylotters for advice.Facebook people did their job,the photos are gone.:)
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@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
19 Apr 12
Sounds like he is not over yet and trying to get your attention. If it bothers you, you can ask him to remove it or just report it.
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19 Apr 12
Done.Thank you all for your help.:)
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• Philippines
19 Apr 12
Does it bother you that he posted those pictures? if it does then confront him and tell him directly that you don't want your private pictures scattered on the net. and why would you post your picture with him? shouldn't do that as revenge that would be just stupid. no offense though
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19 Apr 12
No offense at all.:) I was so mad that I wanted to post some stuff back , and that was a bad idea, of course.
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
19 Apr 12
You have the option of reporting the photos to Facebook. Look for 'Options' or something similar when you are viewing the photo (it depends on the way that FB displays the photo as to exactly where you see the option to report something). You should find a dialog which has these options: "[b]Yes, this photo is about me or a friend: o I don't like this photo of me o It's harassing me o It's harassing a friend[/b]" I think that, in your situation, I would select the second one. I don't think that you need to explain why you find it harassing. No, DO NOT respond by posting everything you have about him! That might simply be playing into his hands! The issue is that YOUR privacy is being invaded and Facebook have rules and mechanisms to try to ensure, as far as possible, that that does not happen. Take advantage of them!
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19 Apr 12
I forgot about that option.My friend just wrote me:I can't believe you're together again!Damn.These photos must be taken down asap.
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• Philippines
21 Apr 12
I think it depends on his intention. Maybe he just missed you that's why he posted it. Or probably he hasn't overcome yet the pain when you broke up. Basically, we should not post photos from past especially if the ex-couple already have different partners. :)
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
26 Apr 12
I think you should talk to him first and ask what he wants. if you respond to him in a bad way he may have something on you and post it again..you can just report the picture- i think facebook has that too.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
26 Apr 12
Yeah he probably still has feelings for him. You should tell him how you feel about it. Perhaps message him on his facebook page. I hope that he will take them down (if he can with the new time line thing). Sorry to hear that he is still affecting your life when you don't want him to.
• Mexico
20 Apr 12
That sounds horrible! you really ought to make it clear you are not going to stand this kind of behaviour before he does something you''ll really regret. And please, do not go mad at him, probably it was none of his intentions to exhibit you in a bad way, perhaps that might have been a way to show how proud he's of you. So, please, talking first is the best way to solve out problems :D
• Russian Federation
19 Apr 12
may he still loves you. and he may just want to show you what he feels about you. you should write him about it because it is really strange. if he feels that way you should decide if you want to be with him or not. do not post anything about him because it will seem weird. good luck to you!!!
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19 Apr 12
Well, it's too late.I hope he will realize that.Thanks dear.
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• India
26 Apr 12
Hello friend, I think he still love you now. So he remember you about the facebook profile. So think one time of him. Have a nice day.
@vertu007 (683)
• Romania
19 Apr 12
Maybe he still has feelings for you. Maybe he wants to get back together with you. You can only find out the truth if you talk to him. I don't think he would do that without a good reason so you can find out that reason if you get in touch with him.
19 Apr 12
The reason is that he saw me with my colleague in the concert.My colleague A. is a nice person, he loves music just like my ex did, and we spend some time after work.This is a small town, people know each other and he decided that A. must know what we did as a couple and hurt his feelings.Look, this is MY girl, not yours.
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@derek_a (10874)
20 Apr 12
I can only speak for myself in this sort of situation, but I woundn't retaliate if somebody was to do that to me. I am a guy, so it is unlikely to happen, but if it did, the only thing I would do would be to answer anybody's questions about the photos if I was ask. Hitting back, has only transient satisfaction, and what's more a whole "war" could start up because of it and that makes nobody happy. I certainly wouldn't do that to an ex lover. In fact an ex could have done that to me, not with photos, but with revealing things that she knew about me, but she didn't do it, and we remain the best of friends.. It just didn't work out between us, and we both accept that that is something that can happen in life. Nothing is guaranteed, no matter how much we may like it to be. _Derek
@celticeagle (159008)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Apr 12
It is disgusting. Sounds like he isn't over the relationship yet. I would ignore and move on. What are you doing checking out his profile anyway? Hmmm? Would make me wonder what the reason for the break up was and how you both feel now. If you still have feelings for him talk to him. If you don't ignore this and move on.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
Wow, this is really something. Do you think he did it to get you back or to harass you? I would surely took a screenshot and do some legal action about it. he has no right to post your private photos- without your consent and that is illegal and punishable by the law.
@TheIzers (680)
20 Apr 12
I think you should confront him and ask what his intention is, to me it's just pathetic but some people just can't get over something especially when it deals with broke up and what's wrong with that . Tell him that's it's time for you to MOVE on....
• South Korea
20 Apr 12
Well, I think if I were you, I would talk to him or message him personally about it that you don't like it and that you're no longer comfortable seeing the two of you together in the photo shared to many people. Moreover, it's not good to post your disgust on his wall where many people can read it. They may have negative thoughts of you and your relationship with him.
@iampam (2)
20 Apr 12
He may want to prove something to you.Maybe he's still in love with you or I think he sees that you've already moved on to your past. Try to talk to him ask him why he still post it.