I am losing my interest on mylot..

Philippines
April 20, 2012 2:12am CST
Hello everyone! I've been inactive in mylot for 2 months now. I don't know why I am losing my interest in participating in mylot. Have you experienced this before? How could I get my interest back in participating in mylot? Thanks!
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48 responses
• India
20 Apr 12
Oh c'mon..See soo many of us (mylotters) have encouraged you for your participation here- guess i am late to have joined in those interesting talks-that's what myLot is. When you miss a topic for certain hours, and then you read it, you could already find soo lots of comments there and (SAD) you could not participate in those.That's is what makes me visit this site often to have a look at these interesting topics.Okay soo if you are getting bored, i guess you can just quit myLot for a while, be sure you don't lose your earnings though, and be back here again with a bang.. Maybe you could try searching for some good responses to 'read' instead of writing in here then, reading for a week or so might help you go ahead in a new path.Or put aside mylot and then when you feel like coming back here to enjoy with all of us, you could be back anytime! Or you could participate in the hots discussions, that would certainly have a lot of comments in it, some with fun and some very informative.When you read and comment in those kinds of discussions you would probably be thinking of who wold comment back to your response! I have not experienced this before in myLot, maybe i am too early to experience this, as of now,i'm all set to near to a star after my 100th post and i'm so curious to know what i would get and how people have felt abou me.Maybe you could keep milestones like that as well-to refresh you and bring back your craze and activity here.Maybe a thousandth post would do? If you have found most of your friends who had been participating so long to be inactive-now-then make new friends.I am new here, maybe i'm new to this site too.But i have learnt quite a few things here and i know what to do in myLot..So there are people who are active here though you could find many being inactive.So don't worry about these inactive people's absence, instead enjoy our presence.We would always create some fun in here :) Maybe we would certainly be happy if you be back with a bash saying "I'm back with a smiling face" or a charm for that case, incase you really want a break from all of us here.But i am sure if you had enjoyed the responses found ^^ above then no way you could leave myLot even if your mind disagees with it :) We would all be heartily welcoming you always :) Say cheers! --Shrinithi :)
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@mysdianait (66013)
• Italy
20 Apr 12
Indeed shrin is a fantastic example of how a new user, IF they read and understand the FAQs and Guidelines here, can fit in and become a fine Lotter right from the start! +++
• India
20 Apr 12
That was sooo chocolaty to hear both of you.And you could call me NITHY!-my nickname-i love it! :) Diana and duppremo, oh,yes i read those and indeed it helped me a lot.But then i should also say you and some other senior ones were my inspiration for posting so much and presenting answers as well.Mentors for me here, you all!.. Dupremo, Oh (BLUSH) thank you but this is not going to ba an article after all having some user friendly words in context.Proud for being nice as well.But i was indeed sad when i saw there was no single comment from the discussion starter.He left it.Perhaps it would have been more 'hot' if we had comments from him. Is he fed up with myLot so soon?Before even reading all these responses and comments?
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• India
22 Apr 12
(BLUSHING) "!!" My pleasure :)
• India
20 Apr 12
I haven't experienced this until now. Sometimes there aren't many interesting topics to respond to, but then I spend time in reading other people's responses. Reading doesn't earn me anything, but I do get to know people's views and outlook on various issues. May be you should do some tasks and use search bar on mylot, also you can comment on photos and blogs.
@elisse27 (181)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
that is right. There will come a time that even though you wanted to comment you don't have any topic that interests you
• Philippines
9 May 12
I agree with the both of you. Sometimes, I really can't find topics that could interest me. I guess this is also one of the reasons why I lose my interest on mylot for 2 months. Before, I received many new topic notifications in my email. I found a lot of interesting topics. But now, there are only few.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Apr 12
champoy If you are anmother sho says the discussions all are boring tthen you show us how to make appealing ones or if its just not your cu p of tea, try some different tabs lik recent or new of no responses and see if you can perk up your interest. Write a discussion of something that happen today that really irked y ou to tears. I had an incident and instead of just fuming I have decided oh that will make a great discussion as its happened to others I am sure.add some friends you have liked as its so much fun to talk to peo ple from all over.
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• Philippines
9 May 12
Hello Hatley! Thanks for sharing your thoughts about my discussion. By the way, I am not a mother. I am not a girl either. I think you are right. I have to try to write some discussions that happen to me recently. I guess that is a good idea. Thank you for your suggestion!
• Marikina, Philippines
25 Apr 12
I have already experienced that situation. Well, you have to take a break based on some members of mylot. Don’t push yourself. Rest. Do other things and then, if you are already in mood, go back to mylot, but if more than a months or years, you really lose your interest, well, do not go back to mylot. Find other work online opportunites.
@varier (5685)
• Indonesia
1 May 12
Simply don't force yourself. Why so serious? :p If you have no mood, just leave and do something else that as productive as myLotting. I also ever felt it though, and it doesn't troubled me a lot anyway. I just did something else and when I got the mood back, I am being here again.
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@ecaron (678)
• Canada
21 Apr 12
I too lose interest sometimes but sometimes you just need a break , I guess. After a while if you read discussions and can respond and think of good discussions to start then maybe your interest is renewed, that is happens with me, I suppose.
• Philippines
14 May 12
That is what I am doing right now. I try to read discussion from mylot digest. I response on those topics that are interesting to me. At least, I could post few comments everyday. I also try to create discussions today. So far, I get my interest back on mylot but not that much. Happy mylotting!
@mysdianait (66013)
• Italy
20 Apr 12
Poke about here. Add new friends and interests, Use tabs that you have not used before like the hot and the recent tabs where yiou might find topics that will revive your interest, Otherwise take a break and do something else, even offline and come back when you are refreshed
@sjvg1976 (41128)
• Delhi, India
20 Apr 12
Hi Diana and what should i do i have taken break of almost 2 months still i am not feeling to get back here as i used to be before.
@Jlyn10 (11966)
• Malaysia
20 Apr 12
@sjvg For you, maybe it's because all your friends are not here as well and you can't have fun without them.
@sjvg1976 (41128)
• Delhi, India
20 Apr 12
Oh Jlyn i am pleased to see you after long time. I know few of them have gone but suny the best among them is still here and i find him on other sites too but really missing those who are not active these days may be due to their offline duties.
@yanzalong (18879)
• Indonesia
23 Apr 12
I have been with the site for over 4 years and I have been active since last January. I was too busy for a couple of years. I think I will always stay tuned here. It's enjoyable, really. I know many people and started to understand different ways of communications.
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@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
h there, i would lose interest in here too but and i always get bored and so i don't come here anymore,. but what i would do is take a break for a few days and then just come back when i am already in the mood.
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
well there are times when i can't really think of words to say LOL and there are times that i just don't know where and how to start, like i am lost at words. i am probably not just inspired and also not in the mood. and i don't force myself when that happens. if i do, then i will just be here without any meaning but just to earn.....
• Philippines
1 May 12
After I got my first payment from mylot, I thought it would help me to motivate myself to do more in mylot. I just noticed that I am not always on the mood to participate in the discussions. I really want to be more active this year but my mind is not cooperating with me. Like you Cherish, there are also times that I don't write anything here because I can't think of words to says. It is like my mind is empty and has nothing to say. I wish I will get my interest back and write many comments.
• India
20 Apr 12
Hello friend, But why you become bore here? it is a very interesting place. have a nice day.
@Jlyn10 (11966)
• Malaysia
20 Apr 12
I have been inactive too, not just because I am bored but sometimes I am busy with work. But I will still make a come back once in a while to check back on my friends' discussions. Sometimes too much of the same things make us feel bored. So we need to take a break for a little while and then come back again afresh. You don't necessarily have to be very active in myLot. Just do like me, I come whenever I feel like it, so long as I don't cross the 90 days to lose all my earnings here.
@Jlyn10 (11966)
• Malaysia
20 Apr 12
Obviously we need to find other ways to make fast money too rather than getting just a few cents each day. So, working is also important than just earning from socializing. So I socialize when I'm bored of working.
@lekhya (819)
• India
20 Apr 12
@Jlyn, "I SOCILALIZE WHEN I'M BORED OF WORKING" Good CONCEPT... This will refresh our mind and lessen our worries and stresses..
@Jlyn10 (11966)
• Malaysia
20 Apr 12
Thank you for agreeing with me, lekhya. It does refresh the mind but the worries and stresses will still come back when we get started back on it.
@JohnRok1 (2051)
21 Apr 12
If you've found something better to do with your time than mylotting, why break your heart over it?
@JohnRok1 (2051)
21 Apr 12
I'm not sure that it was Dr Johnson who said "when a man is tired of mylot, he is tired of life", and I'm also not quite sure how true it is.
• Philippines
14 May 12
I am not tired of my life. I don't know what is the connection of being tired of mylot and my life. Could you explain it to me further? Thanks!
• Philippines
15 May 12
Thanks for sharing this johnrok. I never knew about this. Thanks for the links. Now I understand what you've said. Happy mylotting!
@sjvg1976 (41128)
• Delhi, India
20 Apr 12
Even i am also losing my interest from Mylot.2 months back i was an active member of Mylot but these days i don't find interesting discussions to respond to.These days i rarely log on to Mylot in search of the discussions which could interest me.I have taken a long break of 2 months still i am not able to hang on here for more time.
@mysdianait (66013)
• Italy
20 Apr 12
Find your old friends and barge in on their discussions I know that you have many friends here and I'm sure they can help you to get backinto the swing of things again
@mysdianait (66013)
• Italy
20 Apr 12
Then what are you waiting for?! Go the the 'recent' tab. refresh it often and see which discussions are busy and who is active and join in on those topics. There are many new users who have joined recently and are getting into the habit of myLot and I'm sure that among them you will notice some who you can connect with
@sjvg1976 (41128)
• Delhi, India
20 Apr 12
But Diana my friends too are missing from here or they are also not that much active here as they used to be in the past.I think i need to make new ones.
@lekhya (819)
• India
20 Apr 12
Its not a point to worry, I faced this situation when i was newbie here,but later came to know a lot about the site, when u feel sick of mylot,just go to facebook,then u will sure feel better to come back to mylot.. If u can't find interesting discussions,then try to start one or go back to the old ones which u have already responded too and add few more comments,that might ease u Have a great day... Happy mylotting!I hope to see u being frequent in mylot...
@Jlyn10 (11966)
• Malaysia
20 Apr 12
@Dupremo Even if the discussion is less interesting, we can always make it interesting, right? @lekhya It would be good if you can do both at the same time - posting and reading. Or maybe read and then post.
@lekhya (819)
• India
20 Apr 12
jLYN, OF COURSE, I do them simultaneously, what i mentioned above is the situation... when i get bored i stop posting,instead i read all other's discussions and comments. All other times,i do both and try to increase the participation..
@lekhya (819)
• India
20 Apr 12
Yes,u are right... I always the mind which reflects our feelings.. In my case,when i am happy i post a lot.If i am dull,i read a lot to refresh myself... But both i do in mylot
@erjnsimon (1191)
• Makati, Philippines
20 Apr 12
Well, I can’t get my interest to join mylot if I will be active very day. So what I am doing is to just visit mylot every other day to post discussions, to comment responses, and to earn. By this way, I can earn different interesting discussions that I might respond to when I visit again. Sometimes, when I log in here every day, there are times that my time got wasted because I cannot wait to see discussions that I want to respond to so I just log out and go back after few hours which causes me to earn a little amount. However, If I will be here in mylot every other day, my earnings here in one day will just be equal to my earnings for two days if I will be here every day. We just need refreshment so that we can concentrate more. The day when I am not here in mylot is my way to refresh my mind and to set it again to be active the following day to be active. Well, you are not alone, many of mylotters has that sickness sometimes, I just do not know to those got addicted already and can’t live the day without mylot.
@mysdianait (66013)
• Italy
20 Apr 12
May be those who are "addicted" don't only look at the new topics but they go back through the profiles of their friends and find older topics to particpate in too. Maybe they don't just post one response on a discussion and leave it at that but they add comments to many responses and just stick on one interesting topic all day long. Maybe they just come her to have fun and put earnings to the back of their mind?
@mysdianait (66013)
• Italy
20 Apr 12
They are some great topics abandoned from years ago. You could even make a search using something that you are particularly interested in and see what discussions appear. You might even receive a reward while using the search too
@erjnsimon (1191)
• Makati, Philippines
20 Apr 12
well, maybe. are you doing that one? haha. sometimes, i don't find time to respond to discussions who are 1 year old already. i like fresh ones. haha
@SinfulRose (3527)
• Davao, Philippines
21 Apr 12
The reason that you're losing interest might be because you are being interested in doing other things. Maybe if you start to participate in discussions that may catch your attention you may gain your feelings of enjoyment here in MyLot. Communicate to people among your friends who you had good discussions with in the past; or browse around for topics that may catch your curiosity...maybe then, you will relearn how to be interested in MyLot. For me, it does not take long to go back mylotting whenever I feel like leaving it. How do I do that? Well, I always tend to look at my financial plan and how my MyLot earnings may affect that. A little greed won't harm you...maybe.
• Davao, Philippines
22 Apr 12
lolz. I just noticed that when you informed me. Most of those who responded, indeed got no reply. Maybe the creator already fled off to some unknown part of the internet world?
• Philippines
14 May 12
Sorry sinfulrose and dupremo for my late response. I wasn't able to reply quickly on the comments here because I was quite busy on my work. I can only spend few time in mylotting. Doing the same thing everyday is one of the reasons why I lost my interest on mylot. I am glad you haven't experienced this. Thanks for responding!
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
I have experienced this before and I really responding and reading discussions. I didn't really do anything. One day I just logged in Mylot and I started responding and reading posts again. Maybe you should try adding more friends and interest just as what others has already said. You can also try to use the search tab to search for topics of your interest or anything that you feel like responding to. Also, try to start more discussions, reading and responding to each comment will give you some interest as well.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
And let me add, try to refer some more friends here in mylot..like what I did. You'll be surprise to see all new topics and discussions then. My new added and referred friends all have different started discussions and I should say, they add more interest in me staying here.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
14 May 12
My recently added referrals here also are not active anymore. It's okay, we can still increase our earnings here even if we don't have referrals. Just do your thing here and keep up the good work
• Philippines
14 May 12
I am trying now to respond at least few a day. I also use the search bar everyday. Luckily, I got rewarded this money. I am so happy because it helps me to increase my earnings. I have referred many people but no one of them are still active in mylot. Happy mylotting!
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
I was inactive for the past six months. I just went back as active here in MyLot today. I was busy with work so I couldn't log in and socialize. I was also starting to lose interest in MyLot. There always comes a time when we get tired of something. But now I'm back because I really miss posting here. Hope you'll find something new and interesting here in MyLot for you to be back in the game.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
21 Apr 12
Right, we should care mylot is the game too, then we should play it everyday..^^
• Philippines
9 May 12
It's great that you are back in mylot even though you were inactive for 6 months. That is quite too long huh? Anyways, I try to come back to mylot sometimes because I miss posting comments here. I also miss the people here. They are very good and give good advises to me. I learned a lot of good things from them. I think you are right. I have to think of mylot as a gaming place. A place to relax myself and get socialized with other people. I shouldn't take it seriously. Happy mylotting!
• Indonesia
21 Apr 12
me too.... I'm a about 6 months member, have been rest about 2 months from mylot, but till now I can't get my interest fully back. sometimes I'm interest, but sometimes really getting bored with this site. I try to check new discussion, recent discussion, etc, but nothing really interest me. this last days was really moody for me. I'm still here because I love this site and the spirit of this site. I hope my good mood will back soon. to waste time in mylot, sometimes just check task available which sometimes interesting to do
• Indonesia
18 May 12
may be we have to had extra passion why we were here. my friend said earning can be extra motivation when you were bored with mylot.what do you think? do you agree with that?
• Philippines
14 May 12
We are on the same boat now redvakaurvaki. I was like that before. I did check the discussions, recent discussions sections but nothing has captured my interest. I really lost my interest on mylot. But now, I try to gain back my interest on mylot by checking the site and make few comments everyday. I hope I will get my interest back too and be active like before.
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
That is also what i feel now with mylot.I feel not interested due to its earnings is too slow.Feel no likes anymore.................
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
21 Apr 12
It does make sense...You are not interested, then you post lesser discussions every day and the result is your earning is raised so slowly... To be active again, post more good discussions and you will see the results after that, sure you will feel so happy with amount increased in your account. good luck!!!
• Philippines
9 May 12
I am with ryanong. If you really want to increase your earnings fast, try to post many good comments everyday. There are also tasks available. You could also try it. There are many ways to make money in mylot.
• India
20 Apr 12
Hello friend, I don't face the problem. But why you face the problem my friend? Have a nice day.
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
well good for you. i hope you never experience that.
• Philippines
1 May 12
I envy you because you don't experienced what I've been through. I hope you will never experience it. Keep posting and have a nice day ahead!