no messages or no new friend requests since ten days

@yugasini (12892)
Secunderabad, India
April 20, 2012 9:18am CST
hi mylot friends, i am out of station due to that i could not even participate in mylot since ten days, now the net cafe charges rs twenty per hour at our place, so i am attending net only for important things, neither i have participated in mylot nor in mp5 site,regularly i am getting one new friendship request or message from any friends or new friends once or twice in a week,but this time to my surprise i have not received any message or any new friend request, so my popularity is decreasing in mylot? do not worry i am not worrying about it, have a nice day
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6 responses
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
21 Apr 12
When you participate more, many will see your responses or discussions and then they will send friend request. Now you are active and you will get many messages and friend requests.
@yugasini (12892)
• Secunderabad, India
21 Apr 12
hi buchibulla, thanks for the response, after long time you are participating in my discussion, i am also participating in this site after ten days gap, now a days i am not requesting for any new friend, because at present i am having more than 700 friends in mylot,but what is the fun when ever i ask some thing , my on line friend will ran away from me,even they are not giving their phone number at least, have a nice day
• United States
20 Apr 12
It sort of happens that way around here! When we are active the whole site is active for us, but when we take any amount of time off.. the myLot world goes on without us!
@yugasini (12892)
• Secunderabad, India
21 Apr 12
hi macdingolinger madam, thanks for the response, after long time i am seeing you in my discussion, you are right when we are active the site also active ,if not that happens like that,now i am not finding that old affection in friends that is online friends,due to that due to other works or to avoid online friends,have a nice day
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
20 Apr 12
Hi yugasini, Why are you thinking you are loosing popularity? I think mylot is not a forum to increase popularity. I feel glad when I get friend request. But if not I do not get frustrated. My only target is to participate in discussions. I feel happy when I get response. I'm happy with my existing friends.
@yugasini (12892)
• Secunderabad, India
21 Apr 12
hi bhanushb, thanks for the response, my main intention is that my articles are not that much to attract more friends to share or participate in this site, due to that i think like that now i have more tha 700 friends in mylot, now a days i am not sending any friend request to any body, if i receive the requests i will accept,have a nice ay
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
Don't worry about it messages and friend's request. Sometimes friend's request comes when we are active so leave it. Once you are back as active like before,I am sure friend's request will come flooding again.
@yugasini (12892)
• Secunderabad, India
20 Apr 12
hi jaiho, thanks for the response, thanks for support to me, some time it may happen like that, some time more messages and more friends request,but now a days online friends are not at all turned up to me, i do not know the reason,but when ever they call i am turning up, have a nice day
@vandana7 (102698)
• India
20 Apr 12
Hi yugasini garu, :) How are you doing? I think I underpaid for your 5 rupees coin, but I honestly dont know what is the exact cost of that coin. Can you find out please? And here is one interesting site I came across. Hope you can find something relating to your coins on this site in due course. :) http://www.vcoins.com/ancient/coinindia/store/listCategoriesAndProducts.asp?idCategory=121
@yugasini (12892)
• Secunderabad, India
21 Apr 12
hi vandana madam, how re you , i am fine and thanks for the response, i am out of station for nearly 18 days, i had been Bangalore and Kadapa their i have stayed all these days and returned yesterday itself to Hyderabad, actually i have given that 5 rupee coin freely to you,but you have not accepted free,so you have paid the double rate to me, i am not caring about the money, friendship is important, i will copy the link and see what is in it, have a nice day
• India
20 Apr 12
Hello friend, Don't worry. I am also face this problem in past. But after some days I relief out the problem. Hope so you are also relief it. Have a nice day.
@yugasini (12892)
• Secunderabad, India
20 Apr 12
hi tamosree, thanks for the response, now i have more than 700 friends in mylot, but now a days i am feeling that onlien realtionships are loosening strength,where is that affection and where is that intimacy with friends of mylot, i do not know the actual reason,due to lack of time to me and to my friends also ,have a nice day