I would be so lost...

Valdosta, Georgia
April 23, 2012 9:35am CST
Today is my 7 year wedding anniversary. My husband bought me flowers and a card and made me my favorite breakfast. I am so happy and grateful to have him in my life. He is my baby. I would feel so lost and incomplete without him. Him and my kids are the reasons I want to live my life. I hope we have many more years to come together. Every day he is by my side I feel so lucky. Is there someone in your life you would be lost without? Have you found your soulmate yet? :)
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
23 Apr 12
Hi LovingMyBabies Congratulations on completing 7 great years and I do wish both of you many more to come. To me, obviously she is my wife. I cannot do anything right without her. before we met, I was without much of dreams or desires - kind of a robot with a simple routine each day. Ever since she came in my life, it not only got some meaning but also today, I want to be Alive with her.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Apr 12
Thank you! I felt the same way before I met my husband, living but not with much happiness and he has said the same about me before we found each other. I am happy for you also that you found the love of your life!
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@badwes (406)
• United States
23 Apr 12
family love is a precious thing to hold on and keep forever , . no happiness is all yours ms lovingmybabies :))) good luck in everything my dear
@jinky2012 (438)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
Congratulations! I am happy to hear that you and your partner are celebrating your anniversary.So sweet,,I will pray for you and to your family that you will live happily forever.Just be good wife to Him my friend. My husband and my daughter They are my strength.I can not live happily without them.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Apr 12
Thank you! Thank you for your prayers as well. They are always appreciated. I will always be a good wife to him. I would never want to be without him.
@marie2052 (3691)
• United States
23 Apr 12
John and I celebrated 11 years of not killing each other LOL We have been together 12. His ex my ex and the combination of his and ours kids its a miracle we both did not give up. Congrats on your anniversary! I am so glad you are married and doing it the right way. WE have several in our family that prefers NOT to do it the right way! Give your husband and babies a hug for me.
• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Apr 12
My husband and I have been together 8 years. Thats awesome, you made it through a lot to deal with like we have too. :) Thank you! I am so happy and grateful to have him. I will give them hugs for you. =)
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
27 Apr 12
I would be totally lost without my children and my girl friend. The girl I am with is the right one for me. She is for me and I am for her, unlike the evil ex. But my children are my life. I love when they come to me every other weekend and spending time with them. They make me want to live.
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
24 Jun 12
Well, you're lucky to have found the right person right off the bat. I wasn't. But that's okay. I am happy now. I just miss the kids all the time. The evil ex did not just take everything away, she took all the little things as well, like me being able to put my kids to sleep and pick the up in the morning. I miss those days. And they are getting older now, so I wouldn't be doing that anyway. She should rot in hell. Or have a miserable life. Thats just how I feel.
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Jun 12
I understand the feeling, I feel the same way about my husband and kids. =) It just feels so right to be with him.
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• United States
23 Apr 12
That is great!! And Congrats on the anniversary!, I have found my soulmate too, about a year and half ago, we havent gotten married yet but we hope to soon! Although we have only been together for a year and half, he has been there for me and supported me through everything. I've also supported him too!, I see him everyday and We love spending time together, he says its like we are already married. Im blessed to have him in my life! He is my world, and I hope to start a family with him in a couple of years!
• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Apr 12
Thank you! Thats awesome that you found the one for you also. My husband and I were quick about things. We knew it from the time we met it was forever. He proposed to me after a month of being together, 9 months later we got married! Then a year later had our first baby. We have been through a lot together but with love, God and determination we have made it through. I wish the same for you and your love! :)
• United States
24 Apr 12
Aww thanks!! Hopefully, we'll get married next month :) we've been wanting to get married for awhile now,,then I hope we will start having kids in a couple of years, he turns 22 next month and says we can start havin kids when he is 25, I say thats too long to wait!!hahah I'll turn 21 in 2 months, I cant wait,,we've kinda been through alot together too but I dont think this will be it, because every relationship has their ups and downs and like you said with love, God, and determination, you can make it through!!...:~)
• Philippines
24 Apr 12
WOW, that's so sweet! :D .. The person I couldn't live without would be my boyfriend. We've been together for 9 years. We've been through a lot and I can't imagine living my whole life without him. He's my everything, my best friend - who's always there when I needed someone to talk to about my problems in life, my brother - who's always there to protect me, my dad - who takes care of me, sometimes my enemy - when we argue about something (not really a big deal lol) and most of the time my baby ^^. I congratulate you both for your 7th year anniversary and I hope you have many many more years of happiness in your married life.. Hugs and kisses from me to you and your fam ;)
• Valdosta, Georgia
25 Apr 12
Thats great that you have someone special too. Its great to have someone always there for you no matter what. Thank you, I hope we have many more years ahead also.
• Philippines
2 May 12
Yes and it feels good and I can't imagine living a day without him. Although we aren't married yet, it feels like we already are. So did your anniversary celebration go?
• Valdosta, Georgia
2 May 12
Unfortunately we had a babysitter issue but that got resolved and then I had an upset stomach all night so it didnt go as planned but at least we were together! :) Thanks for asking! =)
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
25 Apr 12
Hi! I just love reading about other women being so happily married! We are coming up on out 10th anniversary this August. I feel just like that! He is my best friend and most certainly my soulmate! I adore him and feel like the luckiest lady to have been blessed with him and my children. We are a team and there for one another no matter what. Our kids often say that we are like teenagers.
• Valdosta, Georgia
25 Apr 12
It seems like you know exactly how I feel! We are so lucky and I am so grateful for him and my kids!
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@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
23 Apr 12
You are a lucky lady indeed. I hope you tell him what you wrote here from time to time. And I hope you have many happy years. I think I found my soulmate. I was too young to realize or to treat him correctly. And he was too damage by another woman's infedelity. Sad how things work out sometimes.
@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
24 Apr 12
Eh, that's life. You keep on keepin' on.
• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Apr 12
I do tell him and I let him read last night what I wrote. He was happy. :) Thanks, I hope we have many years too. That is sad, im sorry. =(
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@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
24 Apr 12
I truly don't believe in soulmates. I know alot of people who feel the same way. For as I am concerned soulmates don't exist. I am single and have never been married. Never will be. There is no man out there for me. If he was I would of found him along time ago! I grew up to believe you didn't need to work on a relationship. Everything would be perfect and everything would fall into place naturally! Of course that is a crock of crap! I am better off alone! Men drive in crazy and I am known to drive men nuts! I also know couples who want to be with someone and are. If they didn't have them in their lives,they would go on! They would not feel "I would lost if you were not in my life"! Men aren't worth it and never could find a guy to understand me,ever a little! So I am happy being without a jack@ss!
• Valdosta, Georgia
25 Apr 12
I am sorry, I wish you could experience what I have found. I hope your happy even without someone if thats how you feel. Relationships of any kind are work. Nothing just works out unless you both put effort in. Well, I would be lost without my husband. He understands me and loves me for who I am. I am happy and thats what matters. =)
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
13 May 12
congratulations for the good news my friend.. you must be lucky and so do him.. in my case, i did not find the soulmate for me.. maybe God give me testing for me, so i must be patient for that
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Jun 12
Thank you adhyz82. I am very lucky and so is he. =) I hope you do find your soulmate one day, I wish everyone would find the happiness I have. I hope you have the patience you need...
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
13 May 12
Although I am a bit late... (I've been really busy with my offline work) I still would like to greet you a belated happy anniversary. I hope that a few years from now you'd look back in this time of your life and you'd realize that even though life has been tough, it made you and your relationship so much stronger. This would make you appreciate the (bright) future that you're having.
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Jun 12
It's okay, I am really late responding so I am sorry for that. Thank you Bounce! =) We did have a great time together. I think that is exactly what is going to happen. Were going to look back and say well it was tough but we had each other.
@MissPiggy (1748)
• Indonesia
23 Apr 12
Well, unfortunately I haven't found my soulmate yet. I am so ready to get married as soon as possible but what can I say? God hasn't sent me anyone yet. Anyway, congrats for your anniversary. Be blessed both of you.
• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Apr 12
You will find the one for you. I never thought it was going to happen for me. I searched and got tired of looking so I stopped and thats when God sent me my husband. So don't give up hope! =) When you least expect it, it will happen. Thank you.
@MissPiggy (1748)
• Indonesia
25 Apr 12
There, you've said it just perfect. I am now in the moment of stopping all the effort of searching. I'm still praying and hoping, of course. But I'm returning it all to God. I believe that the right guy is out there, and when my time comes, I'll meet him and we'll get married. As for now, I'm still enjoying my singleness. Thank you so much, though, for making me believe that hope is not in vain.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
24 Jun 12
Happy 7 years anniversary and Congratulationsfor having a wonderful and loving husband. I can't imagine myself living in this world without my husband because he is the reason why I am very hapy right now and why I still in love everyday. He is my life and soul without him I would be nothing too.
• Valdosta, Georgia
25 Jun 12
Thank you. I do have a wonderful family. =) I understand. I know I could not be happy without my husband and kids. They are my world.
@512771751 (1096)
• China
25 Jun 12
Congratulations,it is so lucky of you to have found your true lover and have lovely babies. I hope one day I will be like you to be so happy. Life is full of love and happiness.
• Valdosta, Georgia
25 Jun 12
Thank you. I am pretty lucky to have such a wonderful husband and amazing children. =) I truly hope you find one day what I found, my soulmate.
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
24 Apr 12
I would be lost without my husband and kids also. I have to add my parents to that, as they have been our strength in some hard spots in our family and kept everything going. I am lucky to have someone that I can trust.
• Valdosta, Georgia
25 Apr 12
Thats great that you have your husband and kids too. Its also nice that you have good parents to help you out.
• Philippines
24 Apr 12
I believe I have found him.We're still a new couple but I can say love makes the ride worthwhile.
• Valdosta, Georgia
25 Apr 12
Thats great and I wish you luck with your relationship!
@veejay19 (3589)
• India
24 Apr 12
Heraty congrats for your 7th wedding anniversary and may you have many more.You are lucky to have such a caring husband and that you too love him and care for him equally.It is comforting to have someone to turn to in this strife torn and stressful worldly life.No, i am not destined to have a soulmate in this life and i do not need one either.
• Valdosta, Georgia
25 Apr 12
Thank you! I hope we have many more too. Yes we are both so in love with each other. I would not want to go through this terrible life without him. If your happy without someone than good for you. To each their own. I am happier with him.
• China
24 Apr 12
Wow,it's so kind of you to show how deep you love your husband!I think there are not too many women to do like that. But to tell the truth,my wife care about me just the way she takes care of a baby,she shares almost all the main things both inside and outside the family,and I know what she does is just for the whole family,so I never stop her and always help her.I feel so lucky and enough,and I have her as my soulmate whom no one can replace.
• Valdosta, Georgia
25 Apr 12
I do love my husband so much I want the world to know! :) Sounds like you have a great woman too. No one could ever replace my husband either...
@aghiuta (525)
• Canada
24 Apr 12
Congratulations!!! I wish you many more happy years together! You are one of the lucky ones,so enjoy it! I was married for more than 20 years,but my ex never grew up,stayed a selfish man.After so many years,of not being happy,I finally left him when the girls were 16 and 12 yrs old,they chose to stay with him,because he had more income.That hurt,but I understood their thinking.It is not like he would have given them anything if they came with me.... Then a few years later I met my current partner,and I saw the other side of the coin!!! As I say now"I was married for 20+ yrs,and had no husband, I am not married now,but I have a real partner in my life,who cares,and is not afraid to show it!!! I guess ,now I believe in fate, because after my divorce, I could find nobody real,till my partner was free and looking too.
• Valdosta, Georgia
25 Apr 12
Thank you! I know I am lucky. I am so grateful for him and our kids and a great marriage. Thats good that you stood up for yourself if he was not good to you. That would have hurt me too. I know if my hubby and I ever split our oldest would want to be with him, I have no doubt. She is a daddys girl. But it would hurt a lot. Thats great that you now have the one for you! I am happy for you and I hope you have many years together too. =)
@BigMoney25 (1286)
• Philippines
24 Apr 12
Well happy wedding anniversary to both of you I hope you guys will have plenty more happy years to come and you are lucky you have a husband that loves you so much. Goodluck and god bless you my friend! Happy Mylotting!
• Valdosta, Georgia
25 Apr 12
Thank you! I hope we have many more years too. I never feel like I have enough time with him. Thanks! :)