I thought he will not changed.
By jinky2012
@jinky2012 (438)
Philippines
    April 24, 2012 1:07pm CST
                         
            its been a years when i am married.Time pass he was changed,the attitude and a lot of thing.I did not expect that if you get married and have family it will be happy forever.It was not.I just be patient and I know i can not do anything but to accept.This is what i liked.Is this really happened to you also guys?
9 responses
        @jinky2012 (438)
 • Philippines
                            25 Apr 12
                                    
                            yes friend.my husband just like that.There are something that they changed but we are happy right now,especially our daughter makes us our relationship stronger.
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                            @jinky2012 (438)
 • Philippines
                            26 Apr 12
                                    
                            thank you my friend for all your comment.I am happy right now.Love is really like this....
                             @Zer0Stats (1147)
 • India
                    26 Apr 12
                    Change is the need.If you cannot change then at least accept the change around you..This is how our fyckin life is..
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                     @Dominique25 (9460)
 • United States
                    26 Apr 12
                    I think I understand what you are saying. That through the times that you have been married your husband has changed. I understand where you are coming from. I've experienced this as well. It can be hard to accept these changes especially when you were married and thought that you both were going in the same direction. I hope that if things do not improve in your marriage that you will be able to find happiness in your life and in doing other things. I know for me it has been extremely difficult to work with my husband in the areas that he has made drastic changes in. But I continually try. Sometimes I get overwhelmed, frustrated, and feel like giving up. But I'm still trying and time will tell what will happen for us. Hopefully things can get better.
                     @ShyBear88 (59342)
 • Sterling, Virginia
                    24 Apr 12
                    My husband changed in a bad way. He is still the same man that he was before we got married. I think some people change after they get married and others don't. Some are in a good way and others are in bad ways. 
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                     @kristiane (112)
 • Philippines
                    28 Apr 12
                    marriage is really not an easy life, but we can become a better person for every surpassed difficulties.
                     @rewardsinlife (1132)
 • United States
                    24 Apr 12
                    People do change in life, sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse. Have comfort that it is not just you, but probably a combination of things that made him change to who he is today. The best you can do is be there for him, and yourself, and offer to go to counseling or have open discussion about what is not working for you all. Good luck!
                    @jinky2012 (438)
 • Philippines
                            24 Apr 12
                                    
                            thank you friend for your good comments. I can not tell him all the things i want to tell because he is always telling me that i am living with the past yet i am not. i just go with the flow.I don't know how will i handle this.
                            
                            
                        
                    





