This is Where I Live

Philippines
April 25, 2012 2:14am CST
This is where I live, the Philippines. A land where a lot of people are poor, but happy. A land of people who have a strong faith in God, regardless of their religion. A land full of people who will take care of elderly parents in the comfort of their own homes until the day the die, surrounded by the people they love. A land where it isn't shameful to live in one's parents' house. This is where I live. A land where the government has always been tainted with corruption and controversy. A land where you can't rely on the government to help it's people with social services. A land where the poor become poorer, and the rich and corrupt become more rich and corrupt. This is where I live. A tropical paradise. A land that is dotted with the most beautiful waters and beaches in the world. A land that is culturally rich with it's history going as far back even before America was discovered. A land where because of it's beautiful beaches, greedy landowners throw the indigenous tribes like stray dogs away. A land where it's forests are being denuded, the hard woods delivered to rich countries who ordered these and don't care if the people living in the nearby towns die in the floods. A land where there is natural gas, but is being harvested for a neighboring Asian country who sells it back to the Philippines at three times the price. This is where I live. Where people seem to forget that we are a brown race. That our skin has always been a beautiful brown hue, not the sickly pale tints brought about by drugs and cosmetics. We have our own beautiful dialects, for each corner of our land. But if people hear you speak it, they laugh. Does anyone still know the Alibata? Oh, I forgot, historians and educators trashed this from our curriculum. This is where I live. Where children don't know or appreciate it's rich history and culture. That children will sing rap song and imitate Lady Gaga rather than learn the now extinct music and culture that we have. Or laugh when they see people performing it. How long has it been since I have last seen someone play the kulintang? Or does anyone even know to play the musical instruments made from bamboo? Kids play DOTA. But they don't know the traditional games that was handed down from one generation to another that has now dwindled to nothing because of computers. This is where I live. Where my grandfather was able to find a safe haven from the communists in his mother land. Yes, I am a third generation Chinese. I don't have a province here in the Philippines. But I can trace my roots in China. I can't speak Chinese, but I can understand Bisaya, Bicolano and I am very fluent in Tagalog. And this is where I live. I am a Filipino.
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@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
While these sentiments are true for most of our people, but there are still some who value our culture and country. You seem to have some frustrations about Filipinos and how we are. Are you comparing this with traditional Chinese people?
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
No comparison since I have never been brought up as Chinese.
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
I see, because I do notice Chinese people have high regards for their rich culture. And, even people from other countries are so fascinated with their culture. I also salute them for being able to preserve that.
@jgaces (80)
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
It's More Fun in The Philippines. ^_^
@erjnsimon (1191)
• Makati, Philippines
25 Apr 12
You are not a filipino then but you know more about the philippines than Filipinos. Yes, i commend you for that. However, while reading your post, i do not know if i will smile, if i will laugh, or if i will be sad for what you say. Haha. Yet, all these are true, there are things which cannot be proud of but there are also things which makes the statement It's more fun in the Philippines. :), just a thought, and i want to ask. Being a Chinese who lives here in the Philippines, what country that you want to win between Philippines and China about who really owns the scarborough shoal and spratlys? Haha.
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
I am a Filipino and WE OWN THOSE ISLANDS!
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
I might be misunderstood. Spratlys and Scarborough shoal belongs to and always has been Philippine territory. I can quote another island down south that regrettably has been removed from our map, but growing up I remember it being part of the Philippines.
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
yes i agree to anne.Its really for the Philippines.Its our territory.lol...
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
26 Apr 12
Hi Anne, I don't usually read long posts or discussions, they take up too much of my time(sorry). But this one really kept me reading. The things you said here, they all hit home. You've just enumerated the many painful realities that most of us Filipinos only gaze at, and have resigned to accept, or just prefer to look the other way. I am from the Visayas and have always been proud of my roots, and I do feel bad when people in the big cities (like Manila) see my fellow "bisaya" not as a Visayans but as "katulong"(housemaid). We scoff at foreigners who discriminate us but we see a lot of discrimination amongst our own people. How can we expect other races to respect us if we can't command respect among ourselves? Okay, maybe I'm far beyond the topic, I just felt a little emotional reading your (otherwise long) post, and I can't help but verbalize (or write) my thoughts while reading this. Very relevant, nice post, by the way.
• Philippines
27 Apr 12
This discrimination amongst ourselves stem from the brainwashing we have undergone for so many years when we were colonized by whites. This is why up to now, Filipinos still think that having pale skin is beautiful even if they look like someone who has been doused with whitewash. I have lived in the Visayas when I was young (Bacolod) and I don't know why people tag Filipinos coming here as just household help. This is the reason why a lot of our culture is going extinct because of the discrimination that we get from our own countrymen.
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
30 Apr 12
Everything you said is very true and wonderfully written, thank you very much. BTW I also have Chinese ancestry but what is important now is we are all Filipinos
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
This is where we live where justice is only favorable to those who have fame and fortune, to those who are rich otherwise; where people with fairer, whiter color is perceived to be superior than those who have dark, indigent-looking skin; Where tax collection is very effective yet the majority of the collection only goes straight to the ever-full pockets of ruthless politicians. It's sad but We can't deny it. It's always happening.
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
Our justice system. Do we have one? How many times have we watched a public trial where nothing is ever resolved? And the money used for that public stint is from the tax-paying Juan. I have always hated those who want to whiten their skin. I have always been called by my mother as ugly because I don't use any cosmetics and am brown from my outdoor activities. I can have that pale tint that everyone loves. But not me. I am a Filipino. I am not some American wanna-be with blonde hair and sickly pale sick.
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
I understand that you are Chinese having a Filipino heart.I appreciate that you love living in the Philippines even better than any other pure blooded Filipinos.I think not only you,there are so many foreigners who love to stay and choose Philippines to be their homes.Yes,it's so sad that their so many Filipinos who don't appreciate our culture.Instead of maintaining our own heritage,we often follow "the american way of life",and there are those who always dreams to be Americans. I'm now working overseas but I'm always proud to be a Filipino.Hope someday I can settle down in the Philippines for good,to help in developing our country.One thing I learned working overseas is that other countries always prioritize their citizens over foreigners.However,in the Philippines it's the other way around.It seems that the government gives more rights to foreigners than our own people.We always promote tourism, attracting foreign investors,and sometimes losing opportunities to foreigners which could have been given to our own people.Thus,Filipinos become servants to foreigners in our own country.Filipinos should be the ones ruling the Philippines,not foreigners.The funny thing is; we just enjoyed being ruled,and we are always welcoming it.
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
I guess the years of being colonized haven't really rubbed off us. I don't know why some Filipinos still think that an alien culture or person is way better than they are. They're not. We have a rich culture that has been bypassed for so many years that it some have gone extinct. I know that there are some dialects that are no longer being spoken. Sometimes I even wonder because of it's diversity, what is the dish that can be called from Manila? We all know that pinakbet is Ilocano. Sisig is Kapampangan. Bicol express, is well, from Bicol. But is there a dish that Manila can say, oh this has been cooked since pre-colonial or colonial days. Ask any kid what kind of food they know. The answer is "Jollibee!" In terms of tourism, it is an even sadder note that foreigners are the first to explore a lot of our beautiful beaches and tourist spots. And it stays that way because of the rates. And if you are lucky enough to afford to go there, the locals living there won't believe that you are a Filipino living and working in Manila. They assume that you're a balikbayan with loads of cash. We have a beautiful country. But it is sick and needs a lot of love and therapy. We need to teach the next generation to love our own identity, country and culture. Otherwise it will be lost.
@AmbiePam (85976)
• United States
27 Apr 12
This is beautiful.
• United States
26 Apr 12
I don't think you need to be a pure Filipino to be truly a Filipino. Even if you are Chinese with Filipino roots, you can still be a Filipino by embracing Filipino cultures and traditions. And its not just the socio-cultural aspect, its more of personality, attitudes of being a Filipino is more counted as being a Filipino. Even foreigners have more passions of learning, instilling the Filipino Heritage than locals.