Are the words 'Open' & 'Close' really Opposite?

@viju0410 (2286)
India
May 1, 2012 2:37am CST
Hi all, Every one says that Open & Close are opposite words. But you will be more OPEN to those who are CLOSE to you/us. I think it is the fact. What do you think and why? Thanks for sharing and thinking..... Happy Lotting and have a nice time.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
1 May 12
Hi viju I dont understand english better... so would give you something from by BRAIN Open and Close are Opposites. if you have read - Opposites Attract! - you would understand this better - you will be more OPEN to those who are CLOSE to you Now, be open and give me a choco(okay even a Cold Coffee would do as it is too hot here) so that I can feel more close to you
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
1 May 12
Time to get the phone number of 'K'
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
1 May 12
@viju: Oh! Didnt I tell you about the shameless me who doesnt think twice to ask friends for the daily dose of chocos and coffee... and I dont see any occasion... just my small need
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@viju0410 (2286)
• India
1 May 12
Hi Sids, In fact when i posted this, I had this in mind - the opposite attract theory but never thought someone could ask me a coffee / choco treat for that !! Sure.. I can be close to some of my selected few friends who are so open here. Be smiling!
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
1 May 12
English is a truly confusing language, isn't it! The word 'close' can mean several quite different things (though they are actually related, as I will show). As a verb it is pronounced with a 'z' sound - /kloz/ (to rhyme with 'those', 'doze' and 'froze') - and is a synonym of 'shut' and the antonym ("opposite") of 'open'. When it is used as an adjective ("My close friends", "close by") it means "near" and is pronounced with an 's' sound - /klos/ (to rhyme with 'dose'). It can also be used as a noun meaning 'a small enclosed piece of land'. All three of its meanings come from the same idea of something being shut off from something else. If your friends are close to you, it means that they are in your 'inner circle' of people whom you trust and, figuratively, you enclose them with you or 'close the door on the outside world' (with your friends inside, of course). When the word is used to mean 'near' it means that if you drew a small circle around where you are, whatever it is that is close to you would be within that circle - 'enclosed' by the circle ... just a short distance away. 'Close by' is sometimes used to mean exactly the same (in terms of distance) as 'near by' but it is very often used to mean something a little closer than 'near' (if you see what I mean!)
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
1 May 12
Thank you TheSids. I don't remember the response or the discussion so it cannot have been too bad, after all! @ viju0410: It is mainly through seeing other people's difficulties with English that I am forced to do a 'double take' ... and learn what a lot I take for granted and what a complex thing language really is. That has helped me no end in my writing because I am learning to read back what I have written and to spot things which might not be so clear to others as they are to me!
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
1 May 12
off-discussion, but I do need to tell you - I owe you a from an earlier discussion where you guided me and showed me the right path. Sorry that I went beyond myself on that response.
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@viju0410 (2286)
• India
1 May 12
Hi owlwings, I loved your English lesson and thanks for the same. Definitely, the words carry different meanings and in actual life too they can vary as per the circumstances. You have rightly pointed out the inner circle and the outer world. Thank you for nicely representation in the last para. Cheers! Sid - Good to see your openness in the closed matter....
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
1 May 12
viju look close has several meanings like close the door or shut it. close also means something very near to you,So open means to b bring something up or just get the door open but close in thus context means shut the door or whatever it was we opened., also close means something is very near and in talking of people we mean someone is very dear to us and is always near in one or more senses. so it depends on how we are using it. Open is also used in several ways too.Like I am always open to my sister as I am very close to her. Open to l et in, close meaning near physically or emotionally
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
2 May 12
Hi Hatley, yes, it depends upon the situations and the meaning of the term at different circumstances. Thanks for the example quoted.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
1 May 12
hello viju, Upon reading other responses, I've learned from them. Thanks for this topic. Well, I knew one thing about "close/open" we teach little babies with "close-open" while holding their hands. And babies will close and open their palms
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
1 May 12
oh well...we called that one beautiful eyes
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
1 May 12
hi di How about close one eye and keep the other open and then do the other way And the kids end up closing both their eyes
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@viju0410 (2286)
• India
2 May 12
HI jaiho, It make me feel so good when someone says they learn from the topic/ responses. Many a times i too have learned a lot from mylot. sid - And those naughty boys/girls used to close learn how to 'wink' easily.
@vandana7 (98927)
• India
1 May 12
I am glad that you asked. I think the confusion was created by blonds. Now, the problem is so deeply entrenched that they are not able to remove it. So they adjust to any meaning ..lol Kidding. Owlwing's explanation is right, as usual.
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@vandana7 (98927)
• India
2 May 12
Ever heard of 45 degrees? lol
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
2 May 12
Hi, Honestly speaking - there was no confusion for me but for discussion sake i started it that way. But yes, i do admit i never thought our other members can throw so much light on this and even ask for a treat of chocos / coffee. No complaints and it really makes me happy to be in this circle. How is the weather in Hyd? in Bhopal its 40 Degree. take care.
@else22 (4317)
• India
1 May 12
Yes,the two words are opposite to each other.For example,doors may be either close or shut.But it all depends on how you use it.Your mind may be open to receive the suggestions someone is giving you.Here your mind is receptive of any suggestion that you think is right or practical for you.Or,it may be close to them.That means,you feel what you think is right or practical and that you are reluctant to let any other suggestion in.
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@viju0410 (2286)
• India
1 May 12
hi else, yep, if the doors are shut, they are close(near) to each other but also closed to the other world. yes, it is our mind how open it is to accept our closed ones. right? Being practical always give us a practical solutions. happy lotting!
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@viju0410 (2286)
• India
2 May 12
Rightly agreed.
@else22 (4317)
• India
1 May 12
If you mean,the word 'open' can be used in two senses,'allowing to come in', 'vulnerable' and 'receptive',I do agree with you.Similarly,the word 'close' can also be used in three senses;'near', 'that which can't get affected' and 'about to'.Am I right?
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@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
10 May 12
i think the words just have two different meanings. i also don't think it's true that because you are close to someone that you will be open. sometimes you can be more open with a perfect stranger.
@shibham (16977)
• India
1 May 12
Hi viju... As the first respondent has mentioned it depends on the meaning. When we were highschool students we were taught as "OPEN the door"s direct opposite is "SHUT the door". and again there is a option to change your line " but you will be more OPEN to those who are DEAR/NEAR to you/us" lol Have a nice time.
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
1 May 12
Hi shibham, Ok.. but then we normally say that we are open to those who are close to us and vis-a-vis. and not necessary that all the nears and dears are open to you. LOL. So.. by now, hope you are more 'open' to your beau. have a nice time.
@Mashnn (4501)
1 May 12
I think it all depends on how you use them. It can be used as opposites or other meaning like you have said.
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
1 May 12
hi, As the other responses i agree it could depend on term to term and meaning can go without the actual meaning of the words... however opposites are not always seen as opposites in meaning of life'f experiences.
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
1 May 12
It depends on in what meaning we use the word close, I guess. Like something closed or something really near... but actually, the two meanings are really close (no pun intended) to each other, because when somebody is close to us emotionally, it's like we have a closed circuit :D.
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@viju0410 (2286)
• India
1 May 12
Hi, Yes, that could be. near or may be someone with whom you may feel 'secured' as well. We are not closed to all but are open to those who are close to you,liked your emotional closed circuit.. happy lotting!
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