Mad Cause I Don't Hang Out
By MoonGypsy
@MoonGypsy (4605)
United States
May 5, 2012 11:02pm CST
i made this really good friend that i though was becoming like family. she is always asking me to go hang out, but i am married with kids. she is single. my husband doesn't like me going out with the girls. this is okay because i don't really care about doing it. i wouldn't like him to go hang out with the boys. so it's equal. she doesn't understand that. she thinks that i just just putting her off. i ask her if she wanted to hang out in the day time the other day and she messaged me back that i was a tease. i was honest with her. why does she think i am lying. i will be hurt if she doesn't want to be my friend because of it. i will live, but will be kind hurt.
2 responses
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
6 May 12
She is indeed no good friend to you, coz she don't understand that your condition right now. I hope you can find someone better.
@MoonGypsy (4605)
• United States
6 May 12
yes, and she can't respect the fact that i am happy in my situation. why do single people always want to cause problems with people who are in relationships? seems like they want you to be single just like them.
@rewardsinlife (1132)
• United States
6 May 12
Maybe this is a sign that this friendship is not supposed to last. A friend is supposed to accept you as you are in the moment, nothing more and nothing less. If she can't deal with this she may have attachment issues and this wouldn't be a healthy relationship to start in the first place.
@MoonGypsy (4605)
• United States
6 May 12
i agree. i don't think that this friendship would last. some people did tell me that she was bi-polar. this could also be the case. she is always on the go. this is good for her, cause she is single. i can't follow behind her.
