Ever feel like your on a one way street.

I had an ex-bf that was like that, if I wanted to do something.....I did it on my own, otherwise, it was his plans. Not all men are like that, but a lot are, they never stop to think, what she might want to do. And hate to say it, he will never change, so ya might think twice before marrying him (if you are thinking of that) because afterwards, it will be his family you spend holidays with, it will be 'his' vacations you go on, not yours!

You need to communicate with your bf that the way this part of your life is not panning out to how you would like. Leave it open to discussion in how you can better change this. Is your family further away from you than his? This may be a main reason why his family seems to be over more, than your own.

Sorry to hear that you have these problems with your boyfriend. You should definitely talk to him about your feelings. He needs to know how you feel and that you would like to do certain things. Plan things that you want to do and go ahead and do them.

I don't think all men are like that. I think this is just his character. And it is better that you talk to him about what you notice with him. In fact you are lucky that you know his family and you can be with me. About him being with your family, well hopefully he will have some time as well to spend with them. HYou probably need to let him know what you feel.

Men are not all like this, it is because your don't care about you, should not stick around a guy that is only his me, myself and I. You will never be happy with him because he is trying to please his own self.

hey baby all is with in your hands so you think correctly and take a proper decesion and do not put in your boy friends hand . actually boys had a self interest in their activities and they should not show interest in their household activities so its just a certain thing we cannot determine what it is and what he is going to to do . and the families are also different in their basic environment so we can't do anything else for that so it is better to continue in any of the interested field what we are and what is our wish and what we are doing and this is just enough to do any thing and we cannot else responsible to do something else for the both families

Sometimes I feel like this, because I am in a strange position in my life at this moment in time. I have just started working full time from home, but my partner is not supportive of this in the slightest, and will always interrupt me when I am trying to get some work done. I always say to him that I would not even think about doing this to him if he was working but he won't listen. He just has to get everything as he likes them all the time, and I will admit that I am starting to get a little bit fed up of it now, so I think that something is going to have to change very soon.

Because they are nothing but self centered jerks! I had been on so many one way streets its not even funny, and therefore I gave up on men because of it, and have gone to female companions. Even so women are just as bad, so I either suck it up, like a buttercup, or be old, alone, and miserable. My 1 way streets where always, I would fall in love, and they would never feel the same about me. It was always about them. Incapable of showing emotions I guess...

It sounds to me like you may want to have a sit down with you BF. A relationship is an important thing to have as a two way street. Communication is very important and should be taken seriously. I like to think that I communicate well with the woman I love and I hope she knows that she can tell me anything she needs to or wants to. I work my schedule around to best suit her needs because she is important to me not because she wants me to or anything like that. She means a lot to me so I go out of my way to make sure she is happy because her just being around me is enough to keep me happy. Plus it helps that I find her as one of the most attractive women I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. I just hope she see's that all I do for her is because it is a reflection of my love and dedication to her and us as a whole. So keep in mind that not all men are a one way street. You may just need to sit him down and tell him how you feel. I wish you the best.:)