Is it a dating or a meeting???

As a man,I think I can understand the feeling of your boyfriend.If my girlfriend goes out with another man and have coffee together,I don't think I can be happy. Most of the time,it should not be called jealous,since you two are in a relationship.That's how lovers usually act,isn't it?Ask your friends around,I'm sure most of them can understand your boyfriend's feeling.Well,why don't you try to bring your boyfriend with you while meeting him?I think this is feasible. Lovers should trust each other.But sometimes we care each other too much.The relationship between a man and a woman can be very complicated.The good news is that your boyfriend is very afraid of losing you.He cares you a lot.The bad news is that this might have some bad influence on your daily life.This is quite normal.Two people's life is so different from a single life.You two just need some time to solve this problem. Anyway,in my opinion,your boyfriend's feeling is quite understandable.Think more for him,if possible.One more question,from what you've said,it seems that your boyfriend does the same thing(meeting with another woman himself).I totally don't agree his behavior.I suggest you talk to him about it.If he can guarantee such things would not happen anymore,you should also respect him. Both of you should be the kind of people worthy of being loved.Do you think so?

Only you know for sure if it could be called a meeting or a date. A meeting is with someone you associate with, perhaps on business, a date is someone you either are or could get close to. If your friend is even slightly more than a friend it would be a date even though you may not think of it that way. You do have a right to meet anyone you choose but it is clear your boyfriend has lost trust that he may be exclusive to you. that may not be true but something has made him jealous. Consider this. What if he had a female friend that he went out to coffee now and then. How would you feel about that. Maybe it's a girl you used to date but it cooled so they are only friends. Would you think twice about letting that happen or would you trust what he says. If you would not feel good about that then you are right where your boyfriend is. It is good that you tell your boyfriend about this. That should tell him allot. But often that is just not enough. One thing you need to keep in mind. The more he is offended by this the sooner you will lose him. He may be wrong but it is clear he is hurt by what he thinks may be happening.

There's nothing wrong if it will be called dating, as long as it is a friendly date. What's common to many is that we date someone we love but it could be date with our friends. Let him believe what he thinks of dating just assure him it's a friendly date.

I guess it depends on what you believe in. If you are talking to a friend about business, it is called a meeting. If you are just enjoying each other, it can be called a date specially when you two are different sexes. Your boyfriend can really be jealous cause he don't want you to hang out with other guys anymore. That can be really a problem most of the time on being in a relationship. you can't hang out alone with one guy anymore, not like if you are single...

for me it is dating , but it's okay as long as it is "friendly " date only cause you are already into a relationship, i think it's much better if you bring you're boyfriend if you'll meet again with your friend and introduce your boyfriend to hin so that you're boyfriend will have no doubt about your friendly date.

I am a pretty jealous person sometimes and i wouldn't want my boyfriend to go out with a girl let alone just one, i could see if maybe it were some guys and some girls like a big group but, not one on one. Although that's just me, i wouldnt go out with just one guy either because, he might think the wrong thing. guys are guys you may say your going to just hang out but, the guy might read that as he has a chance and if you love your boyfriend you are with you dont want to give him chances. that's how i feel but, its up to you what you do.

yes, if you are in a relationship and you are going out for "meetings" with other guys...it's like a date. this is how relationships start sometimes, by "meetings". i could understand why your boyfriend is upset. i would not be happy if my bf went out with another girl. even if it is for a "meeting". they can turn into dates real fast.

I can relate to your situation because I have a close male friend that I have known for 14 years. Before I met my ex-boyfriend my male friend and I often often had coffee or dinner together as friends. I told my ex-boyfriend about him and I introduced them to eachother. My ex-boyfriend wasn't jealous, because he knew that we were just old friends, and he thought that it was fine to meet him for coffee sometimes, and our friendship continued without problems. When my ex-boyfriend and I broke up I met my husband, and he is very, very jealous, so it is totally out of the question to have coffee alone with my male friend. We have been friends for 14 years and we have never been more than friends, but my husband is still jealous, so we never meet alone. My husband and I meet him together instead and my friend and my husband have become good friends. In your situation I would I introduce my friend to my boyfriend and invite my boyfriend to participate in the meetings with my friend. Your boyfriend is probably jealous and afraid of losing you and if you invite him to the meetings you show him that you don't have anything to hide and that you just want to spend time with an old friend.

I don't see anything wrong going out with a friend especially if the person is your bestfriend/close friend. If your boyfriend loves you, he should trust you too. Without trust, how can love survive. Jealousy is a part of every relationship, but too much doubting is not good either.

For me it is not dating. Well, maybe your boyfriend is just a little insecure about it. Why don't you bring him along with you and introduce him to your male friend?

Somehow meeting a guy with only the two of you could really run thoughts into your boyfriend's mind but if your conscience is clear and there's really no motives behind it, i don't think it's appropriate for him to be mad at you because even I have lots of guys as close friends.

I think, both of you should talk in peaceful, relaxed manner and try to figure out the real problem. And try to come up with a concrete or specific solution to your problem. It can be too frustrating for the both of you, you - explaining to the best of your ability but he still he can't understand or refuses to understand. If he really cares for you, he should give you the benefit of the doubt. Try to solve your problems before it is too late. This is from a man's point of view.