Is it making you happy when you saw your enemy falling apart?
By Resy King
@resy21curapika (2151)
Pasay, Philippines
May 18, 2012 3:03pm CST
"The best of us can find happiness in misery..."
That's my favorite part in the song, "I don't care" by Fall Out Boy. Sometimes we tend to bully or to make fun of someone else and sometimes we tend to celebrate a certain enemy from the past if a bad karma happened to them.
For me, that's one "hell 'ya" of rejoice.
I remembered Jun, he was one of our teammates during a ceratin project in an event. Not to mentioned he is a total jerk for money, he pisses everyone with those "bossy" demeanor and everyone in our team was so fed up before.
I was so remorsed of what he did to my team aside from me personally. It wouldn't be that much remorseful if he didn't make it worse within the team.
But what's great about this is he had that karma that he should deserves. As I decided to depart the whole team with him, all the hell breaks loose like he lost his cellphone that he was using as a tool to draw attention that I or the team didn't pay him for that. Also with the next projects that he was handling so far. It didn't turn out right everytime he's doing something or making major decisions in life. Trust me, I've heard it with some of my friends how he is right now: he can't even find a good job or get a house, or get a life!
This is not the only one. I have much enemies and bullies that end up that way from my wishful thinking. Got to enhance my luck more then. (jokes) For our mylotters here, do you have this certain scenario that you have been happy by knowing that your enemy that once a threat to you, end up in despair and destitution? Share your stories and such happiness you have been. Happy mylotting about it.
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@surfer222 (1713)
• Indonesia
19 May 12
Something similar happen to somebody that i didn't like, i thought it would make me happy to see that she got a bad karma, but somehow i still feel sorry for her. I don't know why, but maybe i just feel that the same thing could happen to any of us. Bad thing can happen to good people too, sometimes good people get more bad thing than bad people.
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@musicluv4life (1867)
• United States
18 May 12
I just want to comment on the song i love that song and i play it on rock band all the time i am getting good at that song not real good though lol.
Anyhow, i know what you mean but, when bad things happen to my enimes i try to let myself not say good for them i try and remind myself they are humans too because, i dont want karma coming back for me.
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@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
27 May 12
i won't lie and say we should not feel this way.. because honestly i would be happy... before i even think about my conscience seeing an enemy fall apart.... or seeing the person suffer, at least. We are only human and we know that seeing them fall apart or suffer misfortunes is just pay back time for us, and for all the people they have wronged besides us.
@mysticalecstasy (472)
• Pakistan
18 May 12
Well that was one very potent brew pf karma you sent in his direction!!! I can understand your relief! The question however is difficult one to answer. Can anyone truly be happy when faced with such circumstances? Can someone wish something bad for them? No i cant but i will leave it up to karma to even out the score!! What goes around comes around so we have to be careful!
@resy21curapika (2151)
• Pasay, Philippines
19 May 12
Harhar... yeah. if he haven't done anything wrong to me personally and for my whole events production team, I wouldn't feel funny this way.
Thanks for your thoughts. Guess that is still a mystery. Some can't find but to help themselves being happy about karma or what could happen to them after they have did something wrong.
And yes, everyone should be careful. There's till one powerful force left to do something that is left undone :) Happy mylotting.
@mrswhitfield (2044)
• Indonesia
6 Aug 12
Well I have vriend in university, she was my hunior actually. We joined in same club, I did not have any problem with her because I am an easy going person, but she was too over act accoreding to what other members joined in club said. There many club member did not like her. So one day we had a club event, I did not know why but she annoyed everyone in the club except her boyfriend. Other member asked me to tell her that other member did not like her attitude, I tried my best and arranged my sentences before talk to her, I don't want to make her feel that I was judging her. But after talked with her, and i was thought that it's clear for her, she told everyone that I vilified other members. I decide to take rest from club activity for some time because i did not want arguing with her for something I never did. Not long after that, she excluded from club membership because she argued with other members. I did not happy to see her like that because she is my junior and we interract much, sometimes we attended same subject and stucked in same discussion group. I never brought up the past, I hoped to see her change, and yes she did change her attitude and then we have good communication till now.
@Suebee (2013)
• Canada
19 May 12
I do not wish ill will on anyone, even if they are "my enemy", nor do I rejoice at someone else's misfortunes in life, no matter if I am friends with them or not. In my humble opinion it is a very shallow thing to do. Of course there are some people on this earth who do things that I wouldn't do, or that I don't like or agree with but rejoice in their misfortune? Nope, not for me. I think that everyone is free to make their own choices, including how they treat others, however, along with making your own choices comes having to deal with the consequences of those choices.
@celticeagle (189915)
• Boise, Idaho
19 May 12
Sad when a jerk gets his comupence isn't it? NOT! Maybe you are a witch and didn't know it and are putting curses on these people. lol Sounds like this guy has some serious karma on him. I would never be happy knowing that my enemies had been hurt. I would feel justified however. I had a dear friend who I had known for about twenty five years. She let me stay with her for awhile because she needed the money to pay her morgage. I went to leave and come back home after staying with her for several months. I am back home a month and she sends me an email that I had better get the objects I stole back to her OR ELSE. I was shocked. I hadn't taken anything from her. I am not that type of person. So I wrote back just that and how it made me feel to have her accuse me. She kept on with threats that she was going to call the authorities. Finally it just ended with me telling her to bring it on if she felt she needed to. Nothing ever came of it. She lost her house and is unemployed now. I still can't believe she turned out to be such a person. But Karma is exacting its will on her.
