Strip Clubs

United States
May 19, 2012 6:37pm CST
Do you go to strip clubs, do you know people that do? are you one of those " I would never go into one of those places" kind of people? I have been to a strip club a couple times, I went with my husband and my friends. Believe it or not it was actually kind of fun..lol The drink were cheap so that probably made it that much better. But it was fun. I enjoy going anywhere with my husband so if it's a strip club a club, a bar, a movie, out to eat, or just laying in the bed together it's fun...But we have a deal about the strip club he is not allowed to go without me, and it has worked out well for us. I think it's kind of taboo and that's why some people don't like to go, but at the same time once you break that barrier and you throw every thing to the wind it's fun.
8 responses
@x_revenge (284)
• Greece
19 May 12
It's not really anything that shocking, it's like normal bars just there are pretty girls dancing. You're not allowed to touch them or anything dirty so you just relax and enjoy your drink and talk with your friends while watching the show. The drinks are cheap in some cases so you may end up giving more money to the girls than for the drinks xD I can't imagine going with a husband though, seems like it would be really awkward cause with friends you can talk about how good the dancers are but with a woman it would be troublesome.
• United States
20 May 12
I agree it's not shocking. People think that it's so tacky but like you said it's a bar with dancers thats all. No biggie. I go with my husband cause we talk about everything and it's just not a big deal for us. We love eachother very much and we don't worry about eachother going anywhere.
@jambi462 (4577)
• United States
20 May 12
I have never been to the strip club but I have thought about going a couple of times. I don't know if I'll end up going anytime in the near future because I don't really make that much money and I think that going to a strip club would cost at least a little bit of money. I think that in the future once I move to a larger area I might try out to get a job as a male stripper. It would be really awesome money and I think that if you are comfortable in your skin that you shouldn't be ashamed of doing so. I'm willing to do whatever it takes to be able to pay my way through college and get the education that I so desperately want that will be able to lead me to exactly where I want to go in life. My dad was also a stripper at some point in his life and he also appeared in playgirl so I think that maybe I have the right genes to pull it off. Lol. I think that's pretty neat that you go to the strip club with your husband, do you mainly see women strippers while you are there? Or do you also see men while you are there?
• United States
20 May 12
I am in my forties and I grew up working in strip clubs and I have to say there were some good and bad and scary time3s there!! I have to say that I have met a lot of couples there and it can be a good time and iy=t helps some marriages ansd relationships as long if you have the trust in each other! I worked in one well many ob=ver 20n years and I don't regret a minute of being there! Sure I miss my friends and the $$ But when you get ole4r it is time to move on! But I know ther area lot of jealous girls and guys out there and I HAVE TO Say through my years of dancing andf meeting several different types of people you just have to have the trust in each other!1 For me I met my ex in the club well not really his brothers went ther and they owned a mechanic shop and I sent my car there where all the girls did and sad to say he passed away after we were together for 7 years and ther is not a day that goes by that I don't miss or think about him! But I have moved on and remarried and I have a Wonderful husband that I would ot know what i would do without him and we have been there watching my friends dance and it did not bother me at all becauser I knew he was coming home with me and only me!! It is just a thing in this world that sometimes helps our relationships have a little spice in it and as long as we cab=n trust and handle this it is all good!!
@zhihao12 (363)
• Singapore
20 May 12
I have never gone to one before and i doubt i will like it. Its not a taboo but its just that i find it disgusted to watch woman just stripping in public and ashamed. Just my personal opinion though.
• India
20 May 12
Rose... In my humble opinion, going out to any kind of place, be it a strip club, a party, a bar, or a pub... the primary purpose is that you can get the dose of entertainment that you actually need.. So going to Strip Club is not bad in my eyes...Here our government is too strict and they term Strip Clubs as illegal. There used to be bars where women used to dance and serve liquor and they would have fun, give a lap dance etc etc for some extra tips.. but unfortunately I was below 18 years of age then and now they have banned such places hence I have never been able to enter a strip club. Visiting a strip club while in a relationship could damage the strength & fidelity of the relationship... I believe you both husband-wife can dress up, put on seductive music and do strip club at home or hotel for each others entertainment. You can visit strip clubs to observe / learn how they move, what kinda clothes they wear and perform similar acts on each other. Hope you have a good day ahead !
• United States
20 May 12
I actually went last weekend. It ended up kinda awkward but that is because my brother ended up going. Talk about odd. It was my boyfriend, my brother, and 2 guys I work with. I was the DD just to add to the awkward. I enjoyed the time out but half the group wanted to go to the strip joint and half didn't so I got to hear the good and the bad. However, it did really bother me when those who didn't want to be there were making bad comments about the girls. They were all beautiful.
@ShyBear88 (55279)
• United States
20 May 12
Yes I have been to a strip club with my husband and his cousin a few time. We went before I had my daughter a year ago. It was fun. I liked the fact that you can have all the soda you want no drinking or smoking in there at all. A lot of the girls where really nice and sweet. Some where amazing at there jobs and others sucked. I wouldn't mind going back now but we just don't have the time or the money to spend it on going one night.
• United States
20 May 12
I can't see myself ever going to a strip club, why would I pay for something I can get for free. I think it comes off as a bit desperate.