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@indahfth (11161)
Indonesia
May 20, 2012 5:25pm CST
Soon, I will follow my husband. This means, my son, having to switch schools. During this time, my son school in special schools. And, later on where we live, there is no special school for my son. My son's teacher, suggested that my son, repeat in class 3, so my son can adjust, in public schools. I am very worried, my son can not, adapt itself, in public schools. What should I do?
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
21 May 12
don`t worry don`t worry before the time.. let you see what happen to your son
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
21 May 12
I was too worried. I want the best for my son. I do not want my son get into trouble.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
21 May 12
I hope, my son, do not get into trouble in new school.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
21 May 12
i understand your worry as mother.. but your son of course must adapt with the new environment...
@Yheart (496)
• Indonesia
3 Jun 12
If you already consulted it with the teacher, then maybe repeating is the best act for now. Just remember to pay attention and teach your son at home, and ask the teacher in the new school to pay attention too. If you could, try to find out why your son rather slow in learning and how treat it. Wish you the best.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
4 Jun 12
Yes. I will follow my child's teacher suggestions. I will also try to give attention to my children.
@babystar1 (4233)
• United States
20 May 12
Well first of all you have to follow your husband. What do you mean that he is in a special school, is this a school for only boys or what. If you have to switch schools he will learn to adapt. I no a lot of people that had to moc=ve around a lot and there children had to go to different schools and they got along just fine. How old is your son?
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
21 May 12
My husband is now in his hometown. We plan to settle there. My son, so far, are a special class. Class that contains only 3 children. Because, my son needed special attention. My son will be 9 years old, in August.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
21 May 12
It sounds to me that repeating a class won ld be a good idea for your son. He will be in unfamiliar surroundings, but the course material will be familiar to him. That will give hI'm more time to adjust to the public school and their way of doing things.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
21 May 12
Yes. You are right. My son, it would be better, to repeat in class 3. I've discussed this with my husband. Hopefully, my son had no trouble, for the school in public schools. I have not been able to relieve my worries.
• Indonesia
21 May 12
it sound difficult for me. when i was kid, my mother follow my father and there is no special school on that place, for me. so what happen with you son, same with me.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
22 May 12
My children, difficulty in following lessons. My children have repeatedly explained, in order to understand. My children need teaching exstra.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
20 May 12
Hi indah! I'm sure there will always be a way so that everything will turn out well. Everything happens for a reason. We have to learn to adapt to new situations as well. I'm sure your son can do it. What is important is for your family to be staying together.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
21 May 12
I sincerely hope, my son can adjust. I am very worried about this. Maybe, I need to find private tutors, for my son.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
21 May 12
I think you should just follow the advice of the teacher and let him repeat class 3. It's difficult to change schools, I know, but there are times when you don't really have a choice. Don't worry just keep you head up and give you son more tutorials and the confidence he needs in order to cope. When are you following your husband? Have a great MyLot experience ahead!
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
22 May 12
Yes. I will follow my son's teacher suggestions. I want the best for my child. I will follow my husband, in July.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
22 May 12
Hi indahfth, First of all, I understand that you must follow your husband, but I also know that you want to do what's best for your son. You should discuss it with your husband and if possible, get a tutor for your son. Worry doesn't help but only upsets you, and your husband and son needs you, so just do everything you can, and accept that everything will work out as it should. Blessings.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
22 May 12
Yes. I was too worried. So that got me confused, and not thinking properly. I will be as much as possible, to help my son.
@celticeagle (159058)
• Boise, Idaho
21 May 12
You should follow your husband. I hope you don't find that your son really needs the special school. Repeated his class would certainly be a good option. I think covering the same material would be good for him. If your son has problems is there any way you could go back to the special school? I hope it works out okay for him.
@celticeagle (159058)
• Boise, Idaho
21 May 12
Hopefully all will go well.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
21 May 12
I really hope all will go smoothly, and there is no difficulty.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
20 May 12
Hello indah..if it there's no other way how your son adapt his new learning curriculum, I think you better get tutor to help your child just for the mean time he would on his adjusting period... Nice day ahead.. Mobhomeir here 052112 0647hrs
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
21 May 12
Yes. You are right. Maybe I need to find a tutor for my son. Although, I must think of the money to pay. I have to discuss this, to my husband. I will do my best, for my son.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
21 May 12
You may find a private school soon and transfer your son after. Right now all you need to do is follow your husband and try to look for any private school soon as you arrived there. Maybe you will get to find a private school from other city or nearby town- just try to check the place first. And if ever you won't get a near private school, you have another option but to get him a private tutor.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
22 May 12
We've been looking for information, a suitable school for my child. Suitable school for my child, its distance from our house, and we were not able, to pay school fees.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
21 May 12
Just be the loving and understanding mom for your son. Try to teach him his lessons at home if he is having a hard time rather than finding a tutor. If you have work this will be a problem, but at least do find time to be a teacher to your son. I always believe, mother's are always the best teachers.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
22 May 12
Your response, it makes me calm. I certainly do my best. Hopefully, I can be the best teacher for my son. I am very worried, so I can not think well.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
22 May 12
I'm glad I got you calm . I understand your fears and worries, but I sure do know that you can do it
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
24 May 12
Isn't there any special schools he can attend even if it means having to travel a little further? If there is one available, you ought to let him continue his studies there. It's not easy for your son to adapt to public school because it's a sudden change for him. Pace of learning is much faster, along with interaction between classmates is so much different as well. If you son were to repeat in class 3, how confident are you he can go on to class 4, and not be affected by the way his classmates are treating him.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
24 May 12
I decided, to follow the advice of my child's teacher. I hope, my child can adjust in the new school. I also hope that my child gets a good friend. I tried to think positive. Although, I am still very worried.
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• Indonesia
21 May 12
Hi Indah, I think you should give him a try first, maybe he can adjust regular class in public school with special help. I'm sure he can make you proud as well. Just think positive and positive thing will happen .
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
22 May 12
Thank you. On your advice. You are right. I must give my son, to try. I will help my child, as I can. I will think positive. so that something positive will happen.
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
21 May 12
There is little choice, since you should follow and go live with your husband.. And there is no special school nearby, just help your son in this situation.. he can adapt if he has your support and encouragement.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
21 May 12
Yes. I had to help my son as possible. Only, I am very worried.
• India
21 May 12
I think you can seek the help of a teacher. So that he can make you teach your child easily without getting him to the school .
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
21 May 12
Actually, I also think the cost should I spend.