Special Dinner,This makes me sad :((

my bestfriend and me - this is just some shots of our happy days i am going to miss you my barbie :((
Philippines
May 26, 2012 11:38am CST
Hi mylotters, I just received a message from my best friend inviting us (including one mylotter) for a special dinner I felt sad because I know this dinner is not just a dinner but a sign that soon my best friend will leave Manila and study in India. I am happy for her as she is reaching her goal and wishing her success in life she is a bright lady it just sad that how time flies and we need to be a part though I just know her for how many years but the bond we had is so priceless I am very much happy every time I am with her. The endless stories, the laughters, food trips and of course those things that her parents did not know. I know she will be back and the friendship we started will still be the same but the feeling of she is miles away it makes me sad oh well everyone who is leaving for good or not makes us sad. I am in teary eyes when I am writing this one but I know she will have a better future. Do you also feel the same even you know they will be back? Just sharing some emotions here Happy mylotting
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11 responses
ryanong
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
27 May 12
Don't be sad, you guys still can keep in touch by using chatting/emails on the internet or phone call, etc even though she does study in India. I am happy for your friend too and i hope she will get more success.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
30 May 12
hi ryanong, thats true that's why we keep a promised to keep in touch thanks for the response happy mylotting
ryanong
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
1 Jun 12
starsailover
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
29 May 12
Hi bhaby catch: That's sad. We are not used to changes and to know that you are about to say good bye to someone you appreciate makes you feel sad. Try to think about this special night as the opportunity you have to show your friend how much you appreciate her. Sometimes crying is necessary to show your emotions to a person you are not going to see any more. Good luck to you and your friend. ALVARO
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
30 May 12
hi alvaro, I was about to cry when she hugged me so tight but I don't want to spoil the night we just promised to each other we will stay in touch. thanks for the response happy mylotting
lynpreety
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
26 May 12
That's really sad bhaby, I have many friends who come and go. And we really missed each other. Really these kind of friends are hard to find, only if we can keep them but it is impossible to do. Just bare in mind that time will come and you will see each other again. You look like sisters when I saw your pictures. They say if your always been together you will be look a like. Good luck to your friend. Cheers
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
30 May 12
hi lyn, thank you but she is more pretty we will still see each other maybe after a year thanks for the response happy mylotting
marguicha
@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
28 May 12
I can understand your feelings as it´s difficult to face the parting of a friend. But just think that she is going to study to have a better life and that you will surely see each other again. Enjoy the party and don´t let her guess you are sad.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
30 May 12
hi marguicha, We had fun dinner, when she hugged me I almost cry but I still managed not to cause I don't want to spoil the night. thanks for the response happy mylotting
Professor2010
@Professor2010 (20156)
• India
27 May 12
Honey beti We feel sad because we are human beings, glad to know that your best friend is coming here, ask to call me when here.. BEST OF LUCK Hugs from Baba
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
30 May 12
hi baba, thanks for the response happy mylotting hugs for ma and shubee
ardoy0731
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
28 May 12
That is really sad.There will be times that we really have to say goodbyes and be separated to people that we love. Thanks to internet and cellphones, at least you can still communicate with each others but of course seeing her personally is better.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
30 May 12
hi ardoy, Yeah it will help a lot but its really different seeing and being with her personally. thanks for the response happy mylotting
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
26 May 12
aw....you made me cry as well
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
30 May 12
hi jai, It was a day full of laughter and our tummy was full again yesterday I am happy though my heart is aching I am really gonna miss her. love yah
CTHanum
@CTHanum (8233)
• Malaysia
26 May 12
Hi sis! You make me want to cry too~You must feel sad about it. I can understand it. I am sure you already start miss her, huh?? I felt the same when we know that we are going to follow our own path but since there is always ways for us to contact each other then it should be no problem.(^^)
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
30 May 12
hi CTH, Nice to see you again yeah I miss her already we had fun dinner last night at their place We promised to keep in touch. thanks for the response happy mylotting
alberello
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
26 May 12
Well, it sounds like you're telling me a farewell dinner, but no, it will be a dinner party of goodbye. First you must be happy because your friend will start with the aim to realize his life's career. Then, I can perfectly understand that she will be greatly missed, but you know however that you make sure to review she. Dear friend (and I hope you accept me as a friend on Mylot) life is complicated, wishes to your friend, a future full of happiness, love and prosperity.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
30 May 12
hi alberello, We don't think it's farewell dinner because we know that there will be a next time though it takes months. thanks for the response and wishes happy mylotting
enelym001
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
26 May 12
Hi bhaby, It's indeed sad that someone we used to hang out and talk with suddenly decides to leave us. Although your friend will come back still it will take time and the talk/chat will be lessened compared to the time you're spending before. Yes I would feel the same if a dear friend suddenly leaves even if I know that she will still come back. Well just look forward on the day that she'll come back.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
30 May 12
hi en, We promised to keep in touch We are really going to miss her. thanks for the response happy mylotting
thewonderboy
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
26 May 12
Life is something like that. You get those things which are quite unexpected. You didn't ever think of your from a distant land but you will see her far away from you in the coming days. You gets those things which is quite unexpected. Some times those unexpected things makes you happy and sometimes it can bring happiness. It depends on the the god decision. Pains are very usual in every ones life. God treats each of such pains by treating them with the things which can cure them. No one knows what are those medicines. Sometimes it can be a good friend, a good brother or any thing but we don't know when god treat us so.Any way life has to go one. I had also missed many of my friends as well as my sister. Friends are the only belonging in my life but still i have to miss them. I feel so pain but i has to keep them inside me.
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
30 May 12
hi TWB, Yeah you are right but even how far she is she will always be in my heart thanks for the response happy mylotting