What is Your Emotional Quotient at MyLot?

Hi Sid, I have changed a lot these days and my emotional attachment to mylot has also changed, to say in honest. Six months before I had been attached to mylot as like my own world. Later it is changed after marriage. Now I am trying to get attach with the friends here but there is no big brisk as like before to involve in mylot.

Hi Bro Yes surely I am attached emotionally with all my friends here. And of course I care/wait/want for them to appear on my discussions.. Otherwise they will be punished.. He he.. Joking.. I know they can't be there every time.. But of course I feel good and happy when I saw them on my discussions.. About attending there discussions, I always like to. Even I don't know about topic more, I try my best to leave one response on them. But not always as I used to be offline for many days in many cases.. Bro , I always like to be in your discussions.. So just ignore few stuffs if it is unrelated.. Ha ha I mean I will try my best to response on every discussion I see but it may go irrelevant.

Well,I honestly expect my dear close friends here to be in my discussion but I completely understand it if they don't appear or reply to one of it as I too sometimes or I could say most of the time is absent to their discussions,waaa!!! As much as I could,if I have time,I try to respond to all their discussions but I do have limited time,I can't even reply at once to y friends who made their replies to my discussions. Nowp,I never tailor a discussion to have specific lotters reply to it as I seldom make a discussion and if ever I have one,mostly it's because I've experienced it or I need some answers to my queries. so whoever wants to reply to my discussion is very much appreciated. Take care buddy!

Thesids Im emotionally attached to you I would love to participate in all of your discussions but i dont want to make it obvious that Im stalking you . Dont say that we would never meet in this life, who knows what might happen in the future by God willing who knows if i could be a sucessful business woman and able to travel around the world, there are some of mylotters that I would love to meet in person, i consider them as extended family. (in case that someone might read this response as I put my mylot profile link on my email to someone lol...thesids is like a brother for me, he has helped me alot so dont be jealous)

I do have an emotional attachment to some of mylotters here. I do wish that every time I post a discussion, these certain people would comment on it. And there is one person that I become close to him as we have a similar story in our lives. But the thing that makes me enjoy being here on Mylot is that I can encourage myself to give a nice respond to any discussions that i consider to be interesting.

Hi thesids, I don't know anyone here in mylot personally. Except for my cousin Eunique who has stopped logging in a month after I've referred her; she is a very busy person. When I make discussions, it's always the same people who answer though there are new faces like one or two.. I feel like I don't have a set of friends yet unlike when I read other discussions (mostly of members who have been here for so long) where they can make their inside jokes and understand one another. I could say that I am not attached emotionally to anyone here as of yet. Perhaps maybe because I could consider myself still new (am I still new? ).. Cheers!

Hi Bhai! Do I have to say it? You are one of my favorite people on earth, not just here on MyLot. I will always remember writing out A Unmarried Woman. That is where it began and now I know it will not end. you are the brother I never thought I would ever have! And it all began here. when I first came here I didn't know I would find family here but that is what I did. Send all my best to Bahu!

pretty much i have been transparent here, so i have been open even emotionally at times looking quite silly. yes i have been quite emotionally attached with the people here as well, like i have set i have found set of friends here ( like you) that i look forward on interacting here everyday. Mylot is like my family as well. do i tailor make a discussion? what do you mean by that dear sids? i pretty much tell what is on my mind and what is in my heart, and i really cannot tell who will appear or who will not... but i know my friends do really take time to read it which i really appreciate it but i do not posts discussion so that they will really appear, i know they are sincere in responding not just because we are friend, but because they really want to.

Hi Sid, It is a kind of attachment when we communicate with 1 or 2 topics and few hearty discussions, they will automatically get into our hearts and if the feel is same with the other party, they will stick into some part of our mind always reminding something that we covered. In my case also, some were so close, just like you a hand full of mentally paralled were here (though some of them were lost for ever) and till the last moment such people had the fragrence of closeness, which never move out. Such connections are alwys precious as we are out of the scene and I have my assurance that atleast 10% of such people will remain here around as this is the law of nature. I mean whatever we do, there may be some people to support and I am sure that you also includes the 10% and preferably a large share within the 10%. Also, I cannot keep a tailor made approach to anyone because mango & orange are totall differnet and its taste and quality also differs.... thank-s

Hmm, the way you perceive me sids, how do i rate in my emotional quotient here ? I think, here at mylot, i am so transparent, right? Well, that's what i am, what you read/see is what you get. But overall i am a happy mylotter here. I am always excited of what other mylotters specially my now close virtual friends here, like you, have for me to respond.

Hi Sids, It made me think a while how good it is to have a healthy set of friends and a virtual family that too filled with emotions. Yet, you have not met them. I think those interesting discussions and interactions with the lotters have made you emotionally closer to mylot / lotters in a big way. I wish you continue with all such good friends and make new ones too. Ok, my EQ –It’s 10 out of 10. You know why – because I feel sad when someone I know here is upset and I feel happy when others share their achievements and happiness. So I’m totally emotional. I do enjoy each and every response to my discussion and of late I do see that I am also developing such habit of ‘wanted to post / see their response’ to discussions started by few of my friends including theSids. I haven’t started any such Tailor made discussion towards this as whatever I start I am sure to see them there so haven’t felt the need of starting something special for them. More so it depends on the topic of interest of the maximum lot..right? Take care..

Ummm..emotions..eh..? Actually I am new so my emotions are new too.And to tell you the truth, I saw nice emotions here but I had difficulties in understanding them so I gave up getting involved. So far I haven't start a discussion as I have nothing to discuss...

To answer some of your questions, yes I do have some specific friends that I want to respond to my discussions. Do I tailor a discussion to target specific lotters...no I don't. If I do start a discussion it is about something that is of interest to me and I welcome various responses. Sometimes it's even refreshing to see someone new or not known to me respond. When looking for discussions of interest to me that I would like to respond to, yes I seek out certain people to see if they've started anything new and I usually respond if they have.

Mylot is great place to share knowledge and experiaces, we have interests like earn online, India, Bollywood, Hrithik, Madhuri Dixit and many more. While discussing various things on Mylot we come to know about each other because we share our thoughts, thinking, values, emotions etc and that is the reason why we feel attached with some Mylotters. Whenever I start any discussion I have a idea who would respond because I know who are passionate about what and who are interested in which interest. Few of my Mylot friends are my Facebook friends too and we chat there sometime.

It always makes me happy when my friends respond to my discussions. It is interesting to hear what they think about my topic and I enjoy talking to them in the comments. I know that I am never going to meet all of them in person because of the distanse between our countries, but our online friendship is important to me. I love to read the discussions about their daily lives and experiences and I try to help if one of my friends is looking for advice about a problem. Some of my friends and I write emails outside Mylot and we are friends on Facebook, and I hope that I will get the chance to meet some of them one day

I really don't care who answers to my discussions. As long as I get some replies! I was emotional attacted to a few Mylotter friends but they all back stab me! One wants to be my friend again but I am still angry at this person and am keeping them in libo for now. I really thought both were my friends and true friends at that! Not! It turns out you can't trust anybody nowadays!

Hi I like mylot but due to offline responsibilities I am not that active. I just got back this week. Before, when I wrote discussions, there few members that usually responded my discussions and I really like the way they answer. Each time I will create one I will always anticipate them. I can feel it that they're honest and I learned a lot from them. But today I don't know if they are still here. Maybe I have to add new set friends here and hopefully you will be one of them. There are really nice people to discuss with, they have a clean intentions even though we haven't meet them personally.

good day thesids, well,for me join in mylot is just to learn English better,but i will feel geart if i can make some friends here,you are right,we are in a virtual world here,i do hope that's some one appear on my discussions,now i just to response discussions from others,because my time is limited,i use computer only few hours every day,i also have a lot of work to do,mylot is a good place for learning English.