you love or loves you?

I am a true romantic and probably always will be. I Believe the one we love with all our heart and hold in our hearts will always have a special bond to us. We can't do much about the feelings of someone else who loves but but the feelings we have deep in our hearts for someone make a connection like no other.

Well I have made the mistake of jumping too fast. I loved her and still do but now she barely talks to me. Which is horrid since we are in an exchange together so we will practically be living together for 20 days. Just my opinion is don't take assumptions about what the other person's actions mean, they can often be misleading.

That's in fact a very difficult choice. It depends on the practicality of the choices. As it is all about your life, your decision has to be very practical. Though you love a girl/guy very much, it is not 100% sure that you get it back. Her/his expectations, likes and dislikes may be different. You can't be sure of how she/he would move about once you start a life with her/him. But on the other hand, the one who loves you, loves you knowing all your pros and cons. She/he would make a perfect life with you, provided your character is compatible with her/his. So it is definitely a very difficult thing to decide on!! Involves of hell a lot of thinking!!

Hi kyuheart, i think both must have mutual feelings. If the one in your heart you might be a slave to him/her especially if the one knows that you are desperate for his/her love. You might change yourself just to be loved and when he/she's gone your world would be empty and you would feel like not yourself again. And if he/she holding your heart then you will have a hard time trying to please him/her so he/her would not get hurt for you not returning the love. But if the feelings are mutual everything would be easy and smooth, no extra work or feelings.If theres a breakup both will still be good friends and move can move on without hurt feelings. But then again it is easy said than done. To me if theres doubt its a no go.

uuuuummmm.....naughty minded......acha accrding to me yes heart holds love for sme 1 special....but to me it should be a slow process.....there shoudnt be any hurry in love....ya but had many of the crushes and it alwys remaind crush....so....take the relation and drive it very slowly on a 10 speed.....if ua serus for a gal...nai th sme boys are there who be in relation fr tomepass......but thts nt right.....so falll in love but at slow rate....:) now what do you say kyuheart

I think ideally you need both to make things work. You need to love your person, and they need to love you as well. If that doesn't work out, the second-best thing would be to go for somebody who loves you... because if you two have enough in common and they love you, you will more than likely fall in love with them too.

Both... My hubby is the one in my heart and he is holding me in his heart. I was very lucky to find a great guy like him!!! He is so loving and caring and is truly my best friend. 7 years married 12 years together in all and we are still going strong!! Sure we have our disagreements, everyone does but we make it out of them still loving each other :)

If this question was asked to me some 4 years before my answer will be that I will choose the one who loves me. But if you ask the question now then my answer would be the other one. Because now I love a girl more than myself and I am in a condition that I can't loose her and infact I don't want to. Therefore to all those who loves me my answer will be a definite sorry....

to be honest i would rather have the one who's holding me in his heart. i have tried being in a relationship where in i was the only one who was seriously in love and it was really a very frustrating situation to be in. i have also tried having a boyfriend who not only loved me deeply but adored me with all his heart. i was pampered.

Hi kyuheart, i think both must have mutual feelings. If the one in your heart you might be a slave to him/her especially if the one knows that you are desperate for his/her love. You might change yourself just to be loved and when he/she's gone your world would be empty and you would feel like not yourself again. And if he/she holding your heart then you will have a hard time trying to please him/her so he/her would not get hurt for you not returning the love. But if the feelings are mutual everything would be easy and smooth, no extra work or feelings.If theres a breakup both will still be good friends and can move on without hurt feelings. But then again it is easy said than done. To me if theres doubt its a no go.