online relationships

Canada
June 8, 2012 3:28pm CST
hello ladies and gentlemen of the online world *thumbs up* my rant today is about online dating, how many of you have signed up to a site..ohh..say maybe plenty of fish ( everyone's on that site lol) Have you been successful in finding what you are looking for? of have you just found creeps and weirdo's? (unisex terms lol) my last few girlfriends have been found online..my Ex and I lasted over a year..sadly the after her,was a complete nutjob and ruined A LOT of things for me, but that's maybe a story for later lol and NOW seemingly great girl, but she triggers trust flags all the time, I'm very wary of women in general..think their sneaky lol but I've been conditioned to think so, last one that demanded i trust her, was just given a golden pass to go f**k around, without me saying anything. once bitten twice shy right? part of me is reminded of that demon..and not focus on the angel i have, its not fair to treat them all like they have done something, but how can you not? I seem to distrust online women most of all, granted I am working on them..for the most part this new one is teaching me how to let go of the past..but some part of me is always conflicted that shes just trying to get me to put my guard down to add me to her social list lol i might have trailed off there for a bit..thanx 4 listening.. might do a topic about trust..write a damn book..
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• United States
8 Jun 12
I know two relationships that started from online dating. Both turned out alright. One, my mother in law met and married a man who turned out decent from online dating and they're happy and the other a friend met and married a guy. There are good and bad people everywhere online and off. You really can't discount someone just because they are online. Though of course you need to be cautious but that goes with real life as well. I have seen just as many people meet psycho's in real life that I know personally as the ones I know or hear about online. Like I said, there are good and bad people no matter where they hang out.
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@dobsyto (298)
• Bulgaria
8 Jun 12
Hmm. Yeah there are lots of people on this social sites. I think the real love is when you are hanging around like in the park and see a women and you just like her in your first see. This is my thinking so I also use the social sites but I think it is better to just see the person for first time in real life!
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@Orson_Kart (5635)
• United Kingdom
8 Jun 12
I've tried one-line relationships, but they don't seem to last very long.
@aribdee (133)
• United States
9 Jun 12
I have tried signing up on different dating sites but I cancelled all my account because I have a girlfriend now. Well online dating sites are good ones. You can look for a person you want to meet. The downside is you can't trust everyone because there are few people who choose to post different name and different pictures of themselves. You have to meet them first before giving your complete trust.
@Morgus (14)
• Denmark
9 Jun 12
Online relationships isn't really that great if you don't meet them in-person. :/ But you may find the right person for you online which is amazing. There are many ways to find the right person and online dating is one of them.