To give or to keep...

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In China, the culture always advocates soical courtesy like giving seats to those who are under privilieged when taking a bus. In my city the public bus system has a broadcasting system repeating this information very often and it encourages the clients to give away seats to the elderly,the weak,the diseased , and the disabled and pregnant women and children. I have had given away my seats to people fell under that category but the circumstance around that may be different each time and there were times I did not give my seat those others. There are always two sides of factors to influence your decision of to give or to keep your seat. The first and more influencial side is from the condition of the person you see. Usually I'd give the seat to those who are obivously over than 60 and others who are very clear to have the need to have a seat like a woman carrying a very young baby; The second factor is related to my own situation at that specific moment . At times I,myself, am tired,say after a long session of dancing, or when I am going on a long distance journey with a pair of high-heeled shoes on. At those moments, I am a bit reluctant to give my seat to others ,so at times I simply suggested to share a seat with people when it's not too embarrassing. Also I do had times that I felt a big guilty for not giving seats because of the unfavorite conditions from my own side ...What's the story from you guys? Have you ever had similar experiences of my sort??