People Who Assume Without Real Thought
By nerein
@nerein (283)
United States
June 11, 2012 7:37pm CST
One thing that really annoys me are people who misassume before they know all the facts. These are the people who sit and think they know a person before they get to know them or there thoughts or ideas. These are the people who in turn end up starting rumors, lies, and as well cause unneeded problems. Not only for others, but for themselves in the end as well.
There are in the end two main ways to deal with these type of people. The first is to try and show and prove to them that your the misassumptions. Once they come around make them into allies. Now if you have more than proven yourself, and they still don't stop. They purposely causing problems.
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5 responses
@stanley777 (9401)
• Philippines
12 Jun 12
Those are horrible people indeed. Sadly, many of them exist in this world, usually the media, hey are very malicious and make up stories just to have something to write. 
They don't have any regard for other's feelings.
They don't have any regard for other's feelings.
@kenshin2143 (1880)
• Philippines
12 Jun 12
I agree with this, although there are still honest media people out there. Going back, indeed many of those people exist in this world of ours. The only thing you can do is establish a good self awareness and live life according to your will and not be driven by all sorts of pressure.
@sukumar794 (5040)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
12 Jun 12
There are certain people who always carry preconceived notions about the others. It is really bad behavior. They are quite concerned about other people's personal life and engagements .They would rather prefer to peep into others' personal lives than looking at their own flaws. It is lack of proper though which cause this maladjustment.
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
12 Jun 12
I think we all fall victims to this actually, and it is already by people's nature that we would often already have our opinions before knowing the facts. One good example of this was when an office mate was asked in their school about their stand on the RH bill our senate was trying to pass. Many already had their opinions, others were anti this bill because it covers allowing divorce to happen in the country. But one person even already said that there was abortion being allowed in the bill. That is where you would know that they have not even read the provision of the BILL and they already had their opinions and even creating their own version of the said bill.. and they haven't even read what it is all about. This is the same thing with how we see other people - we often have already formulated what we "think" of a person without even asking or trying to know the real score, or getting to know the real person...
@celticeagle (189833)
• Boise, Idaho
12 Jun 12
I don't care for these type of people either. I must say though that I am one that has a hard time getting past a first impression. I think they can show as misassuming and you can certainly try to turn their heads but I wouldn't try too hard. If they have the wrong idea they are the ones who need to over come it through time and maybe talkin to you. If that doesn't happen then it is their problem not yours.
@kenshin2143 (1880)
• Philippines
12 Jun 12
I think having a first impression towards any person is very common and normal to people. On the other hand, sticking to that impression, starting humors and causing further problems can be very wrong for it degrades the dignity and personality of the person you are referring to. Personally, I handle these people by just ignoring them and continuing the things I used to do. Remember, we cannot please all people around us. Therefore, we should be living according to their standards and expectations.
