why do friends sometimes pretend they do care but in fact they don't?

There are so many kinds of people in this world we are growing.Just like your friends you call,be ready for the greatest test you could observe when you call for their help because a true friend is always there to guide and help you.Now,choose the ones that really help you when you needed their attention because true friendships are not just made up always joy,that there are more serious situations that you could not decide and the decision coming from your friends are sometimes helpful.

Hello my friend jobfindonline Ji, If you hav eidentified them, I think you must keep them Off and reduce your relation to minimum, else they may tarnish your image one day. Get prepared for the worst. May God bless You and have a great time

I don't have any friend who pretends. I know my friend very well. Well, maybe they're just few of them (close friends) I have many friends, but only few are closest to me and I can count on when things went wrong and they are the one who are sensitive enough to feel what I feel without me saying a word. Yes, that's annoying when people pretend they care when deep inside they don't

A little bit extra now-a-days considered as a quality. Why make ups, it glows and express and highlight what is there in original. Who don't like a marginal boasting and also if it is from a friend. It is happening because many are simply accepts such show-off and silently supports also.

Everybody may have a friend like this,we may going through to know different type of person.So that's what we should learn about life,some people are fake,maybe everything has reasons to exit.So choose right person and have great time being together.Do not feel painful,everything seems will be fine.

Hi friend, sad to hear about your stage, now a days most of our friends is in this sort, it is really hard to find a real friend in these days. I too have a lot of experience in this sort and have a lot of fake friends before, now i am organized and keep distance from this kind of persons

Hmm. I think I know someone like that. She's an online friend of mine and whenever I send her a message, she tells me that she misses me and that she always think of me and cars for me bla bla but it was always me who initiates conversation with her and if I don't send her a message, she won't send a message to me too.

Unfortunately, there indeed are people like that. They show you you could be friends - even close friends, but suddenly you realize that it was just all an act. I could remember a 'friend' of mine who did this to me. She was a colleague at work and since I was 'new' that time, I had to adjust to the things that they do and one of the few people who was there to 'help' me was her. It wasn't until I saw her true colors that I have finally decided to guard against fake friends. I discovered her intentions when one time we were talking about some reference we decided to use, she told me she wouldn't be needing to use the new reference but when we agreed not to, my attention was suddenly called by our superior because apparently, she leaked out the conversation and blamed me for everything. I knew it was her because I didn't have time to talk to other people about it. I was truly devastated at the two-faced person and decided never to trust any of her words again. Have a great Mylot experience ahead!

Fortunately, I don't have friends like that... All the friends I have, they'll tell me straight to my face if they don't care... And I respect them for it...

hi, I faced such people in life. During my first year of college, i was not aware of all these acting personalities, who pretend to be good, infact they are not . But after realizing the facts i started to be wise , and didnt fall in their trap.

Actually, I had lot of experiences like this that is why as much as possible, I am trying to avoid to be so serious in any friendship. I don't have that so called close friend because I don't want to be hurt anymore. Although I am not closing my doors to anybody, but I am very choosy and I give tests without them knowing it. Most often, my new acquaintances failed.

I've had, but we've had a fallout since. She had a little bit of a big head. She was thinking she was the best thing since sliced bread and that she was perfect. But she wasn't. She was really shallow. She expected me to always be there for her and console her about stupid pointless things and first world problems (like when an actress wrote only her name on an autograph, not "With love for XY", snd she threw a hissy fit about it... also, she had a friend who was a big fan of another actor we met after a theatre play at the actors' entrance, and she wangted to hell her and make the actor talk to her, but the actor, who's just super sweet and all, said that he just didn't want to, because he was really tired and he would really sound bored on the phone... and she kept making sulky faces and offended faces... I was embarrassed for her, too... and after that she kept asking me that "I was right, was i?".... geeeeeez), but when I was having serious problems and was waiting for some help, she didn't really care and was just annoyed by this. Maybe because she hasn't had serious problems, but she shouldn't have been this indifferent, though. And after all, once I forgot her nameday (which isn't even that of a big deal), she flipped out at me telling I was using her, when I don't know how many times I helped her in pointless things and consoling her even when I didn't agree with her, and she keeps saying I used her, when she did that thing. I'm so glad I got rid of her... well, when she left, I kind of missed her, but now, after 2 years, I see how much I profited from her and see how she wasn't a great friend. One example: when we were together, I only went to the theatre to see musicals in a certain theatre... I love that theatre and love musicals, but I wanted to see new stuff, and every time I recommended something she said "ok, I'll think about that", but she never did. And now, with her other friend, who's more interesting than me (because she is on a semi-good way to become an actress), she kisses her butt all the time, and for her she goes to see those plays I recommended earlier and posts on facebook how good they are. And now, I am more free, I see plays I want, not just the ones she wants to see, and my cultural life has become so much more diverse, because she's just a snob and by herself, she would only go to see plays that have her fave actors in it... So don't worry, sometimes these friends are the best to get rid of. You are going to feel so much better after a while, even though it really hurts in the first time.

You do the right thing by not point it out straight away and also keep in mind that your words might hurt them. This is a very correct attitude and right gesture too. Actions speak louder than word. I also have few like you explained and I gradually increase my distance from them. I think twice before doing this since I may also be wrong. But if I find myself right, I do this. Infact I have also seen them realizing their mistakes ones they see themselves missing me. When you make conclusion that you are right, the act often benefits you more then anyone else.

It's really hard to have a friend like that and you the feeling makes you think that you don't belong and it is just so awkward. I guess you just have to find more friends that are worthy of you and you concerns.

Some friends are fake. I have so many fake friends . They didn't know about real friendship. I feel so sad about that . Once I had so many friends circle but they are fake friends. I am so sad bcoz I have such good friends .

This is a question I have asked myself many, many times. While I'm not a needy person in general, there have been times in my life when I have reached out to friends for help, guidance, consolation, protection, understanding...you get the picture. I have been let down over and over and this even by people who say they love me. I've made friends on-line and felt very close to some people and we have promised each other to always stay in touch and most of them have just disappeared without even saying goodbye. In general now, I don't trust anyone and I don't believe anyone...and yet, I'm still outgoing and friendly when meeting people because we all need a friend. However, I keep to myself most of the time.

Yes I had a lot of fake friend in the pass but I have some good ones so I just leave those fakers to time . Most real friends will be their when no one else is.

Believe it or not, some people just do not know any better. You would be amazed at how many people in the world have not been taught the appropriate way to behave and have no clue that they are doing anything wrong. You should definitely say something - in private - but don't be mean about it and don't do it while you are angry.

There was a time that I had people that were a part of my life that were very two-faced people. However, I realized the way that those people were and they are not a part of my life any longer. These days there are very few people that are a part of my life because I choose to have only people in my life that really do care about me and my family and also choose to not have anyone in my life that is a very drama filled person.

Yes now days people do friendship for there benefit and not for being a friend. They just want something from us. Or they fell that being with us will benefit them . So plz make friends carefully . And just try to keep ur eye open all the time.