celebrating alone

@Angelpink (4035)
Philippines
September 9, 2012 12:18pm CST
Friends have you tried celebrating a special occasion alone ? You are celebrating your anniversary and he is not around ? No cakes , no roses , no wines , no presence . The feeling is killing ..very painful , whole day agony you are into and you can't share it .
7 responses
10 Sep 12
I haven't tried celebrating special occasion alone. But if it will happened to me, I probably feel unhappy, depressed, and it feels like it will kill you because of the pain . .
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
Don't ask for it , so painful , you are like to end your relationship. To men celebrations are nothing but for us girls it means a lot . It is a big deal.
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
Yes. Like my birthday. It's just because I'm here at school and my family's not with me. I'm pretty sure he'll do something to make it up for you. Who knows, there might be a surprise. :)
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
He sent a note , a mail but no more make ups he made. I don't know if i will get mad or let him be..
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
10 Sep 12
That sound depressing , I dont think its possible to celebrate that kinda of thing alone . I would be so angry to not having my partner around to share our moment with . I would only understand if he is in the army or something .
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
He got some compulsions out , but i was not able to do anything though inside i want to shout and scream.
@Ladybugs (404)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
Hello there Angel Pink. I was already able to spend a very special occasion alone. It happened last February when it was me and my boyfriend's anniversary. Our anniversary happened on a Monday and I had to go to work. He also needed to go somewhere with his father that day. I work in a city two hours away from his place so I wasn't able to see him even only that morning. I felt a bit sad and incomplete not having him with me on our very special day. It was different from the other occasions because it could only happen once a year. It was our anniversary, not only a monthsary. I only had our two baby dolls with me. We consider them as our babies this time because we don't have any child yet and we're not yet married. :) I just took some pictures of those dolls that day so I would have some special pictures to remember. It was just okay because before that day, we were already able to see each other. We already had an early celebration but I think celebrating on the real date of our anniversary is better and more special. Though, I'm already used to celebrating some special occasions alone. It happens sometimes when our monthsaries would fall on weekdays. I'm just so happy when our monthsaries would fall into weekends so we could really spend some quality time together. In that case, we could enjoy spending some sweet moments together. May we be with our partners the next time that there would be a special occasion so we would really feel great, blissful, and complete. Happy myLotting. :)
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
It feels so bad when it is an anniversary and he is not around. We girls treat that day so important , might be for man it is just an ordinary day but for us girls it means a lot. Sometimes situations also don't allow us to meet and celebrate. It 's okey it is painful but we have to deal with it with a positive mind hoping coming anniversaries he would be around.
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@natliegleb (5175)
• India
9 Sep 12
that is absolute distress and causing so much again and pain,wait for him to arrive and then allthings will be perfect,i wish for the best
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
He won't arrive so sure of that , it's okey it is amybe part of life.
@VGDesigns (102)
• United States
9 Sep 12
This is the time when you have to do something special for yourself. Anything. Go shopping, get your hair done, nails, something that really lights you up. When you do this you awaken the Goddess with in and become very irresistible. He won't want to be away on your anniversary again.
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
Great , great idea , i will apply this when ever there is another occasion and he won't be around..Why not , this is a beautiful suggestion. I will submit for extreme make over.
@vanessa11 (296)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
You mentioned that, will be celebrating our poor monthsary this tuesday (4th monthsary). He's kinda sad that we will not be able to see each other. And I told him its okay since we're kinda always seeing each other and it was like we're always celebrating the every day even with no occassion.