Poor girl's gonna have a complex...
By TheRealDawn
@dawnald (85137)
Shingle Springs, California
September 9, 2012 12:26pm CST
After the twins' birthday party yesterday, Cary went to sleep over at a friend's house, and Naomi had her girlfriends over to my place. Around 7:00 it started. "Mom, can they sleep over." (eye roll) Ok, fine. So they all start calling their parents, and 3 girls are allowed to stay.
R came over after the party to anchor my book cases so that I can finally finish unpacking. He wasn't quite done when the boyfriend came over. R finished up and left, and then Tony went downstairs and asked the kids if they wanted to watch Avengers.
Miss Picky Dearra said she'd wait for the blue-ray with all the extras. We went upstairs, and then Tony went back downstairs to ask Naomi if SHE wanted to watch it since she's the birthday girl. That's when her friend Sam (Samantha) asked, "who are you?"
Tony decides to be funny, makes a creepy face, and says, "I'm the one who's going to murder you all in your sleep." Sam lets out a shriek, and Dearra says, "relax, it's mom's boyfriend."
Tony comes upstairs and says "now she's going to be afraid of black people."
Bad, bad Tony. We were laughing so hard about it with the girls this morning. Yikes...
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@celticeagle (189915)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Sep 12
I wonder if Tony wishes he hadn't said that now. Mom's boyfriend sounds like quite the card. That must be nice for a change. R seems like a TA. Maybe that's just my opinion and how I have read him through your writings here. Some kids can be so picky and funny about stuff.
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@celticeagle (189915)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Sep 12
Tight A*ss! He does sound like a good one. I meant card as in funny.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
9 Sep 12
I like Tony! And looks like the kids like him too! Fantastic!1 person likes this
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
10 Sep 12
Giggles, Your man Tony sounds great with the kids. Yeeks..I'm surprised R took Tony being there so easy since he was so hard to shake loose. But glad life is straightening out and going so well.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Sep 12
hi dawn sounds like most everupme had a great time and tony'I imangine thought the kids would understand he was teasing but
I guess poor Sam was not convinced.good that dearra told them
Relax its m oms boyfriend Sam I am sure will ge tover it bu t
yeah maybe he should not have said that but am sure he thought they all knew he was teasing. At least you all had a good
laugh this morning.
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@cynthiann (18612)
• Jamaica
11 Sep 12
Actually, I am laughing at some of the responses.You are in a good place in your life right now Dawn and it would appear that the kids are in a good place too
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@bounce58 (17380)
• Canada
12 Sep 12
Wrong in so many levels! 
But I hope she took it for what it is. And I hope that instead of a complex, she takes it to the opposite end that, and realize that some people can really be so funny.
Unless of course their name is Jason, or Freddie, or even Chuckie!
But I hope she took it for what it is. And I hope that instead of a complex, she takes it to the opposite end that, and realize that some people can really be so funny.
Unless of course their name is Jason, or Freddie, or even Chuckie!
@maximax8 (31042)
• United Kingdom
9 Sep 12
I think that Tony said something very scary to Samantha asked who he was. It was great that Dearra said he is her mom's boyfriend. It was bad when Tony said that now she's going to be afraid of black people. I must have been a lovely birthday for Cary and Naomi. It must have been so funny the next morning after Naomi's sleepover laughing about all that had happened.
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
9 Sep 12
I don't think she'll be afraid. She was laughing about it this morning. But he probably shouldn't have said it.
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
12 Sep 12
yeah they did, it was just the initial shock
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
9 Sep 12
I wonder if Sam was "pretending" when she shrieked. Because if I was convinced someone was dangerous, I wouldn't shriek, I would probably still there quickly, planning my escape..
LOL
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
9 Sep 12
The thing im hoping is the girl dont tell herparents... thats wrong on so many levels but funny.
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
9 Sep 12
She's not the type to tell her parents stuff, but we shall see.
@wilsongoddard (7291)
• United States
9 Sep 12
Oh, so very wrong... but funny. Your boyfriend sounds like he would fit in well with my group of friends.
My ex-boyfriend was always too uptight about race and religion. 
Thankfully, my current boyfriend isn't.
Your boyfriend sounds like he would fit in well with my group of friends.
My ex-boyfriend was always too uptight about race and religion. Thankfully, my current boyfriend isn't. 1 person likes this
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
12 Sep 12
Tony's not uptight about it, but it comes up now and then...
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
10 Sep 12
Yes Tony did a bad thing but it was funny! Nice to know he has a sense of humor! I am still laughing thinking about it! Glad Sam was laughing about it the next morning with everyone else!
Glad Sam was laughing about it the next morning with everyone else! 1 person likes this
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
12 Sep 12
he does have a sense of humor about most things....
