My voice sounds strange to me...Is it only...me?

@KOSTAS499 (1624)
Greece
September 19, 2012 4:01pm CST
Whenever I hear my voice in a video or sound recording, it sounds very strange to me. I can say that... I don't like it at all. What do you think of your voice? Have you tried this?
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19 responses
@derek_a (10874)
20 Sep 12
I used to work as a musician/entertainer and I also found that my voice sounded so different coming out of speakers. It is because we hear our own voices coming from within and speakers/recorders give them as they are coming from outside our own years. If you place a microphone on just under the left side of your jaw-line on the throat, then it will sound more similar to what you hear yourself, which is slightly muffled. It was strange when I heard my voice coming through external speakers for the first time, but I got acclimatized to it. After all, I had spent all my life up to that point practicing formulating the sound of my voice from the hearing point of what I could hear, not what others could hear. If you keep using microphones, you will find that your voice will sound better. It won't sound different of course, but you will modify very slightly until you are just as happy speaking through a microphone or not through a microphone. _Derek
@derek_a (10874)
21 Sep 12
Hi Kostas... There is no set time or method. The more you use the mike, the more you will get used to the sound of your own voice coming through the speakers. I even used to practice speaking with a mike at home as to how I would address an audience and this way I got used to the sound of my voice coming from the speakers. Good luck with this, but it's just a case of practice makes perfect. _Derek
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
20 Sep 12
Great info. Should I talk to people through a micropohone everyday? :))))))
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@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
20 Sep 12
This is quite normal for most people. We are used to hearing our voice from inside our own head so when we hear it on film, it does sound a lot different and is similar to how others hear it. This is a dilemma that I am facing at the moment as I get more into filming myself for my Youtube channel. I always cringe when I hear my own voice which is why I am currently making my motorbike videos like this one I just uploaded: http://youtu.be/MFBEgHoE2l8 No voice, just music. In the future I plan to get more into "motovlogging" which is talking while you are riding and filming like in this one: http://youtu.be/M2qRPQIkvmw I will just have to get used to my voice which I know is quite monotone and flat at times. I will also need to put more emotion into my voice in order to get lots of subscribers on my channel.
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
20 Sep 12
I have seen some of your videos. I would say that you sound OK, you wouldn't :) I wouldn't get into motovlogging as you call it, because I want 100% of my attention on the road. Why do you want subscribers?
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
25 Sep 12
I have a Youtube chanel,too. Could you explain how you make money from Youtube?
@ShyBear88 (59275)
• Sterling, Virginia
20 Sep 12
Oh yes when I hear my own voice after it's been recorded in some way it sounds funny to me. I sound like a little kid.
@ShyBear88 (59275)
• Sterling, Virginia
21 Sep 12
I've always wonder if that is how people hear me that I sound like a little kid. Maybe that is why little kids like me because I have a soft like voice that is easy to like.
@almond24 (1248)
• Hungary
20 Sep 12
I noticed the same and it's very strange for me too. I wanted to be a singer when I was a child, but hearing my voice coming from the tape absolutely discouraged me. We were playing with other kids recording our voices, and I thought it wasn't me... the funny thing is that when I listen to my recorded voice, it still sounds the same it sounded when I was a kid. Like a chipmunk's voice from a cartoon
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
20 Sep 12
Is that why you chose that picture for your profile? :)))))
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@almond24 (1248)
• Hungary
21 Sep 12
I didn't think about it when I chose the picture, but I guess it's part of my identity already
@kongno (431)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
yes i notice that too, it's different from what i expected i knew it was me but some kind of strange me, i like to hear my voice more when i sing in a karaoke machine,...
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
20 Sep 12
Do you mean hearing it through a speaker?
@kongno (431)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
the strange voice is from the recordings, but the somewhat my natural voice is from the karaoke machine, yes hearing it trough the karaoke machine's speaker, but not for recording but for singing purpose only,..
@mae_ais (105)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
same here..when ever i hear my own voice or watch video compilations of us, i think i hear a man's voice..lol!
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
25 Sep 12
A man's voice? have you ever asked your frineds about this?
@mae_ais (105)
• Philippines
28 Sep 12
yes.. they often tell me that it's not..weird..
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
21 Sep 12
Hi... It is very natural... For the simple reason that you never know your own voice... I still don't know my own voice... Hardly anyone does, I believe! So it is natural to feel amazed to hear one's own voice on a recording device... This explanation might sound over something, but it is most logical.. Try to remember your own voice... I tried many times, I still can't...
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
25 Sep 12
I remember what I hear in my head.
@ElicBxn (63233)
• United States
19 Sep 12
I don't like to hear my voice on a recording because it doesn't sound like what I think I sound like when I'm talking in my head... you know, voice/ear thingie....
@ElicBxn (63233)
• United States
21 Sep 12
when you speak, you hear it not only with your outer ears, but with it inside your skull so it sounds different...
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
20 Sep 12
What is voice/ear thingie?
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• Southend-On-Sea, England
25 Sep 12
Everybody tells me I have a lovely speaking voice, but if I listen to a recording of it, it sounds awful to me and I hate it.
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
25 Sep 12
It happens to most people I guess.
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
20 Sep 12
It's natural for your voice to sound different to you when you hear it on a recording. The difference is that when you say it your ears blend the sound of your voice-going out & -reflecting back; when you hear it recorded you only hear half of that. I remember back when I was recording my voice reading, and I was surprised I sounded like such a nerd when I heard the playback---in my own head, I sound something like a prosperous Southern gentleman
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
20 Sep 12
How did the Southern gentleman become a nerd? He went in a studio :)
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
20 Sep 12
I feel that kind of really weird to hear my voice through the recording tools.My friend says that it's not like my voice at all but some others are saying that the voice is good. So i'm using it for some companies as recording calls.lol,i like it coz it's really interesting to hear mine.
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
20 Sep 12
How do you sound like?
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
20 Sep 12
KOSTAS, I am totally with you...I heard my voice years ago and wanted to know, "who the hell is that"?? I was really sure that was not me..Others thought it was funny but I did not find any humor in it because i was really serious... even when I do my voice mail, it does not sound like me...
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
20 Sep 12
"who the hell is that"?? hahaha How does it sound like?
• Greece
20 Sep 12
I hate my voice too. The bottom line is that I sound like a Londoner and it is flat and not at all pretty to listen to. It doesn't sound a bit like I sound to myself, I think the recordings must bring out any hint of an accent we might have. I grew up in London but I have not lived there since I was a teenager, but that accent still lingers I am afraid.
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
20 Sep 12
Is it so easy for your accent to change? And change into what? A similar accent?
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
Yes, I had also experieced that kind of scenario. I was overwhemled to the fact that I did not believe it was my voice. It sounds so seductive..lol..I used to hear my voice through our Quality Assurance Personnel in my work because I was once a collection analyst and my job was to interact with different kinds of customers via phone.We have been graded through that interactions.
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
20 Sep 12
Seductive? Call me now! I'll tell you...
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
20 Sep 12
In the past my brother and I often recorded our own cassette tapes. On the tapes we talked, sang etc and I still remember the first time that I heard about my voice on tape. I thought: "Do I really sound like that?" I must say that I like my voice better when I talk. I once read the explanation behind this, and it has to do with the way that we are created. I don't remember the details of the explanation, but no one hears their voice the correct way when they speak. It is a little strange to think about that. The voice that we think is real, isn't real and everyone else gets a different impression of our voice when we speak.
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
20 Sep 12
I think because we hear it in this big "speaker", our head. I prefer my voice when I was a kid, I sounded a lot better.
@marguicha (215174)
• Chile
19 Sep 12
It happens the same to me. And I don´t like my voice in a recording. It´s not only strange, but not nice. Should we start practicing sign language instead?
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
20 Sep 12
You think? It doesn't sound strange to me. I just don't like it.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
11 Dec 12
Heheeh...when we heard our own voice always feel strange some time on mobile my own voice return back and feel bad because feel like voice is not good. I also not like my voice.
• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Sep 12
Yes I totally agree with you. I think my voice sounds so strange when I hear it back. I didn't think I sounded that way. Lol. I don't like it at all. I wish my voice sounded the way it does in my head... I think most people feel that way! Lol.
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
20 Sep 12
Doesn't sound better in our head? I wonder how singers feel about it.
• Greece
13 Dec 12
Yes I have heard my own voice and I don't like it at all. I think this is because I can hear my London accent which is not noticable to me usually. I've heard myself sing and that is much nicer!!