I was wondering !!!!!!!

@june2248 (154)
September 21, 2012 7:27am CST
Hello everyone, i was wondering that if you don't have friends except your laptop. This is exactly my life now, i really don't have any friend except my laptop but it doesn't mean that i don't like to make friends even i tried so many times to make friends but people take advantage. Sometimes i feel that we should have friends in our life to talk and share something good.
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
21 Sep 12
I feel really bad for you that your only friend is the computer. Have you not found some friends on Mylot? There are a lot of nice people here. Just keep interacting with those here that have been here for a long time. You can read their posts and see what they are all about. I hope a friend will show up soon for you.
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@june2248 (154)
24 Sep 12
Hi 1hopefulman, i am very glad to see your sympathy dear, you know i never tried to hurt anyone in my life even i tried to help people but in my turn people take there step back, i am not telling lie,i know so many people over here don't believe this but my god knows, This is the reason i decided to be with my computer and share some good or bad part of my day to day life, i really like "Mylot" and i love to come over here. TK (pleas be around)
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@1hopefulman (45113)
• Canada
24 Sep 12
Hi June! You can call me Hope for short. I also like Mylot, so unless they throw me out or I'm too sick to type I'll be here. I see that you believe in God. Were you not able to find some friends at the place of worship you attended?
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@june2248 (154)
27 Sep 12
Hi 1Hopefulman, How are you dear? This short hope is my pleasure, what would i say now i don't have words my friend except "THANK'S" TK
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@marguicha (229808)
• Chile
24 Sep 12
I have been blessed all my life with many dear friends. Some of them have been with me for only a part of my life (it´s easy as I´m not young anymore). But for me friends have been a sort of second family and have helped me many times as I also try to help them when they need it. I have never felt they have taken advantage of me.
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@june2248 (154)
27 Sep 12
Hi Marguicha, How are you doing? Yes, you are really blessed by god that he has given you second family and that is your friends. Friendship is something which we really need in our life, also i believe that there is no age band in friendship so i must say you are rich my dear. TK
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@buenavida (9984)
• Sweden
25 Sep 12
Hi, june I'm happy you have found some friends here in myLot. I'm sure you will find other friends too, but as you have already seen, we have to learn to know people before we can trust them. There are lots of good people still in this world, so don't lose hope.
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@buenavida (9984)
• Sweden
27 Sep 12
Dear June - I guess some people just don't understand - perhaps they have never learned and we can only feel sorry for them, as showing interest to others should make them feel a lot happier. There must be other people you can learn to know that treat you in a friendly way.. I don't know what part of the world you live in, but if the diet of most there is wrong, it can affect their brain and they maybe are not capable to think the right way. One Dr wrote that wheat can make people sick and as our digestion affects the brain, they may get things like ADHD and even worse. So if people behave badly, they either have a wrong diet or they don't and understand how to show the love that God teaches us. Many think that selfishness is a good way, but at least my experience has shown that it is quite the opposite. God is love and he will eventually bless those who love Him. So we need to find friends who love God and if we can, help others to learn about His ways. If we study the Bible and talk to God every day, then He can become our best friend. What do you think..??
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@june2248 (154)
29 Sep 12
Hi Buenavida, I think you are totally right, i am agree with your words. There is something wrong with peoples diet. You know what the way you express your words this really wonderful to me i think i am learning so many things in "MyLot" and this is really good. TK
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@june2248 (154)
27 Sep 12
Hi Buenavida, thank's dear i will try my level best to not lose the hope but i can't say because i am too scared, i was coming across with so many examples in this age. which you can say the age of surrounding with friends. Oky, let me share one example with you, today what happen i was going somewhere and i met with my friends mother and she suddenly recognize me then said where are you these days? what are you doing? do you have something good for my daughter because she have completed her education and just because of your guidance my son is earning god but he don't have time for us and his friends. Now My dear can you explain me what is missing in this conversation? Oky, i would like to explain the thing which is missing is she forget to ask me How are you? I did as much as i can for my friends but today their parents is expecting me instead of asking me "How are you my child?"
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
22 Sep 12
Never stop trying to make good friends hon. I have good friends and I would not give them up for the world. They have helped me out and I have helped them out. You are rich when you have good friends, you don't really need a lot of money.
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@june2248 (154)
24 Sep 12
Hi Winterose, Thank's for such a wonderful words. Yes,you are absolutely right we are rich when we have friends, but in my case this is totally opposite today i am struggling just because of my friends. I always tried to give them my best but now i think they don't deserve my friendship. TK
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
27 Sep 12
In our life, we need to have some friends, either in our real life and work or on the Internet. I have a couple of colleagues who are my best friends and also I have quite a few here at mylot. I have a whole bunch of friends here and it is good to me that we can exchange our views and ideas. Take care, june.
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@june2248 (154)
29 Sep 12
Hi Williamjisir, you are really lucky atleast you have bunch of friends to share your views. Life is nothing without friends. TK
@ARIES1973 (11944)
• Legaspi, Philippines
22 Sep 12
Hi june! I am also like that, my laptop and I are inseparable. We are together everywhere I go. But I also have friends around. It is just I can work better alone. So far aside from my husband, I don't have a friend so close.
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@june2248 (154)
24 Sep 12
Hi Aries1973, Nice to see Aries because my zodiac signs is Aries. Yes i can understand what is loneliness without friends or someone in your life, sometimes there are so many people around you but still you feel that you are alone. My room and laptop is my life, i am far from everyone but i am in this word. TK
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@ladym33 (10978)
• United States
22 Sep 12
We do need friends in life and people we can talk to. Unfortunately there are people who will take advantage, but not everyone is like that, there are a lot of good people in this world as well, so don't give up on trying make new friends there are a lot of people who are worth it.
@june2248 (154)
24 Sep 12
Hi Ladym33, i do agree with your words i hope i will get a lovely friendship circle in future but i am scared dear. My friends learned good and nice things from me and then they left me, one of is my real brother and his wife. This is not enough one of my best friend borrowed bulk of money from me and then he changed his mob no., one of them took all the information about how to open BPOs or outsourcing in country and ask me to find people to work and client and then he went to UK an settled there. Is this my fault that i trust on them. That's why i have decided to be with my laptop and connect with the people round the world (my lappy is my best friend now). TK
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@ontayp (15)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
I know that you are just scared of having peers that would take advantage of you but as you conquer your fear you'll gain many friends and eventually you could select which ones are true and the ones we must let go. Try to be more open and explore the possibilities because having good and trustworthy friends is fun and worthwhile. Enjoy!!
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@june2248 (154)
24 Sep 12
Hi Ontayp, yes you are right now i am very scared of making friends because there is many example in my life which make me think that,Am i wrong somewhere? i think bad part is i am too open,loyal and helpful to my friends that's why i am cheated by them everytime. Friend, i tried everything but still i don't know whats wrong? there is something wrong with me or them. TK
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