It's a problem,right?

hi xia, It's not really easy to trust a person you just meet online but if you think your friend really love this girl the only way to solve it is to meet her know her better so he will not regret anything if ever. There are successful stories of online love it's up to them if they will make it real happy mylotting

For me, falling in love with a gal even without seeing her personally could be possible. There are stories that would prove to it. Long distance friendship turning to serious relationship that ends up living happily ever after. No one can predict if their chatting would end up to serious relationship. I guess the best advice you could tell your friend is meet the girl personally and start from there.

It's not really a problem if the holder knows how to handle it. It's normal to meet some individuals online, later both of them will develop a close relationship. If they are willing to know each other they should meet sometimes in one place. To know each other specially their attitude.

I hope the girl is also in love with him. I guess it's possible. However, it's difficult to trust a person we meet online. I hope she doesn't have other motives. Goodluck to your friend. Thanks for sharing. Happy mylotting.

Don't think of it like you're a "matchmaker" putting these two kids together in a holy covenant for all eternity, think like you're his cyber-wingman!

i also have been in that situation. i just know someone from online chatting. it just that feeling come is like u never know u miss that person. what can i do,i just to make it in reality, so we set up to meet. and know we have been in real relationship almost 1 year

I too have read many a times about such happenings.Amazing isn't it?I think just like with everything there are pros and cons in everything.Some great relationships start online and some are total blunders.It really depends upon us to think about it.You can help your friend by telling him about your fears but don't try to change his mind.He is in love for peeps sake.

Sometimes there is a big difference between a person's online personality and their offline personality. I have experienced that is the past. Online we got along really well, but when we met in real we weren't attracted to eachother at all. On the other hand I also know that it is possible to find love on the internet, because I met my husband that way and we have been married for 3 years. In your friend's situation I would advice him to arrange a meeting between him and the girl as soon as possible, because he needs to find out if he feels the same way when they meet face-to-face. I think that it is a good idea to arrange a short meeting at a public place, because he doesn't know the girl in person and he doesn't know if they would get along at all.

This type of love is very danger for life not wee the person and fall in love and then when meet more age different or face different between both. How can person fall in love without seeing to each other. I think your friend is mad like a girl watch in TV she fall in love with a boy on facebook but after meeting she shocked because he was not boy but 50 years old married man.

well, this happens a lot of times with people on the internet that they can fall in love with someone just by chatting or through exchange of e-mails although they still haven't seen in person, it is possible just by how the the other person shows and presents herself, but also it can be uncertain or dangerous to believe a lot and immediately sometimes because everything is different when we talk with a person online than when we really spend time with them in reality. there are still a lot of things and characters that we don't really know about them. so just be careful with people we meet on the internet, don't trust immediately and too soon..this is all i can say.

Nothing is impossible xiao, but we should also take extra precaution when dealing with other people especially those we met online. If he is your friend you can support him by giving him advise but not interfering with his activities. You just let him know that whatever happen, your friendship will remain.

Maybe he can learn from this. If he thinks he's inlove then maybe he can pursue if he is 100% sure. But if not then he should stop dreaming about the girl and move on to another. Ive had crushes on facebook that I never get to meet in real life but I know that their place are just near mine so I can anytime I want it's just that it will have to take time before I can introduce myself :D happy mylotting :

Hi friend, it is really hard to believe an online person, some persons may tell lies while chatting, it is really hard to come to a decision until meeting the girl in person and know about her opinion about your friend

There are a lot of successful relationships that started from chatting. Though it can really be risky but its also a channel in meeting other people. If your friend wants to pursue this girl, he might like to personally know her first and get to know each other well. Who knows there's a big chance that they will end up together. At some point in our lives, we need to take risks.

xiao i understand you think thats unbelievable. but that can happen. your friend maybe shared a lot of things with the girl. personal things and he fell for her. also maybe he saw her face already. with a webcam thats possible. sure he should meet her near and would be ok if you went with him in case the girl isnt like he think she is. but thats possible. and maybe the girl is a good person and really likes your friend. so your advise to pursue her is a good advise. sure he has to be careful. so he should meet her near him first before he commits to her.

Constant communication with another person can build a relationship no matter if it was only through the internet. However, not all people could be true enough to be telling about themselves. Some are just players. I suggest that he should just take it easy and not to really fall that much. It is still best to know the person well than to fully commit yourself. We are sometimes vulnerable and the person we are chatting with can also sense that. He just needs to take it easy.

That is very hard, because people can make themselves anything when they are online. They can turn themselves into any character in the world, so it's very hard. You have to have face to face relationships.

i experience this too when i was new in the internet world, then my sister told not to believe all the things that online then she gave some advice that are still beneficial for me up to this time, you may want to advice your friend too,..