My return alone in countryside to Pareto
By alberello
@alberello (4752)
Italy
September 25, 2012 5:13pm CST
Dear friends Mylotters.
Today I made the decision to return to Pareto (a village in the hinterland of Liguria, in Italy), but this time alone. In fact, at the moment, my best friend Angelo, could not travel with me.
He had already been here, but if you remember well, always to Pareto, I've already about a month ago, although at the time I was in his company.
Being here alone, well, I do not hide a sense of loneliness and isolation.
But I believe that after all it's good for me. First, to "pull the plug" for five days with my family (with whom my relationship I have already mentioned in other discussions), secondly to learn to handle myself in an autonomous way (now at the age of 37 it is more than necessary!).
I do not exclude, however, the fact that my best friend Angelo can reach me here in the next few days.
As I said, the days of my stay here at Pareto, will be only five, in fact I will return home next Sunday, 30 September.
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4 responses
@ravisivan (14082)
• India
25 Sep 12
alberello:
What is good in Pareto? I think scenery. I remember your telling about it once. How will you spend time. did you tell your parents you are going over to Pareto. Let them not search you. Keep in touch with mother over phone. also talk to your brother. They are good people. you will like them if you see the good side of them.What is your best friend doing? studying or working? Where will you stay and what are the arrangements for boarding. enjoy your stay.
How far is this place from your native place.?

@ravisivan (14082)
• India
26 Sep 12
alberello:
thanks for your immediate response. that means you have internet connection in Pareto also. good have a nice time. If you camera you can take a few scenery photos and post in mylot.
@ravisivan (14082)
• India
26 Sep 12
Thanks are due to your best friend a retired banker like me. He has been able to keep you happy and in good spirits. good day.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
26 Sep 12
Well, tomorrow, if the weather is good, or at least it is not raining, take some snapshot with my phone. Then once back at home, with the help of the cable will pass these images to the computer and then later I will post them here on Mylot.
@ladym33 (10978)
• United States
25 Sep 12
Enjoy your time there, and spend things doing what you want to do and enjoy foods you want to enjoy start conversations with people, just enjoy yourself and enjoy being in a lovely place by yourself. It is good to spend time with one's self sometimes.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
26 Sep 12
Yes, I agree, in fact this is always what I have personally supported.
I understand that sometimes always be alone, we can not ever talk to anyone, may eventually become boring, but I, having obvious problems of social integration and coexistence with others, prefer to be alone at the time, so I have to be accountable only to myself.
@prashu228 (37518)
• India
26 Sep 12
i wonder ,why you always visit only Pareto, i guess there are lot many places in Italy. But it sounds an interesting place as well, is there anything specific about this place called Pareto? hope you have good time there, with out any differences with your friend. Post the pictures of the place if possible.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
26 Sep 12
Well answering the question directly, I tell you that a Pareto there is nothing else that can be in another country town. But you must know that I'm not going to Pareto, not for the simple reason that I love this place. The fact is that I can afford to go there, because my best frinend Angelo has rented a house until the end of September.
For me this is a way to escape a little from the hectic city stress and family (which all in all I love my family even at the time there are not good relationships!)
As for the photos, I can send you the once back at home. Here I miss the connecting cable to be downloaded from the phone to the computer.




