Have you ever Fall In Love by Accident...? (I know I fall from a tree) ~_~
By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
Philippines
September 26, 2012 2:18am CST
Falling in love by accident?
Was it like, you bump someone and the moment your eyes met, there's butterflies flying around or stars gleaming on broad daylight?
You can almost hear your heartbeat in full volume and suddenly the time stood still (so cheessssyyyy)
How about this one
Seriously,
What would be your reaction when someone tells you that, you made him/her fall in love.
S/he realized that s/he loves you because you treated him/her important and special.
Wow...isn't something sweet, but, what if the feeling is not mutual (ouccchhhh)
Okay, before I fall in love or anyone fall in love with me (joke) would you care to share your views on this matter. (hmnnn)
Have a great day everyone and have fun
jaiho®- Jai-Ho
9-26-2012
3:19pm Wednesday PT
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23 responses
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
Oh its been a long time since i have that kind of feeling Ms. Jai...
well i am inlove with my husband but how i wish the butterflies would come back. lol..
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
Where did the butterflies go my dear?
Check it out...it might be there flying around the corner
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
oh maybe i should invest in some butterfly nets to catch them again
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
Just call us if you need some help my dear
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@dpk262006 (58677)
• Delhi, India
26 Sep 12
Hi Jai!
I do not believe in accidents and if any such 'accident' happens, it would be temporary and momentary and it ill not last long.
If someone tells me that I made her fall in love my heart beat will get faster and I may feel dizzy.
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@HomeBase (1153)
• United States
26 Sep 12
@ Hatley...Thumbs up for the bells and whistles and fireworks. I have felt those too. For anyone who has not experienced this, they don't believe that it is real, but it is. And it never seems to go away.
So many people never find love in this world. It is truly a great gift.
I adored your story about your 33 year marriage, just loved it.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
Hmmm, falling in love by accident....I think my experience with that would be this. I have a classmate who likes one of my friends. This guy asked help from me- like I would be building up his image, I will be his messenger for the flowers and letters for my classmate. Incidentally, one of the friends of this guy likes me. And since her knew that the guy courting my friend is close to me, he asked his friend to give the flowers and letters and other gifts to me. To make the story short, the guy and my friend did not become a couple. And the one courting me, I turned him down ,too. And guess what? I ended up with my classmate who used to like my friend. We actually were together for almost 3 years.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
hello jenny,
Thanks for sharing this sweet love story
Now I feel like falling in love...
but...I am not sure there is someone to catch me here
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
oh yeah..thanks for reminding
or, I might break my head and not my heart
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
hahaha! better take a helmet with you!
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@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
hi jai,
I did not just once but twice and both did not work out
Well maybe one day I might fall in your staircase
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
Aw,,,there's no one to catch you there..
well, inform me early so I can put bochocoy at the bottom part
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
and you will blame me if you see bochocoy lifeless
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@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
26 Sep 12
Jai, this kind of love accidents are quite common, in our day to day life we meet a lot of persons and impressed with some persons physical appearance, but it is not a love, may be it is an infatuation or an impact. This kind of accidents will happen every day, but love at first sight is quite impossible for me and i don't have any faith with this kind of instant love
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@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
27 Sep 12
Hatley, was your love is an instant one? i.e love at first sight without any understanding? i mentioned that i don't have faith with this kind of love, i agree some real and sincere love lass forever
Jai, real trust and understanding is important in a relationship, if both of the couples have this and adjust with each other we can live a happy life, either it is a love marriage or an arranged one
@scorpiobabes (7225)
• United States
28 Sep 12
I wouldn't say that I fell in love "accidentally" with Ed, but during the first time I saw him, it was like getting punched in the stomach without the pain. Somehow, I KNEW he would figure prominently in my life. It took four years and three months before anything happened, and another two and a half before I was absolutely sure that I was head-over-heels in love with him. Unfortunately, we broke up one month shy of our seven year anniversary, but I'll always remember him as the first man I WAS in love with. And I never thought our relationship our relationship would last beyond a few weeks!
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
28 Sep 12
hello scorpiobabes,
Wow, 7 years of realization that only lasts for weeks?
Well, love is indeed mysterious in many ways.
I know some stories of love that are really sweet and ended up parting ways in the end.
But, that's love, that's life
@scorpiobabes (7225)
• United States
29 Sep 12
I guess I didn't make it clear:
Once we got together, it took me about five months before I began having some stronger feelings, and about another two years before I realized I was completely in love with him. We managed to hang on for about seven years-neither of us expected it to last that long either. I really was only looking to scratch an itch after my divorce, so this just took me by surprise.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
28 Sep 12
My guy knew not to say he fell in love at fight sight. But... he did tell me he fell for me at the beginning.For me , we were just friends. All I saw was a nice man, but love? No! It took a long time for me to realize he was the man I had been looking for! That is when the time stopped, I felt him with every heartbeat and all those other " cheesy" things happened.
Have I ever had a guy fall for me and I didn't feel the same way? No. So this is a guess. Knowing me I would sit him down and gently tell him the truth. Do I believe some couples fall in love at first sight? Yes. It is rare but it does happen.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
28 Sep 12
Almost. My guy came into my life Just as I was mending a broken heart. I had just said I was ready to love another but who? And that's when my guy came int my life. It wasn't like I went out with every Mr. Wrong while my guy pined for me. I'm glad I didn't hurt him like that. I feel guilty as it is. I didn't know for months that he loved me. But he did say I was worth the wait. I better stop . I'm just gushing now.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
28 Sep 12
I agree, it's worth the wait
Thanks for sharing such a lovely story here, I really appreciate this
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
28 Sep 12
hello sarah,
Yes, sounds like those movie script.
Two friends who had other love affairs and ended up to each others arm in the end.
Sometimes we keep looking for the right person when in fact that person is already with us for a long time.
I have heard of love at first sight stories and I know and I believe it does happen.
One of the sweetest story I ever consider are "love at first sight"
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
26 Sep 12
this is serious. it happened when i was in third year high. during the break in class, i saw a beautiful girl smiling at me from outside the classroom. well, i really thought that smile was for me. and i was kinda shy after knowing, it was for my classmate. incidentally, that classmate of mine is also my "barkada" until today. that started it all. i made everything to get close to that girl, with the help of the "barkada". i got her "yes" after courting her for months. but the relationship never last longer and we broke up. a year passed, after one relationship that also did not last long, i came back to her and accepted me back. but then again, the second stage of our relationship did not last long. when i got married, i thought she was going to church to stop the wedding, but she did not. when my marriage broke-up, she planned to follow me in cebu, as her marriage also did not succeed. long long long story... but we still remain good good friends, until now.
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
26 Sep 12
that was, falling in love twice.
by the way, i remember i also fell from a caimito tree when i was in 3rd grade.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
hey bro,
Wow, can you tell this nice story.
I guess I can make a good plot in here.
I like that part...when she arrived the day you wed and you expect her to stop the ceremony...
I can imagine your face and expectation....
so...if ever she made a scene and screamed "STOP THE WEDDING"
do you think you will turn your back from your bride and run with her?
@savypat (20216)
• United States
26 Sep 12
This is usually the result of pheromones, it is a homonal response to another human. It can be only one way or both may respond to this. When we are young an inexperienced we tend to look at this as romance. But as adults we should see it for what it is and if both parties are not responding, just enjoy the feelings and move on. When and if both respond then other options can be approached.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
hello savypat,
Guess for youngsters mostly its what they called crushes and uhmn, I know the excitement, blushes and pimples (hehehe)
For adults, it's a feeling of contentment and appreciation.
It doesn't need any physical bond, but emotional connection.
Thanks and have a great day ma'm
@GemmaR (8517)
•
26 Sep 12
It is so easy to fall in love with people by accident. Most of the people who I am friends with are males, and this means that they are always introducing me to their friends. The partner who I am with at the moment was somebody who I met through a friend, and I didn't plan on falling in love with him. If anything, he wasn't my type at all and I just thought that we would be good friends. However, we are in love and have been together for over three years now and I have been happy with him for a long time, so sometimes falling in love by accident can be a good thing.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
hello Gemma,
I know some people who fall in love easily while other's don't.
Sometimes we cannot blame those who easily fall in love with someone who shows care, love and attention.
I guess it's really exciting to fall in love unknowingly, especially when the feeling is mutual
@Csyluckdays (169)
• Egypt
2 Oct 12
yes,I did.but I don't know why?I found it by accident but unfortunately I lose it easily
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@ztuberi (395)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
Hi Jaiho, another love discussion.
You're really into love.
I think falling in love is too deep to describe.
Its like catching up your breath. Wishing your love would feel the same way.
Too long nights while waiting.
If he/she loves you too, it's like heaven, hoping for a never ending story.
If he/she doesn't love you back. Your heart will pause for awhile. Your world will stop rotating. It might takes time before you come back to reality.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
hello ztuberi,
It's nice to discuss love you know :)
I have seen/read/commented discussion about disappointment, cheat,pain etc.
I want to discuss love and be happy...as always.
There are times that I also feel sad and lonely.
At times I want to cry- but, it's just in a spur of a moment.
I want to stay beautiful and be in love
@creativedigital (110)
• United States
28 Sep 12
I think falling in love by accident is very possible. Like when two soul mates meet for first time. There is just this feeling of knowing this person is the one that is for you. When two souls meet on a very special level and you fall in love with each other. You deeply care about everything about the other person. You can't go a minute without thinking about him or her. I think what is said is if this happens and both feel the same but years later one of the people fall out of love. Falling out of love is the most painful hurt. I am married over 20 years but I can't find those feelings for my husband anymore because he fell out of love at one time with me. I have a special place in my heart for that love with someone else now and yes it was by mistake. Falling in love sometimes happens when we are not looking for love.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
28 Sep 12
hello creative,
Welcome to mylot
I can fully understand your situation.
I am also one of those people who falls out of love.
I never thought that love fades, until it happens with me.
But, I never regretted falling in love and falling out of love- it's a sweet experience.
Enjoy life...life is short and should not be wasted for nonsense sorrow and pain
@creativedigital (110)
• United States
29 Sep 12
I also agree life is way to short to stay stuck in sorrow and pain. We all need to remember this. If we stay stuck in a relationship that is full of pain then no one wins and life becomes sadness.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
27 Sep 12
Love is a funny thing,we really don't know when we are going to fall in love. It is something that just happens. That being said, people can learn to love someone who is good to them, but that still isn't the same spontaneous feeling as falling in love.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
28 Sep 12
hello rose,
I do agree that some stories are funny, some are sweet and unexpected.
Love is something that give our lives true spice
@grandpa_lash (5225)
• Australia
26 Sep 12
Falling in love and growing into love are two different things. Falling in love is always accidental. Mostly it's falling in lust, but perhaps not every time. The bells and whistles can become addicitve, which is perhaps why some people cannot resist having affairs - not because they have stopped loving their partner, but because they crave the excitement of a new affair.
Love that lasts is much more important in the long run.
Lash
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
hello lash,
Well, I don't know about affairs like short term, fling whatever (no idea)
But lasting relationship is indeed different.
Thanks and have a great day
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
28 Sep 12
Still I have no such feeling because my marriage is fix in 10 days and performed it. Me and my husband not meet before marriage. I have no boy friend so no idea fall in love by accident.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
28 Sep 12
That's another great story and very interesting one too dear sis.
I want to understand how to fall in love after marriage
@rambansal (574)
• India
26 Sep 12
Features resembling partner of your imaginations if found in someone make you to like that person by choice. This liking may get converted to love if this feeling is on both sides or the other person accepts signals of your eyes or mannerism about his/her liking. Mutuality of liking is love, and unilateral love is just a liking.
Liking and getting attracted are two different things and should not be mixed up. Attraction may be for lust.
Once you have a feeling of intense liking, you can't restrain yourself from expressing it. Words may not be needed for this if such a liking is not limited to the virtual word. The foremost and the most powerful signals emit from eyes if the two pairs find an opportunity to meet.
Else, the most practical and long-lasting loving relationship gets going for reason of mutual necessities and their fulfillment.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
27 Sep 12
hello Ram,
What can I say then?
Well, thanks for this explanation and let's see if anyone here may give their opinion regarding your response.
We have different views and opinions, and I am thankful for sharing your thoughts here sir
@HomeBase (1153)
• United States
26 Sep 12
Yes, I have fallen in love by "accident", although looking back on it, the love was growing during the time we were friends, but I did not know it.
I had a friend who was like a cousin to me, we are not related, but we got along really well, like we were family or something. We use to hang out together, eat together, watch movies, just chill.
One day, I learned that my dad was sick, my dad lived in another city. I had to leave the city that I was in and go to be with my dad and take care of him.
I told my friend that I was going out of town, and asked him to watch my apartment for me while I was gone. The day before the time came for me to leave, my friend came over to get the keys to my apartment. We were casually talking as usual...I went to hand him my keys and looked into his eyes, and **BOOM!!!**, it was like something had hit me right across the face.
It was like an explosion went off inside me. I actually physically felt it, like the feeling that you get when you go down a steep drop on a rollercoaster, how your stomach drops...only this was deeper than that. From that day on, I was no longer just his friend, I was in love with him, but like I said, the love had been building the whole time during the friendship, I just didn't know that. I never meant to fall in love with him, it was an accident.
I think a lot of times people "accidentally" fall in love with someone they have been hanging out with for awhile. They've never thought of that person as anything other than a friend, and then one day *fireworks*.
It is strange when it happens, because you could be friends with 40 different people and hang out with different ones at different times. You call and text and go out to eat, and you don't feel anything but friendship for any of them, and then one day, out of the blue...BAM, you're in love with one of them. And how do you know that you're in love, oh...you'll know.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
hello Home,
I understand and I can relate to this one.
It also happens with me.
I never thought that I could fall in love with someone I haven't seen in person.
It's not the usual online relationship because I never chatted with him at first.
It was a casual conversation, comment in a particular site through common friends.
Then, I just felt..I miss him when he is not around the social site (it's hard to determine if he is around or not)
Well...it's hard to explain and describe the exact feeling
Thanks for your share and have a great day
@Jatelo2 (166)
• Nairobi, Kenya
26 Sep 12
I wouldn't say by 'Accident' since I don't believe in that actually happing. To love or not to love is a personal decision informed by mutual feelings. Back to your question, I think I have had some infatuations with some ladies that I have after all been not proud of!
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
hello Jatelo,
I think it's the not the exact word "accidentally" -but, there are mysterious ways why people fall in love.
Thanks for your share and have a great day