Why Ladies carry hand bag

@yugasini (12836)
Anantapur, India
September 29, 2012 9:07am CST
Hi mylot friends, Regularly I am observing that ladies are carrying hand bag while they go to the market,office,temple,cinema,function,exhibition,school or college. But mostly the gents does not wish to carry any thing in their hands, I too prefer not to carry any thing on my hand. Why ladies like handbags and gents does not like handbangs, is there any secret in it?
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
29 Sep 12
Men have pockets in their trousers and most men don't wear lipstick
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@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
29 Sep 12
Hi Mysdianait, Thanks for the response, really it is funny answer that men don't use lipstick, so you are keeping lipstick, hand pins,mirror, change, hand kerchief, identity cards etc etc. I too carry my bag when I am going to school, after going to college to the fashion, I am carrying only few books in the hands have a nice day.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
29 Sep 12
I have much more than that in my bag always! I am never without my purse, cell-phone, tissues, pen, paper, diary, house keys, car keys, my other cell-phone with a UK sim, a spare fold-up shopping bag, a scarf (the colour depending on what other clothes I am wearing) and other odds and ends depending on where my destination is. If I have my grandson with my then I would use a deeper bag that would also hold extra tissues and a small bottle of water with a couple of treats too.
• India
29 Sep 12
I am afraid how can you carry all these. I don't think that my girl would stand after carrying all these... . She just have a purse.
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• India
29 Sep 12
The first and foremost necessity for a woman to carry a bag is for cosmetics. Secondly, when she goes for shopping she carries a bag to put all the expensive purchased items in her bag like jewellery items etc. Thirdly, while going on a function, party or exhibition she carries her bag, may be just to flaunt her style statement among her friends. There is a saying that, "A whole world rests in a woman's handbag". It is very true. Sometimes we over stuff our bag with so many unnecessary items that it gets difficult to find the most needed thing at the time of need.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
30 Sep 12
Hi Indrajetkaur, Thanks for the response, now a days that is pride to carry costly hand bag with them for functions and parties. Some times they may carry costly Jewellery with them, so it is more convenient to them to put those costly items in the bag. So prefer to carry hand bag with them always to every where they go, have a nice day.
• India
30 Sep 12
I have seen many celebs on tv carrying small purses. I wonder if those purses can carry any of their cosmetics or required items. Those purses are for sure just for style and show off.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
29 Sep 12
I think that most men don't carry a handbag because they are able to keep their things in their pockets. Most of the men that I know only carry their keys, their wallet and their cellphone and it is possible to carry those things in their pockets. Women carry a lot of other things In my handbag there are a my wallet, my keys, my cellphone, my calendar, a notebook, different pens, a mirror, a pair of tweezers, some make-up, candy, painkillers and lots of other things and it would be impossible to carry all of those things in my pockets so I need a handbag.
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@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
30 Sep 12
Hi Porcospino, Thanks for the response, yes that is right most of the men does not carry any bag and they feel to carry a bag is also an inconvenience to them. Besides that they have a chance to keep purse, identity cards,money, coins in their pant or shirt pockets. But ladies does not have that much facility in their dress to carry all these things,so they must need handbag. Have a nice day.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
29 Sep 12
Women have used pocketbooks forever. They need to carry makeup, tissue, money, keys, etc.... Where men only have to carry money and credit cards. I have always used a pocketbook all my life. It was not until moving to Puerto Rico that I will on most occasions just carry my debit card in my pants pocket. Now if I'm going on a road trip where I will be gone all day I will then bring my pocketbook. It will carry my wallet, keys, tissue, makeup and a bottle of water.
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@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
30 Sep 12
HI Lelin, Thanks for the response, some may carry pocket books for reading while travelling on buses or trains for long distance so that they may not feel bore while in travelling. I too carry some book in travelling not feel bore or when we could not enjoy the sightseeing with uncomfortable journey on the kuccha roads,have a nice day.
• India
29 Sep 12
I think it becomes habitual for ladies. Ladies (some of them) cannot feel comfortable without their handbags. They must atleast carry a purse or something to keep their hands occupied. But I don't know what do they really carry inside. My girl mostly don't carry handbags but carry a purse. I just use my back pocket to keep my wallet with all the ID stuffs and credit cards and etc. Nice discussion though. Have a great weekend.
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@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
30 Sep 12
HI Phillip_shiny, Thanks for the response, yes you are quite right that ladies are habituated to carry the hand bag with them regularly where ever they go. That is right they feel discomfort with out their hand bag, some thing must be in their hand even a small purse is enough to carry. I do not use my back pocket for keeping valet, have a nice day.
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
29 Sep 12
First of all it is a fashion thing. Then women carry around all shorts of useless stuff. Men are practical, less is better.
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@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
30 Sep 12
HI Kostas, Thanks for the response, really it is fashion to carry a beautiful hand bag by the ladies, but it is must for them to carry all those items they require means cell phone, coins,notes, identity cards,tissue paper,powder, lipstick,powder,body spray and so many things can be kept in their hags , have a nice day.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
29 Sep 12
I think ladies carry handbags to put things in the handbags and also to give a good impression. I think there would be a good impression for the ladies when they carry handbags. I think gents have pocket and they do not carry lots of things with them. Ladies also carry makeup things in their handbags.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
30 Sep 12
Hi Ajithlal, Thanks for the response, men could carry lot of things in their pockets. Men can carry s small carry bag with them when ever they go for shopping. But for carrying groceries and other things any body should carry a strong bag not that regular hand bag, hand bag is quite costly so only some important items can be kept in it have a nice day.
• United States
8 Jan 13
I don't know why ladies carry purses but gents don't. A purse can be pretty troublesome to carry around but it's also pretty handy. We have to carry so many things with us when we go out that it's nice to have a purse. Cellphones, wallets, tissues, documents, etc. I guess it depends on the person whether they want to carry a bag although culturally women carry the bag.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
8 Jan 13
Hi Animegirl, Thanks for the response, I have observed several ladies they are carrying hand bags, I too carry a bag with me where ever I go, I carry my identity cards,extra cell phone and some papers with me. But girls carry lot of things in their bags, I need not carry any make up material,but ladies carry make material also. Have a nice day.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
1 Oct 12
Reason number one that ladies carry purses and men don't is that ladies don't usually have pockets in their dresses. Even if they did, putting keys, billfold, and Kleenex (the barest of necessities)in them would ruin the line of her dress. Reason #2 is that ladies usually have to carry some make-up and other necessities in their purse. Reason #3 is that they have to have some place to carry the stuff their spouses want but don't have room for in their pockets. I carry a paperback book in my purse to have something to read when waiting anywhere.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
1 Oct 12
Hi Bellis, Thanks for the response, that is right some ladies just like you carry some books for reading also while on traveling long journey and they have to carry stuff for their husbands also,because husbands pocket cannot accommodate all the stuff they want to carry. At that time ladies must have a bigger hand bag to carry all these things, have a nice day.
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
30 Sep 12
My hand bag is very important to me in it I carry every thing I need for the day or the week!lets put it this way I carry every thing but the kitchen sink!
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
1 Oct 12
Hi Alottodo, Thanks for the response, very nice hear a big joke except the kitchen sink. So you carry lot of stuff in your bag means some what big with all required things just like food stuff also including napkins,tissue papers, lunch box,spoons,water bottle and even a pair of cloths also for emergency wear very nice. Have a nice day.
• United States
30 Sep 12
It's just become an acceptable accessory over time. Sometimes I wonder why the bags have to be so huge when there isn't really a need for it.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
1 Oct 12
Hi Cricket, Thanks for the response, that is fashion now a days ladies will carry hand bags even they does not have any stuff in the bag. They wish to appear before all that they are carrying lot of stuff with huge bag like that, but I have seen lot of ladies carry a midum type of hand bags instead of small or big. Have a nice day.
• United States
1 Oct 12
I've seen that too and for those that carry large bags and don't really need to, I hope they will have good insurance for the chiropractor! Be well!
@STOUTjodee (3572)
• United States
30 Sep 12
I got use to carrying a handbag/purse after having children. When you have little children you carry a diaper bag to hold diapers, clothes, baby food, bibs, diaper wipes, baby toys, baby blanket and other such things for the child. Then I would put my I.D. in with it. Then the children grow up and you have no need for a diaper bag, but you still need some thing to carry your I.D., pens and paper, calculator, make up and things that your husband may find like screws, nuts and bolts or even a screw driver that he can't put in his wallet that he carries in his back pocket.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
1 Oct 12
Hi Stoutjodee, Thanks for the response, yes that is right if ladies have to carry their children with them they have carry diaper bag to hold some diapers,children cloths,baby food,bids,wipes,baby toys mostly all the items required by babies should carry so you need a bigger one,when the children are growing the stuff in bag will change to pen,papers,identity cards calculator cell phone etc etc, have a nice day.
• Philippines
30 Sep 12
That's why Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. I always carry my hand bag with me because I cannot live without my comb powder and lipstick,:). That's the way it is and ladies will always be ladies, in a man's world you only bring handkerchief with you and you have the pocket..:D.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
1 Oct 12
Hi Nicebolddy, Thanks for the response, When I am student college going girls are carry tiny purse which contains small change and hanky according the days are growing the size of the purse also grown to hand bag level. Yes handkerchief must for me and purse also must for gents other than they does not wish to carry more on their pockets, have a nice day.
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
8 Nov 12
Co's that is where they put all the personal stuff, such as; cellphone, wallet, makeup, comb and a lot more, while the guys just needed their pocket to put their wallet and cellphone, they don't bring extra stuff. hahaha. Hubby and I would argue a lot when we are going out together and will only bring his backpack. it bogs him when I put more stuff. Well, I just told him every time... that I'm a girl ans he's a boy and he would never understand me. hahaha
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
8 Nov 12
Hi Leeandrew, Thanks for the response, now a days gents also carrying bags when they are going to long distance offices. It is difficulty to come from office for lunch it will take more time to go and return to office. So they are also carrying bag with lunch box and water. I am also carry a bag now a days with some papers, ea tables and additional cell phone.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Sep 12
hi yugasini now wo uldn't we women look silly tryng tol stuff all the things we use daily into one or two pockets in our clothesso yes we carry a bag,me I use a shoulder bag myself.women have more thing they need to use every day versus men and we also try to look good for you men too.this means we keep some cosmetics in our handbags too.I have seen some modern men carrying shoulder bags of some sort so what is that? lol
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
30 Sep 12
HI Hatley, Thanks for the response, after long time I am seeing in my discussion. We are not having any interest on make while on out side but ladies will touch their faces with powder or lips with lipstic from time to time, to look they are fresh and tidy. Our shoulder bag contains less items when compared with ladies items, have a nice day.
@GemmaR (8517)
29 Sep 12
I don't understand how men can go out without taking a bag. My partner is diabetic and that means that he has to carry a lot of things around with him, yet he will only ever take things in his pockets. I always say to him that he should get a small bag as it would be a heck of a lot easier for him to fit all of his things in, but for some reason it just isn't something that he seems to be keen on. I take lots of things out with me, and wouldn't be able to take all of them if I didn't have my handbag to put them in, so I always make sure that I have a relatively big bag.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
29 Sep 12
Hi GemmaR, Thanks for the response, but patients should carry bag with some medicines and even some times they have to keep the insulin injection and some biscuits for emergency food.Yes mostly I will carry a small bag when I will go for out side for some purpose, but I will another somewhat big bag for clothes when I will go for travel have a nice day.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
30 Sep 12
They carry handbag to show femininity or showing that they are female and different from male. Because they carry more things which for personal hygiene...
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
1 Oct 12
Hi Aerous, Thanks for the response, you may be right that to show femininity ladies carry different types of hand bags for different occasions also. They can also carry lot of things in that hand bag starting from lipstic,powder,hanky, bindi spots,kajal,pen,pencil,papers,books,food stuff, cash,change, identity cards etc etc.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
29 Sep 12
ladies need many things with them. didn't you notice that if you go on a trip a lady would have many more luggages than a gent. when I was younger I didn't like wearing hand bags either,,,but as I grew up I started seeing the use of it. it's true that we might carry many unusefull things but I for example use a handbag to go to college and I carry my books in it, along with my wallet, cellphone etc.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
30 Sep 12
Hi Swissheart, Thanks for the response, now a days carrying a band bag is good not to use plastic bags also while at the stores. Any thing if we purchase in the market, or some body will give something to us so we can kept them in our bag. If we do not carry any bag we have to depend on plastic bags also, so now there is no need to use plastic bags have a nice day.
• India
29 Sep 12
Most of the ladies used to carry cosmetics items like powder,lipstick,mirror ,creams and other times with them all the time. I had just seen the same cosmetics items in most of my friends bag. Even my elder sisters and my cousins used to do the same. They feel hand bags are much comfortable to carry them and along with they can carry other items with them.
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
30 Sep 12
not all ladies like to carry a hand bag, and i am one of them, i mostly carry on a small purse, or if my dress have pockets ,i don't carry the purse even, but if i need to carry too much stuff then , i have to carry a hand bag which is unavoidable.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
1 Oct 12
Hi Prashu, Thanks for the response, that is right some ladies like you will carry small purses with limited items. I do not know which type of dress you are wearing, if you wish to carry lot of stuff then only you need a hand bag. I too feel free without any bag,but some times I have to carry my bag with identity cards and other things, have a nice day.