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Oh my!!! LOL! Well, I feel left out.. I don't have these issues. My boyfriend and I barely even disagree, let alone work each other's nerves. :) We are about 3 hrs apart from each other so it's far enough to miss one another yet we still have our distance. We communicate everyday any way possible but I think we just know to give each other space and stuff. Even when he visits me, we're both in 1 small room all weekend, but he has his space and I have mine. You just have to collaborate. Take some time from one another. I'm not saying go on a week long vacation or something lol. But maybe, you relax in the bedroom reading or go soak in the tub (great times for meditation/relaxation) while he's downstairs in the living room or in his office somewhere. I think a few hours away from one another on a daily basis will be just fine. Like another person said, Distance makes the heart grow fonder. You'll always love one another, no doubt. But there will be times when you can't stand each other either. lol You just have to get used to things and it'll all become second nature soon. :) My best wishes to you!

I know I sometimes nit pick and sometimes my boyfriend does too but we have laugh it later, sometimes we get a little nutty after too. Sometimes I try to ask why he is being this way and it may have nothing to do with me. Besides the time away from each other I am just wondering the circumstances of the day.If all this paper work was for something that was really important or stressing him then it is bound to happen even though he really doesn't want to take it out on you. Sometimes people just let the stress build and everything gets hyped in their mind ten fold. If that may have been the case just try to comfort him as well.

my hubby knows better lol no actually I lucked out he works alot of hours an when he is here knowing I have trouble walking cause my back he is helpfull

No! I can understand him being frustrated setting there waiting for his turn but he shouldn't take it out on you. His griping would get me upset after a while. I would get away from him. I am not married and do not care to be. I would definitely not want to be married to someone like him.

Well, for one thing I'm not married and therefore do not have a wife. From the description that you have done in your discussion, all events seem strange but fun! You, at least when I read your threads, I've never found one where you avoid talking about eating, restaurants, etc.. You also mentioned the fact to drive the car. I always, when I'm driving and I turn, I put the arrows signaling, at least in Italy it is required by the rules of the road. You should always make it clear to the vehicle that follows us, in a crossroads, which direction we take. Otherwise we risk a collision!

As a few people have already said, maybe you guys need to spend a day away from each other. Sometimes, you can have to much "togetherness" in a relationship. But, aside from that, is it possible your husband is aggravated with something unrelated to you, and is just taking it out on you? Does he have something stressful going on? To me, it sounds as though he may be frustrated with some aspect of life, and just taking it out on you. Unfortunately, it's those we most care about that seem to catch the brunt of all our emotions- good and bad! Good luck!

LOL....Maybe you need some time away from each other. Are you spending ALOT of time together?? This might be the root cause. I love my wife but sometime after spending to much time together, we get on each others nerver. Abscence makes the heart grow stronger.

Hello ja I do know you love your husband. They, guys, sometimes are so anxious or stressed. Working out home isn´t easy at all for them. Sometimes my husband is very anxious or stressed, I just stop him from being rude, and then he relaxes. When I stop him he reacts and he realizes he has been rude. I suscribed the complete family into a gym, and exercise has helped us to get relaxed. Blessings ja... dainy

Oh oh yeah you must be all the time together and that may be the cause of it. He maybe thinking something in his mind and that is why he is putting that frustration on you. So just take a break from each other if possible. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead