If some people werent so quick , we would have less cheaters

Nope, I was in this situation, but this guy made himself available when he had his girlfriend. Once I realize he had the girl, I was gone, I want nothing to do with him. It shows the lack of a man he is and disrespectful to both me and his girlfriend I wouldnt want a man like that. Meanwhile, his stupid girlfriend was going around saying things about me because she clearly cant trust her boyfriend so it;s all me not him yet I ignored him the entire time.

I totally agree with you. I believe that what you don't like for yourself don't do it to others. But many people understand this because they think that nobody can cheat them.

I think the guy should just go for it. He should go out and do something with that girl, and try to kiss her, see what happens. If she's super happy with her guy and doesn't like him, she'll smack him in the face and that will be the end of it... if she likes your friend more then the guy she's with, she'll keep going with it, and it will raise a tough time between her and her boyfriend, but she'll just have to tell him what happened, and they'll break up, and the new relationship will be in swing. This is the way that guys work. Every guy wants to be better then other guys, so if a guy likes a girl, and sees that she has a boyfriend, he'll believe that he's better then her boyfriend. If he doesn't think he's better, then he'll walk away, and leave it behind. Obviously, he thinks that he's better, so why not go for it? It may end up with a fight between the two guys, but that's just how it goes. It happens that way in the animal kingdom, and we're just animals like them. Let it happen.

I don't really think that the statement that you've used is entirely the right statement to use when talking about people that cheat in relationships. Instead, I tend to think that if most people had more consideration for other people, then there wouldn't be nearly the amount of cheating that there is. If a person knows that someone is in a relationship, that should be something that they respect. However, it seems that all too often, that doesn't matter to a person at all as long as they are able to get what they want from a person.

I don't think your advice is stupid. I think the stupid one is the one who said it was stupid. praying for couples to break up? That is so twisted. Clearly your friend does not love truly. if he loved truly he would leave the couple alone and be happy the woman he loves for being happy even when it was not with him. People who plan to break couples up should know this.

Hello silverfox09 You've done a good job friend. A good friend will always tell good things even though it hurts.If she's my friend I will also advice her the same thing you do. She will completely regret in the future if she will continue her love to that person. It's not the end of the world and better look for another woman suited for him. I think you've done your part well friend and it's up to him to do what is right or what is wrong.

I think you gave him good advice. If they do break up later he can renew his interest, but meanwhile he should be exploring his other options. There may be someone he knows who would be perfect to have a relationship with. He needs to respect himself enough to let go and let her go her own way.

Some people are just adamant when it comes to choices. To some these people will be seen as stupid while some will deem them to be potential loyalists. To me, this is what I would call individualistic. In this world, there will always be the greedy and gullible ones which is the reason for cheaters' existence and thriving. Unfortunately, the former will always be the first to suffer the consequences. Equally for the latter, there are no exceptions when it comes to retributions because as you have rightly said it yourself what goes round, comes around. So, one good reason for doing the right and good thing today is for tomorrow.

I think being loyal is a matter of morals, people do have it or not. The world is full of temptation, it is okay to jump to other relationship if one wants to but they must end what they have and not to betray anyone, it's so ugly to betray. It's a matter of being a human capable of stabbing someone that trusts us on the back or not.

Hi silverfox, I think that the blame rely on both the parties.. If the person who is in a relation would be honest with someone who approach them in that manner, there would not be incidents like this...I do think people are to easy to just "think the grass may be greener on the other side", knowinng they are in a relation..It has to be stopped right there....you can not attach all the blame on the approacher...the approachee has to bear some responsibility...