Living together after the break-up

No and I would rather not let that happen to me. I guess it would be very hard and awkward. I would have done the same thing you did. it's annoying that your friend's boyfriend found someone else so quickly. How cruel guys can be once we break up with them. he's kind of a jerk.

We are not habituated to live together without marriage. Our culture does not allow it. So we do not face such situation. In our country if marriage breaks up ex-husband and ex-wife must live separately. In such a situation the girl usually goes to her parents house.

When I broke up with one of my ex boyfriends we were living together as students so there was actually no way that I could do anything about where I lived. I just had to stay in the house for several more months, and it was one of the hardest things that I have ever had to do. We could hardly talk to each other without arguing and this meant that I had to stay in my room for most of the time. If there was any way that I could have moved home then I would have done this without even thinking about it because I just didn't want to be there anymore.

In traditional India, we dont have such a live in thing in the culture but it exists in metros and other big cities today. And when you start living in, there are chances of breakups and such incidents do happen. I havent ever been in any live-in relationship and cannot be in any. That said, I have seen breakups and moving away but then, staying together after the breakup sounds interesting. I mean, there surely can be a couple of chances where you could give the breakup a thought and maybe stand a chance to reconcile and restart afresh... (though it sounds idealistic but I would say chances do exist).

I've never been in such situation but I know someone who had been there. They area a couple who are also my friends, and they've lived for quite a long time together. But, when the guy cheated on the girl, they broke up, and decided to stay in the same apartment. I know it was hard for both of them, but most especially to the girl. It was a situation that I wouldn't want to be in. The guy cheated, yes, but after some time, they got back together. They had this love-hate relationship, and soon, they were able to mend things up and now, they're both married. For me, a break up is a break up. Once it is done, it's done and I wouldn't want to be in a position where I would have to be in the same roof with an ex boyfriend. It's not healthy and advisable especially if one party had moved on so easily and the other one is left with no other choice but to leave the place.

Yes I recently broke up with my husband and while we agreed he would move out, the time seemed to drag as he looked for a place. Not to mention having to look at a person daily whom you wished was elsewhere. I'm glad to say he finally made the move and packed up. It's been five months and I'm glad that chapter is closed.

Porco, so far i don't had this type of experience myself. But, one of my ex-friend do had this type of experience. They stayed together since from college until both of them starting their working life. Both of them nearly got married but just because of one jealous colleague's bad intention, they broke off their relationship. That young lady fall in love with my ex-friend's fiancee, the very first time she joined and worked in his company. Both of them are colleagues at that company. She tried many types of seductions until that poor guy falls into her trap. I know my ex-friend is not wrong when she called off that marriage plan. Because she told all of us that there are a few times, when she went to her fiancee's office wanted to wait for him to go home together, she saw this young lady hug and kiss him before left the office. Even on that lady birthday night, her fiancee and other colleagues goes to celebrate her birthday in her home. But her fiancee didn't return to their home. Instead, he stayed back and sleep in her home. He said he was very drunk and can't get home. A few weeks later, she even called my ex-friend and told her that she want to marry her fiancee since she said she is getting pregnant. My ex-friend felt very sad and no choice to break their marriage plan. The very next day, she moved out without listening to his explanation at all. Now, she had married to another guy and they lived happily until now.

That's a cool situation though. I guess it really boils down if the relationship was more of like a bestfriend natured relationship where one can still stand the other even if the intimate relationship was over. Living with each other after the break up. Hmmmmm... That's another story though. It may feel kind of odd especially if your ex brings a new guy in the house perhaps or something. Weird.

wow that is some inconvenient way.. i will not be able to handle this type of situation. anyway it is better early than later. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.