Social Networking and Lifes

Philippines
October 8, 2012 9:35am CST
As we all have their own journey in life, we expand our territories to bend ourselves in most custom way that we had been before. To gather more inputs to use in ourselves for growing. We mingle and socialize. In result, we use to go and use social networking sites mostly. But the internet is like a street where you encounter strangers and people that may hurt you too. in sum ups, how can you be able to protect yourself from this kind of harm?
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@celticeagle (159451)
• Boise, Idaho
8 Oct 12
I would check out what people tell me. Do background checks. Online now there are so many predators and we really have to be careful. Meet people but meet them where you feel comfortable in a lighted place where there are other people. Take it slow and do only what you feel comfortable with. I have heard some great love stories but I have also heard some terrible ones too. Be careful.
@celticeagle (159451)
• Boise, Idaho
9 Oct 12
Not believing all you hear is good too.
• Philippines
12 Oct 12
You mean we should be wise and critical in listening too? Sure it is.:)
• Philippines
9 Oct 12
Taking actions in slow and sure manners are the most safest way and reliable techniques in protecting anyone's self from any harm. That were nice thoughts of you. :)
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@lynnes75 (443)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 12
When I was started to get active on the 'net and social media, my sister who's a veteran on internet use told me, "Never reveal full information about yourself, especially your home address, or means of contact, or even a picture of you. If someone seems like a suspicious character, then you probably have every right to be wary of him. Do not entertain." I heed this advise everyday I'm on the internet. Whatever I choose to reveal about myself is all true, but I do not reveal all. It is my prerogative. This is how I protect myself.
@lynnes75 (443)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 12
I meant to say "when I first started" not "was started", woops /o\
@lynnes75 (443)
• Malaysia
9 Oct 12
Lol, thank you for understanding :P And yes, exactly :)
• Philippines
9 Oct 12
Hey It is ok. Hehehe.. I understand what you mean to share. You were right, giving information which are relevant to your everyday life to a suspicious sites or parties can give you risk on internet. Be safe and wise upon using internet too. :)
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
8 Oct 12
Hi! Internet (social networking and other such sites) has undoubtedly connect us with so many people. They might be complete strangers to us in the beginning but later many of them become our good friends (perhaps as good as real life friends). You see as in real life your rely upon your own wisdom and experience to judge a person (whether s/he could be harmful to you) same is there on social networking sites. Social networking sites give a person an opportunity to conceal some of the vital information which may not be possible in real life, yet regular interaction with on line friends could give us a clue/indication whether the person is genuine or not. Having said that I would like to add that in real life too despite using our instincts sometimes the other one deceives us, same hold true for on line friends. You see no one could harm us until and unless we want to be get harmed. We need to take proper cautions before sharing important personal information with on line friend. Many keep their identity in disguise and save themselves from the probable harm. Have you been ever harmed by an on line friend?
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
11 Oct 12
mars - Whatever you told your friend is right.
• Philippines
12 Oct 12
Right, useful and informative plus helpful. Those facts also were stated by my friends here. :)
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
9 Oct 12
Social network is now a huge part of today's life , we cannot ignore them . Some of the things I do to protect myself are ; 1. I dont give out my real name to anyone 2. I dont give online user my real email unless its someone I know in person and I want to interact with more . 3. I dont used my Facebook or twitter account to login into any pay site 4. I keep my offline life separate from my online life as much as possible 5. I dont give out my password , PayPal email to anyone I do a lot more but have to go now . nice post
• Philippines
12 Oct 12
Passwords, real identity, direct address, photos, are some of the data that are important and crucial to the account owner, and everyone should know how to protect and keep them utmost safe. :)
@riyauro (6421)
• India
9 Oct 12
It is best in social network that the person cannot harm you physically. I like it about this thing. ..Well the people who think that they get hurt by social networking. they take things on the internet very seriously. I do not so, it is good for me. ..Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
• Philippines
12 Oct 12
They can't harm you physically on net, yes, I agree, but they have the power to harm you emotionally and spiritually. They could also defemate anyone. And we all know that any form of harm , is still harm after all. Just be careful always. :)
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
9 Oct 12
Social network sites can be fun. I dont use myspace or facebook at all. But I truly love another social site that I get paid from. I also dont have to worry about people spamming my page there. Or posting bad things. Adm. at my other site is very active as well as the 2 site mods. So I love social sites.
• Philippines
12 Oct 12
Really eh? I used Facebook once just for trying their online games, and most I had enjoyed where for kids. HAhahah.. If it happens that they post something unlikely good on your page, just ignore them. They eventually feel miss out and unchallenged, eventually they will stop and look for another one.
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
Social networking is very beneficial , you come to know different people from different walks of life all over the globe. Some brings good luck but some also appear like a curse. Never trust a stranger directly , feel it , be sensitive , let your intuition work. You know a real person , because you feel like he is your soulmate , you can be you in his front ,no inhibitions , no lies . Your heart will tell you but whether to trust that person or not.
• Philippines
9 Oct 12
Probably we could rely on our intuition in using internet. We sometimes follow hunches and guide to seek and verify information then analyzing them thereafter if they are genuine or fake. And it is very correct to say that never trust strangers directly.
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
9 Oct 12
Yes, it is really common nowadays that social networking sites really affects our social lives that sometimes we already used to be connected with those people who have been we met by those sites. I think the best way to protect ourselves from those harmful strangers is to be wise in choosing who to mingle with or who to talk with. Of course, at first, they are nice with us but as days goes by, we will realize what really their intentions are.
• Philippines
12 Oct 12
Sometimes we cannot immediately choose those harmful strangers on net because they know well how to play nice after all. That's their business, and I could bet they are doing it well. Pity for their victims (some citizens on net)who have nothing to do with those predators. :(