There are times adjustments in life are difficult to handle.
By airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
Philippines
October 9, 2012 9:29am CST
A pleasant day Fellow Mylotters,
There are times it is quite difficult to do an adjustment. Adjusting to the new situations that you need to adopt. Just like the road where I am now, before, I used to sleep together with my partner in life beside me. Due to unavoidable circumstances, we need to go on separate ways, as we need to lived separately. And as the time goes by, I do miss his presence. That until now, I haven't cope up yet. I still missed him. Though we are having a constant communication, I am still looking for his presence. Hence, even we are living apart for more than one year now, still, I miss him to be beside me. How I wish, that we can be together again like the good old times.
13 responses
@skyandgrassplot (1497)
• China
10 Oct 12
My curiosity is the reason why you two need to live separately?I think you two should try your best to live together cause live apart will damage the relationship between a couple,after time gose by the feeling on each other will fade,so if you two still love each other very much then why not try to live together?
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
Well, you have to bear being far from your husband because you both agreed to it on the first place.
In situations such as the husband and wife are far from each other, it is a big help that there is constant communication. In addition, both of you should be praying for each other always.
@lynnes75 (443)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 12
Hello :) You have my empathy and my deepest wish for renewed strength and hope for a future without your life-partner. We do have to adjust to changes, even unexpected or unwanted ones, because changes happen all the time. The best we can hope for is people who matters in our life will support and encourage us throughout these changes, and our own internal strength (whether it comes from God or our own personal beliefs, etc) to move on, and make new paths if necessary. The alternative is, we remain as we are, refuse to adjust, and be unfulfilled on so many level. I hope the best for you, and that you adjust well :)
@yhanee24 (14)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
howdy airasheila! i know exactly how u feel. i have been to that situation and still experiencing it right now. Yes you are correct that adjustments are really very difficult to handle at times especially if it cause you pain and hurt but you have to understand that it is actually a part of our life. We have to accept those even though its hard to handle. I just hope that you and your partner will hold on to each other for the betterment of your relationship. =)
@GemmaR (8517)
•
9 Oct 12
I am going through one of those times at the moment where everything in my life just seems to be a little bit strange as though there is nothing that I can do to keep up with things. It is very odd because I have just graduated from University and am working from home, but I am not happy about it because I don't get to see many people during the day. But at the same time I think that if I have the chance to earn this amount of money then I should be doing it, and I suppose that it is just something that I will have to get used to.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
9 Oct 12
You are right now time is less and work is more so difficult to adjust the life for every work. Some time hard to communicate every day with our friends or family members. If once we are busy in our work then difficult to meet old friends.
@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
9 Oct 12
I am certainly having trouble with going from being a student to an employee. I am used to being the pampered son of my family so it's hard for me now because I am currently living on my own. I have to be independent and learn how to think maturely. I am not a student anymore. I should earn my own money and put food on the table. 
@toxic_lifestyle (1213)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
Adjustment is really hard! Because it puts you to a new kind of environment or situation where you are not used to. Most people takes a lot of time just to cope up with this. :)
@Gautam1002 (730)
• India
9 Oct 12
You indeed find it difficult, sometimes very difficult to some new situations! I do not know how to take the uncomfortableness you encountered in this change. But I have felt a difference in one's attitude when he is made to adjust outfrom his comfort zone but he knows that it is for his betterment. He does it anyway keeping his thoughts ahead which makes him realize of the fact that it for his betterment. Atleast I do..
Now from your words..it I feel pity for you that you are made to live this way and as you explain this...it is "unavoidable"..I hope it is for the betterment of yours...Look for the positive side...that is what I can say...Good luck..
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
9 Oct 12
So beautiful things in our life that we don't like to end but sometimes it has to due to some compulsions. We like to live that kind of life , but seems time is but so jealous , it don't allow us to be happy forever. Sometimes we wanted things to happen but sometimes it never favors us. We have no choice left but to accept never mind if we don't understand. Things are already written in the book of life .
