will you marry someone whose hometown is faraway from yours ?

YES. If God permits. I have a boyfriend now and he lives more than 12 hours away from my hometown but we work together which is 2 hours away from my home. I think it doesn't matter as long as you both love each other. Anyways, you can visit your both parents every now and then. In my case, I don't like to leave my mom because she lives alone in our house. Unlike with my boyfriend's, his parents have so much grandchildren with them and neighbor relatives. I am the only child so that's the way it will be.

I think if I was in Love with someone, Id marry them if their home town was on the moon. Love is what really matters.

In my case, I did. My parents don't approved it first because of the dist. If possible, I also want a town mate so that I won't be far from my parents but no one can predict our future. Also if you are in love with someone and that someone loves you back, I think no one can stop their marriage regardless of the distance.

If it is me, I would marry someone far from my hometown if the person is an ideal person to live with for the rest of my life. Even if you marry to a person from other province, you can still visit your parents during holidays. However, if you think it is too hard for you, you can always ask your partner to move closer to your family. So it is not really a problem to me.

I would marry anyone regardless on where she lives. What matters is that we love each other. And we have to sacrifice everything because of that. I may consider that but that will not be a deciding factor as to marry her or not. My wife came from a far flung town away from our province though, and we have met in a common place and we visit each others place once a year. Thanks

Hi daisyykm, If you really love the guy and you're sure about him, distance or his hometown should not be a problem. You can always arrange a visiting schedule to see your parents if that is the main concern. I believe, True love comes only once in our lives...goodluck ^_^

well for me its not a problem marrying someone who live faraway from me. because if he really loves me; he will always consider my wishes and he's the one who will do the adjustments. you both need to talk about all the factors you both want. because its hard to lose someone you love for an issue/s that could be fix and talk about.. well i wish you all the best :)

May be you shouldn't get involve with him, since he stay so far away from your home town and you can not go back home often to visit your aging parent, it is better for you to have a love relationship with a man that live close to your home town where you can get close to him every day, at the same time close to your parent too. I am sure there are many nice boys and men live in the city where you work, he is not the only 'nice' boy left alive in the whole city. It is time to let it go and put your aging parent wishes on top of a boy friend, you only have one parent in your entire life, but there are many boy out there for you to meet, it is the best decision you ever make if you are willing to take up my advice to stop it right away.

you should go on the relationship^^ if you love him you should. if things go well between you and him later on you can live together and be near your parents^^ dont let a good guy go just because you want to be near your parents. if he really loves you im sure he wont mind that you both live in your hometown. cause he will do what he can to makes you happy.

Hi this is way you should see how does your heart feel the person does the other person feel the same way when you know it the right person ask the questio were do you want to live your home town or the other person home town, when i meet a lady and im on a date i ask a quetion like what your dream for the futrue that will give me the same answer that you are looking for, if it the right person you and they will know know it, me i still have not met the right person but my home town suck i be by st.petersburg fl soon that the area i want to be in. ok have good day.

Things don't go according to what we plan. If we have a very hard luck then surely you have it. Always lend your prayers to god. He will give the solution for it.

daisyykm, i am married from very far . almost 2000 km away from my home, different language, different culture etc. but we loves each other. thatswhy our married life is going smooth. so dont think its so far

That depends on the two of you. you can make the relationship work if the both of you will work together. My partner is living in a city that is 3 hours far from my place and we've been together for 4 years now. I visit him in his place sometimes and he visits me here as well. It is just a matter of making time and exert effort to make it work despite the distance.

What you say is really a problem. I know you are from China, and so am I. I think I should ask you how far are you away from the city where your boyfriend live in. Just like if your hometown is Guangdong, and your boyfriend work in Jilin, then I should say you should leave from him. But if your hometown is Jiangsu, and your boyfriend work in Zhejiang, then I should say the distance can never be a problem. Now I'm facing a same problem like yours. I figure that the key point is that you need a proper distance. In the future, you will have your own car. In my opinion, if you can spend less than three hours in driving from the city to your home, it is proper. Anyway, the decision depend on yourself.

I think marrying someone away from us is not a big deal. If you love someone whatever he far away from you is not a matter of hindrances. Even if that person live in the space of any other planet but you love him the most and want that person to be your in the entire of your life. Love makes no boundaries or distant away..

Many of us love to live nearby to family. It is so much convenient and economical. Many Malaysians tend to buy their houses in the same neighborhood to their parents so that they can visit each other often. Sometimes they do not cook but went to their parent's house to eat too. However, life is not always predictable. Therefore, we can always make some arrangement to make it works. We should appreciate love and the right person for us. Later he can asked for transfer in his job to your province. In this way, you can always be with your family. At the same time both of you should also planned to visit his family on festive occasion and make this relationship works. His family can also come and visit you too and spend time together. Take turns for festival visit too. Many families in Malaysia celebrate their festive holiday visiting their family alternate years. This year celebrate at the wife family hometown. Next year the man hometown. Of course, if both of you from the same hometown, it will be the best option!

As they would say, "love conquers all", so the distance shouldn't hinder you to go on with the relationship so long as you keep the love with each other. If you intend to be near your parents while you're married, then you can bring them along to the new place where you wanted to live. I intend to do so with my mom when I get married. Still, I would recommend that you get to know the man/boy that you've recently met, and if things work out with you two, then it would be great for you to try it out and go on with the love story that you might sweetestly share. God bless!

Well if I really love the person, distance will not be a problem. My mom and dad are from different places.My dad is from the city while my mom where from province.They met in the province of my mom and eventually got married.We stayed in my dad's town and do visit my mom's province from time to time.

No , i won't marry somebody whose hometown is far away from mine ,thus i will miss my country and my family , relatives ,friends very much ,i can't stand that . i am afraid alone

it doesn't matter if u love that person.. when u love some..1 thing that u want i just to be with him forever...