What would you do?

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I've talked about this on here before but not to this extent. Back story is I've been in love with the same guy since I was twelve. Yet do to things we couldn;t control we were separated and couldn't be together because he felt he had to do the right thing. Fast forward eleven years. A good friend of ours was recently in the hospital, my sister called and left a message with his wife for him. He never responded. I had spoken to another mutual friend of ours, who told me chances are she never even bothered to give him the message at all. He told me that he rarely even sees our friend even though he lives really close. And that when he has seen our friend he confides in him and tells him whats been going on. Now this friend inparticular didnt know of my and his situation at all, or what we had decided together that he should take responsibility I was told that the man I've always loved, needs permission to go to and from the house. After he comes home from work he has to run her around all over. She is constantly complaining to people looking for pity, that this "jerk" knocked her up and now shes stuck with him. (Obviously the man is question is far from a jerk, if he married her to take responsibility for his children) I know that this goes with what happened the last time I hung around them. She started in at him for no reason at all, nit picking over something so small I can't even remember what I believe potato chips?? Anyways he took so much and blew his top, came inches from her face and screaming. I knew this man for 29 years and in that moment he became a stranger to me. She had the nerve to turn around and say, do you see the jerk he is and what I have to put up with aren't you glad he chose me instead of you? He stormed out and punched the wall. His brother pulled me out of there behind him before I jumped down her throat. But thats nothing compared to what he told me next. He told me that my love, had told him. He really didn't have much choice from the beginning. That she had pressured and forced him into sleeping with her.(I know this sounds far fetched but the type of guy he is and the fact he loves me as I do him, and we had just began a break, I believe that) She also did so, knowing the times she would be ovolating to purposely get prego. She done this knowing that, he would not skip out on his responsibilities, and that I would allow him to do what ever he felt he needed to do. So now its apparent that the girl munipulated us both. Shes holding the kids and his house over his head, so he can not walk away. Yet she doesn't even love him just his money and the fact shes keeping him from where he wants to be. I don't know what to do about it, I really don't he tried to tell me a few years ago but I just wouldnt listen to him, and now she has ended al my contact with him, as shes scared hes just gonna walk anyways. Now I'm worried about him, a lot that I know this, unsure what to do.