Now a days it is easy to fall in love.......

@june2248 (154)
October 21, 2012 7:23am CST
Falling in love with strangers and getting a lot of wounds while they come to know that their lover is not a genuine person. If we come to know that our lover is not a good person, keep distance from him and try to forget him because there is no use to remembering dishonest person.Love is not a time pass thing to fall easily in it. This kind of online loves are true or not but most of the people are doing this for fun, be careful.....
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@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
21 Oct 12
It might be easy. but not a good idea. I have a few friends here that have only for the wrong reasons. One because of lack of money, and the other because of lonlyness. Both for all the wrong reasons.
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@june2248 (154)
4 Dec 12
Hi Mariaperalta, i believe if you are lacking of something and you are taking initiative for coming out of it but in a appropriate way then nothing is wrong. TK........
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
23 Oct 15
@mariaperalta Hi friend...Welcome back and happy mylotting...Miss you so much...
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
Yes that is true there are lots of people who are doing this for fun and they might not know it they already fall in love with the person on the net. When they met there are several incident wherein women became victims. Hope they will be very careful during any eyeball that might happen.
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@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
People should be aware of this specially those who are very young. Parents should monitor what their kids are doing online.
@june2248 (154)
12 Nov 12
Hi Pahak627, oh yes you are absolutely right, even i know a person suffering with the same that's why i have started this discussion. I am glad people are taking interest. TK
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
21 Oct 12
Yes, let everyone be careful! If a person is friendly, it doesn't mean that they are in love with you. We can be friends with anyone but love happens when it happens. There is no control there. Of course there are persons that easily fall in love and they easily fall out of love. Yes, by all means, let everyone be cautious. Then there are the users but that's another story.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
31 Oct 12
Yes, real love is everlasting!
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@june2248 (154)
31 Oct 12
Hi 1hopefulman, you said very true. Love happens when it happens but i am completely agree with pointlessQuestions statement that Love is not a one night stand. why people use internet to making relation? why they are not transparent? You know dear i asked same question to my mother she said known person is more harmful then unknown person.You can easily forget unknown person but its difficult to forget known person.
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@bhanusb (5709)
• India
21 Oct 12
To make love with a online friend is a love game. It can't be a true love. You must know your lover properly. Otherwise you may be deceived.
@june2248 (154)
31 Oct 12
Hi Bhanusb, right i think online love is something wastage of time and i believe there is so many things do online.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
I don't think it is love, maybe admiration, crushes or plainly lust. I don't consider those relationships are true love- easy come and easy go. Because true love is not easy to let go.
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@june2248 (154)
12 Nov 12
Hi Jaijo2009, true my friend even i don't believe in this kind of relationship.
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
21 Oct 12
Love is sacred , I think. We must be serious about our love. We can not fall in love with a man or a woman who still don't know or understand well, or we can get hurt easily. SO I think before we have a relation with a person, we have to get to know him or her first. Just my opinion, have a nice day!
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@june2248 (154)
31 Oct 12
Hi Caopaopao,yes we should be serious about our love but what if we are in friendship? i believe these days its become very difficult to judge people ether you know or not. TK
@buenavida (9985)
• Sweden
22 Oct 12
When I was young, a grown up friend gave a good advice. If I would look for a future husband, he must love God more than he loves me. It took a lot of time before I realized what this means. One thing is that we have to take a lot of time to learn to know the person and see how he behaves in different situations, how he treats others and how he handles stressful and challenging situations. The way we feel today, can change either to friendship or real love during a long time. But one should never be in a hurry. It is almost impossible to learn to know a person well only through Internet. Wish you a great life..
@adforme (2114)
21 Oct 12
In my opinion, love is honest, true, forgiving, and immortal. This is something I truly believe. You have to make the choice to have it in your life. You also have to know what it is. Meeting someone online is not always a way to have true love, but eventually one would have to take go offline to fulfill a relationship. Love is also more possible when one has a healthy relationship with oneself. Who wants to be with someone who is always in denial of their behavior or misunderstands love?
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Oct 12
Hi june if one falls in love that easily I doubt its love but lust just physical and thats not going to last. When you fall in love you want to be with this p erson. get to know more about him or her and share all about you, you want to know it all and he wants to know it all.. its easy to know when someone is not a good person. Its harder to know if you really are in love. but sometimes you do know and at once. You meet s omeone who makes you tingle and you hear bells g o off'and whistles, its all there. then when yo u sit down and talk'its as if you had known this man all your life. You find that you goth haave a ton of things in common. I would never do on line. You have to meet and learn all ab out each other. I know some people have met on line and found out they were a match b ut a lot of heartache has come f rom other on line experiences when they do meet,. one mylotter had to finally move with her family to get away from the o nline romeo who turned out tol be a deadly stalker.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Oct 12
typo alert both not goth have not haave sorry about that forgot to editl.
@GemmaR (8517)
21 Oct 12
I don't think that it is easier to fall in love these days, but I do think that there are fewer barriers. In the past, it would have been expected for us to marry the person who we wanted to have relations with, but now it is acceptable to try out several people before you decide who it is that you would like to marry. The internet does make it easier to meet new people, but that doesn't always mean that you're going to be able to find the person who is right for you and that you are going to be able to fall in love with.
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@june2248 (154)
31 Oct 12
Hi GemmaR, You are absolutely right its not easy to fall in love these days.Trying several people sometimes makes you confuse and internet does make it easier but still it difficult to find right person. TK
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
22 Oct 12
Hi June, I don't quite agree with you that these days it's easy to fall in love. Love is something deeper than physical attraction, or just a mere craving for companionship. I would say it's easier to be in a relationship, but even that depends on the kind of relationship we're referring to. You can be in a relationship but that doesn't mean you are in love. More often than not, people think they are in love when in fact they just want to have someone in their lives because they are afraid to be alone.
@june2248 (154)
17 Nov 12
Hi doryvien, i believe you are totally right but this is what i am talking about internet, online love. Were people go on with their blind talks and when they come to the reality about his or her date is not appropriate then they quit,they hurt other person or i can say they play with emotions. But your words are really true,this is the real meaning of love i can say. TK my friend
• United States
21 Oct 12
All too often that is not love and shouldn't be called that. Love is not a one night stand. It's not a love them and leave them kind of thing. Online relationships aren't even relationships if one is an opportunistic predator. I've been there. I've been lonely enough to go that route and was stung really bad for it. I lost the home my father built by letting one abusive predator into my life. Never again. I'd never put myself in that situation again. Some people have a decent experience but most are conned in some way by the sweet nothing's they say online.
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@june2248 (154)
31 Oct 12
Hi PointlessQuestions, I am really sorry to hear about you loss. I love to come on MyLot because of discussions but believe me don't like to chat online also i don't believe in online relationship.
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
23 Oct 15
I think online loves can be a true love or not a true love it depends on person to person. But be careful with person that we know online is must..