I Get Jealous With Other myLotters

@julyteen (13258)
Davao, Philippines
October 24, 2012 6:33am CST
OMG! It's annoying to respond in all her discussions. I observe she did a lot of discussion since yesterday and I never received even one notification informing me that she replied to my post. Wow! I think she want to post more than 50 discussions today and now knowing that she can't earn from us who leave comments to her discussions. She is a newbie here and possible she think she will earn from us who participated her discussion. Why newbies think about it that they can earn from other members because we leave a comment on their post. They didn't realize that all our earnings are based from our own participation. Should I tell this Lotters to concentrate her own activities not from others? If she responded us every time she got response I think she can earn more rather than leaving behind all her discussions. Should I felt jealous to this Lotters? I felt pity with her. She didn't even commented on any of my discussions. I want to remove her from my friends list so that I will no longer received any notification from her. What should I do?
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@jaiho2009 (38990)
• Philippines
24 Oct 12
Since she is your friend, try to send her a private message and tell her what you wrote here. There is nothing wrong giving information to newbies as long as they listen. There are newbies who doesn't listen to vets rather they find it offensive (lols it happens with me) hahaha So, I suggest you send a private message to that mylotter to make her aware and send her the Mylot FAQ's link as well.
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Oct 12
I will think it first before I will do it. I don't think so if she don't know about it because anywhere here we always mention about the participation to boost our earnings.
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@jaiho2009 (38990)
• Philippines
24 Oct 12
Not every newbie knows about it. And then they will come back ranting about earnings
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Oct 12
You are right! I think I need to PM her about the issue. Grrrhhh Why I cannot received notification on this post when somebody replied my comment
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@mariaperalta (19089)
• Mexico
31 Mar 13
There is plenty to go around her at mylot. i sure dont feel that way at all. Have a great day there...
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Mar 13
Yeah I know my friend. We can earn here not only for commenting back or posting our own discussion. We can maximize myLot according to our likes. I woke up very early today. Still 5am here now.
• Mexico
31 Mar 13
So did I, 430 am but its 204 pm here now. Have a super day here at my lot.
@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
1 Apr 13
We are advance almost 24 hours. I occasionally wake up at 4:00am because of Miguel. He want me to play him and he wanted my arms to carry him while I am dancing
@varier (5698)
• Indonesia
25 Oct 12
What's the reason to be jealous, anyway? If I were you, I actually don't really mind if he/she doesn't reply me back. No further discussion might means there's fewer chance for us to earn, but at least we earn from what we have already wrote. And if we are really interested in that discussion, we could try to give reply on another responses. Maybe they'll reply back better, even though we got no notifications if they are doing so..
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Oct 12
That's what I did to increase my activity instead of waiting the owner of the post to reply me back. I love to interact members who quickly reply my post.
@varier (5698)
• Indonesia
28 Oct 12
Now I couldn't reply you quick enough because I've been away for few days.. Now let me see, will you reply me back quick enough? Haha, just kidding. Enjoy your weekend!
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
2 Nov 12
@varier Hey buddy, Sorry, I didn't reply you back quickly. As I said, I don't have permanent internet connection here in my latest resident, I am living away from my home. It's temporary only. Soon I can reply you back quickly.
@mayka123 (12914)
• India
17 Nov 12
You get paid for whatever you post. So why should it make a difference to you which mylotter has posted the discussion. Just concentrate on the topic and if its something you can contribute to then go ahead and earn. Dont be jealous of what others post. I too am not able to take part in many of my friends discussions because they are on topics that I have nothing to contribute to. The loss is finally mine. But I dont bother who responds to my discussions and who doesnt. As long as there are enough discussions for me to respond to. Ofcourse the more responses I get for my discussions the more I am able to earn by counter commenting on each of them. But sometimes time does not permit me to be online everyday and I am not able to respond to comments on my own discussions. Thats okay becuase the loss is finally mine and no one elses. So others should not be bothered. Because finally we are all here to earn.
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Dec 12
That's only my opinion. I want this member to be part of my circulation. I want her to be aware that post volume of discussions won't boost your earnings here. They are thinking that by receiving bunch of response will make their earnings increase, which is not true.
@Jlyn10 (11107)
• Malaysia
1 Apr 13
They are thinking that by receiving bunch of response will make their earnings increase, which is not true. Well, that's because they don't know yet.
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
1 Apr 13
Those newbies think like what you say. So they are not commenting back after they posted their discussions
@adnileb (5067)
• Philippines
24 Oct 12
Don't get jealous. You still earn by commenting on her. But if you really care for her, you should tell her to respond and participate in her discussions. Or maybe, to remove the guilt, just delete her on your friend list.
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Oct 12
I felt pity with this Lotters, don't even care those who respond her post.
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@adnileb (5067)
• Philippines
24 Oct 12
Calm down... Calm down...
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Oct 12
Well, I'm still cool. As a good Lotters, I consider myself to be one of the model here not for wrong doings
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@cloud31 (5810)
24 Oct 12
You don't have to feel jealous about this,rather be pity to her.She posted a lot and thinks she can earned from all of her post but not to replies back maybe she doesn't read the guidelines and how to earn here in mylot. I can see a lot of mylotters doing the same but we cannot do anything about it unless we are able to tell them to get back and review the mylot earning pages.I'm on my clearing process too and I'm not able to start a new one unless clearing has been completed. In these few years I've stayed here in mylot there was only one case I deleted one mylotter who was added in my list.I'm not easy to be pissed off but I think its the right thing to do. I deleted her into my list so I'm no longer engaged with any of her activities. I accept friends requests and vise versa but this mylotters had reach my bottom line.So, I think I did the right thing. You can decide whether you delete her or not you can just send her a persnal message and advise her or otherwise.. Take care and Happy mylotting..
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Oct 12
I don't know if she is unaware about the guidelines because she has more than 500 post already. I have plan to delete her but I am worried about my earnings, atleast I can earn myself through her post. I did already deleting friends which didn't even participate to one of my discussion. What the used of our friendship?
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@cloud31 (5810)
24 Oct 12
reading those posted topics maybe!
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• Malaysia
24 Oct 12
I am curious, the fast way to earn points is by posting discussion or join other post discussion?
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@asliah (11144)
• Philippines
8 Dec 12
hi, it is also happen to me,i have referred a friend here in my work to join here and yes she joined but she never response to any of my created discussions but its okay with me,and i don't feel jealous because she more response to other mylot user discussion because i can earn from her participation.
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Dec 12
No problem on that because I have also a referral who doesn't response to any of my discussion since the beginning. I understand on her. Besides, everytime she post, I got a share on it. It's another story if one of your friends whom you always follow her/him but she/he neglected your post. Very awkward
@Jlyn10 (11107)
• Malaysia
1 Apr 13
Now I am jealous because your referrals are working and all mine ever does is sleeping on the job.
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
1 Apr 13
She's pregnant at the moment so she can't participate here. I don't know her latest updates since her last post telling she was pregnant
@litvillegas (1275)
• Philippines
25 Oct 12
Hello julyteen I think you don't have to be jealous. Since she's new here perhaps she doesn't know the rules. I know how you feel. You might disappointed with her, and that's a normal reaction. Maybe it's better to inform your friend what she suppose to do and give her suggestions to increase her earnings. That's a kind deed..:) Thank you for sharing and have a great day ahead!
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Oct 12
I observe this member yesterday, I found out she made one discussion only, I think she read already this post
• Philippines
26 Oct 12
:)... Really. Well, maybe she will response now to some discussions you've made or to others...
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
2 Nov 12
Since then, I only found one response from her but that was more than a month ago
@SinfulRose (3528)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Oct 12
Have you already informed her of MyLot's rule? Or even advised her to read the site's faqs and guidelines? There is no reason to get jealous with this MyLot user. In fact, I agree with one commenter here. We should take pity to that user and inform her of the rules instead of just letting her be.
@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Oct 12
Better she is not online today. I didn't get any notification from her
• Davao, Philippines
25 Oct 12
You can set it whether or not you want to receive a notification of her activities under your friends feature, you know. Besides, notification or no, you must make her notice of the rules. Ain't that a duty of a true friend?
@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
2 Nov 12
Should I turn it off? If you are in my side?
• Indonesia
25 Oct 12
Hi Julyteen, no don't be jealous of her because you are doing so much better than what the person did. If she abandoned all the responses she received and lost the chance to earn better, I dont think it is something to be jealous for. Because she is a newbie, I think the best way is talking to her about this problem. Maybe she doesnt know how mylot works and maybe she get the wrong guidance about mylot, I saw some people said make this xx comments in a day then you will earn xx money in the following day, that is totally wrong and misleading because there is no fixed rate for every post we made here, it is all depend on the quality of our participation. You can start a conversation with her like, hey I have a secret to share how to earn better income on mylot, would you care to know? The secret is not posting a lot of discussion in a day because mylot is not a writing site where we get paid based on page view or how many responses we get, nor making XX post to earn XX money but the key is to make a quality participation, comment back to the discussion you started, build a conversation with other members in the response box, it will give you better chance to earn higher earning than when you only post a discussion then leave it never comment back there. If you are tired from the notifications whenever she started a discussion you can turn it off, so you dont have your email inbox flooded by notification from her discussions. I like adding active people who likes to start new discussion, but people on my friend list doesnt started 50 discussion in a day...that's a lot.
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Oct 12
You are right. Maybe she is thinking the way you mention above. We are not like those who give more earnings if we can gather thousands of page views everyday. The best thing to start the conversation is by replying your comment on her discussions. If she don't care about it, no discussions will happen in the first place.
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• Indonesia
25 Oct 12
I dont know if I ever come across this member that you are talking about in your discussion, I have not been around here a lot lately. But we also need to pick our words carefully when we are giving advice to other, sometime people misinterpret our good intention, they thought we are being rude by correcting them so they won't listen to us. Some people is being stubborn when they think other people is lecturing them. We are trying to help and if they dont care, it is their lost. It is mylot, where people from different backgrounds and different characters meet.
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Oct 12
It's about their EGo don't want to listen others. They think more superior than other people. Yes, we should be careful in dealing those individuals
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• Canada
24 Oct 12
Boy this is ignoring! First all I would sent her a private nessage saying earning comes from mylot program and it based on quality of discussion and replies she should make and she need going back to by reading all terms and faqs. If problem still persist, you can ignore her discussion or temporary remove her! I recall one my friend, started lots of discussion by complaining who one replies, after going through replies, I noticed she didn't responsed to any of those! That member is not a newbie and simply remove! I hope this help.
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Oct 12
I want to observe her until tomorrow, if still she did the same way. I will give her a nice shots from my topic
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• Canada
24 Oct 12
In addtions to comment above, she should also consider applying "Golden Rule" towards members!
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Oct 12
What kind of Golden Rule?
@Jlyn10 (11107)
• Malaysia
1 Apr 13
Hi julyteen I also had the same thought when I was new here. But I had some good people here who gave me some good advice. So now when I come across such people, I always share what I learned. What you can do is to advise her that she will not earn much if she doesn't comment back to her responses in her discussions. Helping out a friend to earn is always a good thing, ya?
@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
1 Apr 13
She knows already about it. This posted last year and after a month of circulating this post and the comments, she was responded on this discussion and she apologize. She is inactive now, didn't see her around beginning of this year.
@Jlyn10 (11107)
• Malaysia
1 Apr 13
That's too bad or she could have earned a lot here.
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
1 Apr 13
On this page you will find here. Atleast she accept it
@shibham (17019)
• India
25 Oct 12
Well, i always avoid such starters and never even give a look on their topics. It irritates me and if someone starts more than three consecutive discussions, then s/he pays less attention from me in future. I dont know why some people dont tend to read the guideline and irritate others. Have a nice time.
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Oct 12
Yes you are right. To post one discussion in one day would be enough. You can even earn more than your earnings while posting more than 20 a days. Atleast you can comment back to all Lotters who responded your post.
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• United States
25 Oct 12
Some start 30 or more a day, but I can relate to many of them and leave a comment. This person is my friend and I support her. If she does any poll discussions I will avoid them, but any discussions I can add to I will, and she does come onto my discussions too.. she doesn't ignore me for her own discussions. This person I am responding to so often is about the only one who is a mega discussion starter. She makes really good money here, so I don't fault her at all.
@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Oct 12
If we cannot make a comment back to our commentors why we still post another discussion? There is no more interaction and discussion happened if you leave you discussion without replying to anyone
@echoforever (5189)
• United States
24 Oct 12
If I were you I would either tell them these things, remove them from your list or turn off the notification for them in the friends list.
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Oct 12
I think that a nice idea, I will not remove her from my list. Instead, I only turn off the notification for her
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• United States
24 Oct 12
I do this because there is a way to see what your friends right here on myLot. There isn't a need to have that notification in emails for friends. At least not for me.
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
2 Nov 12
I admire you for following my discussion more often
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
24 Oct 12
awwww :D maybe she doesn't know that's why =) when I joined mylot, I honestly didn't know how this work too. But I am just conscious enough about such things. I actually hate spam so seeing such would look like spam. but anyway, maybe she would learn upon staying here few more days =D
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Oct 12
Maybe she doesn't observe what's going on here. If she frequently join a discussions to the veteran members, she will know how it works I admire for being aware about the issue
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• Philippines
22 Nov 12
i agree meowchie i am like that too i dont know how to work it out but after few days i learn and now i am having fun
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Jan 13
Newbies don't know at the beginning on what to do here but later on with constant posting they will learn from other members As long you are consistent and willing to learn you will become veterans in the future
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@mariaperalta (19089)
• Mexico
24 Oct 12
Hello dear- no need to get jealous at anyone here. we are all here having fun and earning a few dollars. You have a great day there. See you here soon.
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Oct 12
I felt frustrated because I am expecting she participate on my discussion so she can continue earning from her activity but it seems she neglect all the response on her post.
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
2 Nov 12
@balipromo Hey, Wow, until now she still posting more than 20 discussions a day. Maybe one day when she read this discussion, she will be aware.
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@Aja103654 (5654)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
You can choose to be kind and tell her how mylot actually works. Don't get upset that she didn't reply to your posts. Besides, we only earn from our own participation. Her problem is hers. Don't let it bother you. If you really dislike this lotter of course you are free to block her any time you want.
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Dec 12
I felt pity not upset.
• Philippines
4 Nov 12
Thanks for posting this discussion! Now, I'm already aware on another of the do's and don'ts here in MyLot! Have a great day to all! :)
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Dec 12
If you want to boost your earnings, don't depend on posting volume of discussions. When you observe, even you post 100 discussions in a day, your earnings not much compared to interacting on the different responses from your discussions. Don't be mislead by some misinterpretations.
• United States
25 Oct 12
There are many new Lotters here that don’t know that they don’t earn by our responses to them. They don’t realize they have to actually RESPOND in order to earn. They don’t realize they have to participate in a discussion and not just post a discussion. The more we type the more we earn. It’s as simple as that. If you know your friend is behaving this way, it is best you inform her of this rather than just complain about it. You may think she knows how to earn here, but if she isn’t doing it… she isn’t earning much. She would earn much better if she participated. Don’t worry so much about her not commenting on your discussions. If you have good discussions people will come and leave a comment and you will have a chance to be a good host to your own discussions. Newbies often have to learn how important it is to be a good host, because we will not bother with them if they never come back and respond to their own discussions or respond to our own. Those that never learn will eventually leave here. I’ve seen so many give up because they don’t know how it works or they don’t want to work to earn.
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Oct 12
She is a newly added friend to my list, thinking that she can help me to participate. Well, the reason why I sometimes added some members it's because I want to interact them in my own discussions. The more members respond, the busy I am doing a comment back activities. I am disappointed a little bit
@jazel_juan (15758)
• Philippines
25 Oct 12
i do not think you should be jealous of her, you thinking about her is just giving you more anxiety and aggravation..let her be and move on.
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@julyteen (13258)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Oct 12
But I am not affected so much about her attitude. I just want her to know about myLot and how it works